Lisa M. Hayes
@lisamhayes.bsky.social
Lisa Hayes is a trailblazing life coach and mentor, known for her deep, transformative approach to coaching that challenges the status quo. As the founder and lead trainer at www.thecoachingguld.com. Editor at www.confluencedaily.com.
They’d rather have you numb in front of a screen than wild, ecstatic, and alive.
Pleasure isn’t reckless—it’s medicine. Your joy is an uprising.
Full post here 👉
www.lisamhayes.com/pleasure-isn...
Pleasure isn’t reckless—it’s medicine. Your joy is an uprising.
Full post here 👉
www.lisamhayes.com/pleasure-isn...
September 10, 2025 at 6:56 PM
They’d rather have you numb in front of a screen than wild, ecstatic, and alive.
Pleasure isn’t reckless—it’s medicine. Your joy is an uprising.
Full post here 👉
www.lisamhayes.com/pleasure-isn...
Pleasure isn’t reckless—it’s medicine. Your joy is an uprising.
Full post here 👉
www.lisamhayes.com/pleasure-isn...
We’ve been told to be quieter, kinder, easier to swallow. But safety didn’t come from softness. It came from power. And sometimes, from fear.
Not vengeance—balance.
We don’t want domination. We want to live.
👉 www.lisamhayes.com/let-them-be-...
Not vengeance—balance.
We don’t want domination. We want to live.
👉 www.lisamhayes.com/let-them-be-...
July 25, 2025 at 7:45 PM
We’ve been told to be quieter, kinder, easier to swallow. But safety didn’t come from softness. It came from power. And sometimes, from fear.
Not vengeance—balance.
We don’t want domination. We want to live.
👉 www.lisamhayes.com/let-them-be-...
Not vengeance—balance.
We don’t want domination. We want to live.
👉 www.lisamhayes.com/let-them-be-...
They told you to heal in a way that made you more productive.
More quiet.
More "good."
My work isn’t about self-improvement.
It’s a reclamation.
Unfiltered. Unrushed. Unruly.
🖤 New post: “Stop Being Good. Start Being Free.”
www.lisamhayes.com/be-unruly-be...
More quiet.
More "good."
My work isn’t about self-improvement.
It’s a reclamation.
Unfiltered. Unrushed. Unruly.
🖤 New post: “Stop Being Good. Start Being Free.”
www.lisamhayes.com/be-unruly-be...
June 17, 2025 at 7:56 PM
They told you to heal in a way that made you more productive.
More quiet.
More "good."
My work isn’t about self-improvement.
It’s a reclamation.
Unfiltered. Unrushed. Unruly.
🖤 New post: “Stop Being Good. Start Being Free.”
www.lisamhayes.com/be-unruly-be...
More quiet.
More "good."
My work isn’t about self-improvement.
It’s a reclamation.
Unfiltered. Unrushed. Unruly.
🖤 New post: “Stop Being Good. Start Being Free.”
www.lisamhayes.com/be-unruly-be...
You don’t have to heal like a good girl.
You don’t have to stay pretty, quiet, or palatable to be whole.
Let it be messy.
Let it be sacred.
Let it be yours.
🖤 New post: Stop Healing Like a Good Girl
www.lisamhayes.com/what-if-heal...
You don’t have to stay pretty, quiet, or palatable to be whole.
Let it be messy.
Let it be sacred.
Let it be yours.
🖤 New post: Stop Healing Like a Good Girl
www.lisamhayes.com/what-if-heal...
May 29, 2025 at 7:04 PM
You don’t have to heal like a good girl.
You don’t have to stay pretty, quiet, or palatable to be whole.
Let it be messy.
Let it be sacred.
Let it be yours.
🖤 New post: Stop Healing Like a Good Girl
www.lisamhayes.com/what-if-heal...
You don’t have to stay pretty, quiet, or palatable to be whole.
Let it be messy.
Let it be sacred.
Let it be yours.
🖤 New post: Stop Healing Like a Good Girl
www.lisamhayes.com/what-if-heal...
You were never too much.
You were a mirror the world couldn’t stand to look into.
There’s a version of you—
feral, holy, and unbothered by permission—
who never forgot.
This is for her.
🖤 New post: “You Are More Terrifying Than You Know”
www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-more...
You were a mirror the world couldn’t stand to look into.
There’s a version of you—
feral, holy, and unbothered by permission—
who never forgot.
This is for her.
🖤 New post: “You Are More Terrifying Than You Know”
www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-more...
May 27, 2025 at 7:56 PM
You were never too much.
You were a mirror the world couldn’t stand to look into.
There’s a version of you—
feral, holy, and unbothered by permission—
who never forgot.
This is for her.
🖤 New post: “You Are More Terrifying Than You Know”
www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-more...
You were a mirror the world couldn’t stand to look into.
There’s a version of you—
feral, holy, and unbothered by permission—
who never forgot.
This is for her.
🖤 New post: “You Are More Terrifying Than You Know”
www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-more...
.This world doesn’t need more order.
It needs women who remember how to read the dark.
You don’t owe them your silence.
Or your softness.
Or your survival.
You were always magic.
✨ Read the full spell here: www.lisamhayes.com/you-were-alw...
It needs women who remember how to read the dark.
You don’t owe them your silence.
Or your softness.
Or your survival.
You were always magic.
✨ Read the full spell here: www.lisamhayes.com/you-were-alw...
May 13, 2025 at 6:50 PM
.This world doesn’t need more order.
It needs women who remember how to read the dark.
You don’t owe them your silence.
Or your softness.
Or your survival.
You were always magic.
✨ Read the full spell here: www.lisamhayes.com/you-were-alw...
It needs women who remember how to read the dark.
You don’t owe them your silence.
Or your softness.
Or your survival.
You were always magic.
✨ Read the full spell here: www.lisamhayes.com/you-were-alw...
May 9, 2025 at 6:48 PM
You built the life you were supposed to want—
but it feels like you’re watching it through glass.
This isn’t failure.
It’s a threshold.
And the way forward starts by coming home to you.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-grey-sca...
but it feels like you’re watching it through glass.
This isn’t failure.
It’s a threshold.
And the way forward starts by coming home to you.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-grey-sca...
May 8, 2025 at 6:28 PM
You built the life you were supposed to want—
but it feels like you’re watching it through glass.
This isn’t failure.
It’s a threshold.
And the way forward starts by coming home to you.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-grey-sca...
but it feels like you’re watching it through glass.
This isn’t failure.
It’s a threshold.
And the way forward starts by coming home to you.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-grey-sca...
The revolution doesn’t need more good girls.
It needs women who remember they are wild—
unmanageable, untamed, and absolutely necessary.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-revoluti...
#Rewilding #RadicalFeminism #WomenWhoLead #RevolutionaryEnergy
It needs women who remember they are wild—
unmanageable, untamed, and absolutely necessary.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-revoluti...
#Rewilding #RadicalFeminism #WomenWhoLead #RevolutionaryEnergy
May 7, 2025 at 5:41 PM
The revolution doesn’t need more good girls.
It needs women who remember they are wild—
unmanageable, untamed, and absolutely necessary.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-revoluti...
#Rewilding #RadicalFeminism #WomenWhoLead #RevolutionaryEnergy
It needs women who remember they are wild—
unmanageable, untamed, and absolutely necessary.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-revoluti...
#Rewilding #RadicalFeminism #WomenWhoLead #RevolutionaryEnergy
They erased the feminine divine to control what they couldn’t embody.
But we didn’t forget.
We’re not asking to be sacred—we’ve always been.
🖤 Read the full piece: www.lisamhayes.com/she-was-the-...
#SacredFeminine #Rewilding #SpiritualReclamation #FeministSpirituality #TempleInHerOwnBones
But we didn’t forget.
We’re not asking to be sacred—we’ve always been.
🖤 Read the full piece: www.lisamhayes.com/she-was-the-...
#SacredFeminine #Rewilding #SpiritualReclamation #FeministSpirituality #TempleInHerOwnBones
May 6, 2025 at 6:36 PM
They erased the feminine divine to control what they couldn’t embody.
But we didn’t forget.
We’re not asking to be sacred—we’ve always been.
🖤 Read the full piece: www.lisamhayes.com/she-was-the-...
#SacredFeminine #Rewilding #SpiritualReclamation #FeministSpirituality #TempleInHerOwnBones
But we didn’t forget.
We’re not asking to be sacred—we’ve always been.
🖤 Read the full piece: www.lisamhayes.com/she-was-the-...
#SacredFeminine #Rewilding #SpiritualReclamation #FeministSpirituality #TempleInHerOwnBones
You don’t need another breakthrough.
You need to come home to yourself.
To the parts you forgot.
To the wisdom beneath the noise.
To the version of you that was never lost—just buried.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-don-t-ne...
#RadicalCoaching #SelfRemembering #CoachingForWomen #HealingWork
You need to come home to yourself.
To the parts you forgot.
To the wisdom beneath the noise.
To the version of you that was never lost—just buried.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-don-t-ne...
#RadicalCoaching #SelfRemembering #CoachingForWomen #HealingWork
May 1, 2025 at 6:54 PM
You don’t need another breakthrough.
You need to come home to yourself.
To the parts you forgot.
To the wisdom beneath the noise.
To the version of you that was never lost—just buried.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-don-t-ne...
#RadicalCoaching #SelfRemembering #CoachingForWomen #HealingWork
You need to come home to yourself.
To the parts you forgot.
To the wisdom beneath the noise.
To the version of you that was never lost—just buried.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-don-t-ne...
#RadicalCoaching #SelfRemembering #CoachingForWomen #HealingWork
You’re not burned out because you’re broken.
You’re burned out because you’re living through collapse.
Self-care matters, but it won’t save us from fascism.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/self-help-wo...
#AntiCapitalism #SelfCareTruth #CollectiveHealing #CoachingThatResists #FascismFatigue
You’re burned out because you’re living through collapse.
Self-care matters, but it won’t save us from fascism.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/self-help-wo...
#AntiCapitalism #SelfCareTruth #CollectiveHealing #CoachingThatResists #FascismFatigue
April 30, 2025 at 4:54 PM
You’re not burned out because you’re broken.
You’re burned out because you’re living through collapse.
Self-care matters, but it won’t save us from fascism.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/self-help-wo...
#AntiCapitalism #SelfCareTruth #CollectiveHealing #CoachingThatResists #FascismFatigue
You’re burned out because you’re living through collapse.
Self-care matters, but it won’t save us from fascism.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/self-help-wo...
#AntiCapitalism #SelfCareTruth #CollectiveHealing #CoachingThatResists #FascismFatigue
You don’t need a niche. You need range.
The future of coaching isn’t about packaging—it’s about presence.
We’re not building brands. We’re building coaches who can hold grief, rage, joy, and truth in the same breath.
🖤 www.thecoachingguild.com/you-don-t-ne...
The future of coaching isn’t about packaging—it’s about presence.
We’re not building brands. We’re building coaches who can hold grief, rage, joy, and truth in the same breath.
🖤 www.thecoachingguild.com/you-don-t-ne...
April 29, 2025 at 6:25 PM
You don’t need a niche. You need range.
The future of coaching isn’t about packaging—it’s about presence.
We’re not building brands. We’re building coaches who can hold grief, rage, joy, and truth in the same breath.
🖤 www.thecoachingguild.com/you-don-t-ne...
The future of coaching isn’t about packaging—it’s about presence.
We’re not building brands. We’re building coaches who can hold grief, rage, joy, and truth in the same breath.
🖤 www.thecoachingguild.com/you-don-t-ne...
You were never here by accident.
You are favored by the old gods—the ones who chose survivors, truth-tellers, warriors.
You carry a strength this world forgot it needed.
It’s time to remember.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-favo...
#WildPresence #SacredResilience #Unbreakable #HealingIsResistance
You are favored by the old gods—the ones who chose survivors, truth-tellers, warriors.
You carry a strength this world forgot it needed.
It’s time to remember.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-favo...
#WildPresence #SacredResilience #Unbreakable #HealingIsResistance
April 29, 2025 at 5:06 PM
You were never here by accident.
You are favored by the old gods—the ones who chose survivors, truth-tellers, warriors.
You carry a strength this world forgot it needed.
It’s time to remember.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-favo...
#WildPresence #SacredResilience #Unbreakable #HealingIsResistance
You are favored by the old gods—the ones who chose survivors, truth-tellers, warriors.
You carry a strength this world forgot it needed.
It’s time to remember.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-favo...
#WildPresence #SacredResilience #Unbreakable #HealingIsResistance
We were never meant to heal alone.
Self-care matters, but it won’t fix what community neglect has broken.
The self-care industrial complex is profitable—but it’s not revolutionary.
We need each other.
Always have.
Always will.
www.lisamhayes.com/self-care-wa...
Self-care matters, but it won’t fix what community neglect has broken.
The self-care industrial complex is profitable—but it’s not revolutionary.
We need each other.
Always have.
Always will.
www.lisamhayes.com/self-care-wa...
April 25, 2025 at 7:34 PM
We were never meant to heal alone.
Self-care matters, but it won’t fix what community neglect has broken.
The self-care industrial complex is profitable—but it’s not revolutionary.
We need each other.
Always have.
Always will.
www.lisamhayes.com/self-care-wa...
Self-care matters, but it won’t fix what community neglect has broken.
The self-care industrial complex is profitable—but it’s not revolutionary.
We need each other.
Always have.
Always will.
www.lisamhayes.com/self-care-wa...
If your coaching can’t hold grief, rage, or silence—
it’s not transformation.
It’s performance.
We train coaches who don’t flinch.
This isn’t a brand.
It’s a revolution.
Join us → www.thecoachingguild.com/the-coaching...
it’s not transformation.
It’s performance.
We train coaches who don’t flinch.
This isn’t a brand.
It’s a revolution.
Join us → www.thecoachingguild.com/the-coaching...
April 22, 2025 at 9:04 PM
If your coaching can’t hold grief, rage, or silence—
it’s not transformation.
It’s performance.
We train coaches who don’t flinch.
This isn’t a brand.
It’s a revolution.
Join us → www.thecoachingguild.com/the-coaching...
it’s not transformation.
It’s performance.
We train coaches who don’t flinch.
This isn’t a brand.
It’s a revolution.
Join us → www.thecoachingguild.com/the-coaching...
He is not waiting as patiently as it looks for his lunch snacks
April 17, 2025 at 8:41 PM
He is not waiting as patiently as it looks for his lunch snacks
You don’t need a mindset reset.
You need a reckoning.
This is coaching that doesn’t flinch—
at your grief, your rage, or your truth.
Not self-improvement.
Reclamation.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/coaching-tha...
You need a reckoning.
This is coaching that doesn’t flinch—
at your grief, your rage, or your truth.
Not self-improvement.
Reclamation.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/coaching-tha...
April 17, 2025 at 5:05 PM
You don’t need a mindset reset.
You need a reckoning.
This is coaching that doesn’t flinch—
at your grief, your rage, or your truth.
Not self-improvement.
Reclamation.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/coaching-tha...
You need a reckoning.
This is coaching that doesn’t flinch—
at your grief, your rage, or your truth.
Not self-improvement.
Reclamation.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/coaching-tha...
Before they rewrote the sacred,
God was a woman.
You weren’t made to kneel.
You were the altar.
You were the temple all along.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/you-were-the...
God was a woman.
You weren’t made to kneel.
You were the altar.
You were the temple all along.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/you-were-the...
April 15, 2025 at 5:19 PM
Before they rewrote the sacred,
God was a woman.
You weren’t made to kneel.
You were the altar.
You were the temple all along.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/you-were-the...
God was a woman.
You weren’t made to kneel.
You were the altar.
You were the temple all along.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/you-were-the...
The world doesn’t need you to be smaller.
It needs you whole.
Unapologetic.
Magical.
You were never too much.
You were always the medicine.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/the-world-ne...
It needs you whole.
Unapologetic.
Magical.
You were never too much.
You were always the medicine.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/the-world-ne...
April 11, 2025 at 6:12 PM
The world doesn’t need you to be smaller.
It needs you whole.
Unapologetic.
Magical.
You were never too much.
You were always the medicine.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/the-world-ne...
It needs you whole.
Unapologetic.
Magical.
You were never too much.
You were always the medicine.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/the-world-ne...
You’re not broken. You’re just buried.
You don’t need fixing.
You need remembering.
The unfucked life is the one where you stop apologizing and start living.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/the-unfucked...
You don’t need fixing.
You need remembering.
The unfucked life is the one where you stop apologizing and start living.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/the-unfucked...
April 9, 2025 at 6:04 PM
You’re not broken. You’re just buried.
You don’t need fixing.
You need remembering.
The unfucked life is the one where you stop apologizing and start living.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/the-unfucked...
You don’t need fixing.
You need remembering.
The unfucked life is the one where you stop apologizing and start living.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/the-unfucked...
You’re not broken.
You’re just full of stories, expectations, and beliefs that were never yours.
This isn’t healing.
It’s exorcism.
It’s sacred.
It’s time.
Read the full piece →
www.lisamhayes.com/the-exorcism
You’re just full of stories, expectations, and beliefs that were never yours.
This isn’t healing.
It’s exorcism.
It’s sacred.
It’s time.
Read the full piece →
www.lisamhayes.com/the-exorcism
April 2, 2025 at 5:12 PM
You’re not broken.
You’re just full of stories, expectations, and beliefs that were never yours.
This isn’t healing.
It’s exorcism.
It’s sacred.
It’s time.
Read the full piece →
www.lisamhayes.com/the-exorcism
You’re just full of stories, expectations, and beliefs that were never yours.
This isn’t healing.
It’s exorcism.
It’s sacred.
It’s time.
Read the full piece →
www.lisamhayes.com/the-exorcism
Durable joy isn’t the kind that waits for life to be perfect.
It lives inside the mess.
It holds steady in grief.
It stays.
This is the joy that rebuilds us.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/durable-joy
It lives inside the mess.
It holds steady in grief.
It stays.
This is the joy that rebuilds us.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/durable-joy
April 1, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Durable joy isn’t the kind that waits for life to be perfect.
It lives inside the mess.
It holds steady in grief.
It stays.
This is the joy that rebuilds us.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/durable-joy
It lives inside the mess.
It holds steady in grief.
It stays.
This is the joy that rebuilds us.
Read the full piece → www.lisamhayes.com/durable-joy