There actually have been times when I expressed discomfort or shared my feelings about things I wasn’t okay with, even if I didn’t explicitly label them as boundaries or hard 'No's. It's because I doubted myself that I did not advocate for my 'no's.

I confronted Lucy about this personally.

Where I'm at: While I once hoped for an apology or private accountability from Lucy Sweetkill, I've accepted that such closure will never come. I understand that many will continue to support her despite my speaking out about the abuse I experienced under her mentorship. So why share my story?

Where I'm at: While I once hoped for an apology or private accountability from Lucy Sweetkill, I've accepted that such closure will never come. I understand that many will continue to support her despite my speaking out about the abuse I experienced under her mentorship. So why share my story?

When I told Lucy I didn't want to stop escorting- she threatened my living situation, the removal of my community, and the career that I was trying to build. So yeah, I could have said no but there were consequences.

This is exactly the type of dismissal I went through after trying to privately get accountability from being harmed.

Lucy Sweetkill was my abuser and what I went through under her as her mentee deserves to be heard. I asked for accountability privately since May of 2023 and no one has acknowledged anything.

The way some (not all) dommes market their services under the guise of education, life coaching, and empowerment feels is pretty gross. (Feels like MLM) Charging a lot of money to SW newcomers in the name of "education" is exploitative and scammy.

I have decided to come forward and name the person who has hurt me without taking responsibility. I believe it is crucial to share my experience and raise awareness, as I fear this individual may pose a risk to others. My former mentor, Lucy Sweetkill, is the person I am speaking about.

I wrote about my experience in a BDSM mentorship that brought both growth and trauma. I hope to show the complex power dynamics that arise when personal and professional boundaries blur, particularly in mentorship relationships within marginalized communities.

mylkpuff.substack.com/p/coming-soon

Responsible mentors don't curate selective positive testimonials while erasing unsavory feedback from others. My definition of informed consent in professional BDSM mentorships requires transparency about past experiences - both positive and negative.