Debs “Life” Aspland
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Debs “Life” Aspland
@lifeaspland.bsky.social
Parent carer to 3 young adults (how did that happen?). Juggling festival accessibility (Festability), coding, and tools for parent carers. . Bold, sarcastic, and armed with many planners.
Seriously? What is this government doing? It’s like we’re in a parody and someone is going to shout “surprise, only joking” soon!
May 17, 2025 at 10:43 PM
Emptying my head onto paper - the good, the bad, the random, the real - is how I stay upright, or at least how I get back up faster when life knocks me down.
Whether it's a to-do, a memory, something the kids said, or just how I'm feeling, it all lands here first.
#ParentCarerLife #SENDParent
April 21, 2025 at 10:10 AM
Let’s be clear: this isn’t about balancing the books. These benefits are a LIFELINE— keeping disabled people out of poverty, preventing isolation, and ensuring they have the dignity and independence they deserve. Cutting them isn’t "tough but necessary"—it’s CRUEL AND AVOIDABLE.
March 12, 2025 at 3:44 PM
The sky looks how we all feel today - dark and miserable. Blue Monday doesn’t begin to cover how bad today is.
January 20, 2025 at 7:39 AM
A fabulous read - sat here now with pen and paper planning a “variation on a theme”
Thank you @ledbydonkeys.org for your amazing work.
January 15, 2025 at 3:21 PM
It’s cold out there, the kettle is on and as I sit with my brew, I’m reminding myself that the clocks go forward in 81 days ❤️☀️🌸
January 8, 2025 at 8:01 AM
When your husband shows how happy he is with his gifts - playing his portal with his thermal hat, snood and socks on!
December 28, 2024 at 9:37 PM
When you’re the spare human and your dog spends his day looking out the window for the people he prefers.
December 6, 2024 at 11:22 AM
We recorded an episode of SEND Shenanigans last week and this was exactly what we were saying. Get it right for SEND and it works for everyone. It’s good to know that we’re not alone.
November 30, 2024 at 9:07 AM
Some quotes just hit hard. Years of not prioritising my needs has left me giving everyone what’s left of me, instead of my best of me. I’m starting to practice what I preach. You?

lifeaspland.com/give-the-wor...
November 30, 2024 at 8:32 AM
I wish I didn’t have so many ideas. My brain comes up with random thoughts which I then treat like a spark for a new project. Thank f for post it notes and notebooks!
November 30, 2024 at 8:02 AM
Do not be misled by this cute face! This boy is a bag of energy and nothing is sacred. If you have ever thought you couldn’t achieve a minimalist look in your home, get one of these and you’ll be amazed how much storage you can find to hide everything!
November 14, 2024 at 8:13 AM
Did you know I have a free bi-monthly digital magazine especially for parent carers? KinToa - all about the parent carer life but tips in there will work for many. There are 5 editions available.

lifeaspland.com/kintoa-magaz...

#parentcarer
November 11, 2024 at 8:03 AM
Parent carer to 3 young adults (how?!?), while organising an inclusive music festival or creating parent carer tools. Other times you'll find me obsessing over my latest planner setup or finding humour in everyday mayhem. Looking forward to connecting with like minded folk without egos 🙄🤣
November 7, 2024 at 1:14 AM