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Squal
@lavishsqualor.bsky.social
All of us are better when we’re loved.
the internet has made so much shit go Way Too Far
December 3, 2025 at 6:27 PM
This making you type everything in… makes me So Angry. Like, people don’t know how to read resumes anymore? They can only compare candidates if their work experience and education is formatted into their specific form?
December 2, 2025 at 9:11 PM
2) My high school sweetheart’s younger sister, who is my age and was a good friend, just lost her baby during an emergency C-section birth and is in the hospital with kidney failure on her 40th birthday. My heart BREAKS for her and her family.
November 27, 2025 at 8:01 PM
with anti-seizure meds a couple weeks ago and now she is back in and they’ve finally figured out what is happening. I am so worried for her life right now and scared of any possible long term effects. My heart is breaking for my husband’s aunt (she’s younger than us & my favorite of all my in laws…)
November 27, 2025 at 8:01 PM
I’ve always just used Brita filtered water… like when running for my sick toddler. Is this terrible??
November 23, 2025 at 1:10 AM
Thank you for this advice! Have been trying it for a few nights now!
November 22, 2025 at 12:41 PM
I was thinking someone might say Carmex! two problems though… a girl I still resent from college used it religiously so I strongly associate it w her… and, looked it up, and it’s got a couple ingredients I’m now scared to use post-cancer. but I do remember it being v effective when I borrowed hers!
November 22, 2025 at 12:41 PM
yeah, I think I’ve determined it’s the estrogen blocker. like this is NOT my lip skin. but yday, finally, I found something that is helping. used it all day, and now this morning, they’re finally feeling a little better. 🙌🏼
November 22, 2025 at 12:39 PM
bc we are old, yo
November 20, 2025 at 3:07 AM
no, but seriously, does anyone have any recommendations? like, they HURT.

normally the Laneige lip sleeping mask gets me through the winter. but not this year. I’ve been faithfully using a whipped shea butter coconut oil blend a friend makes, I’ve tried pure Vaseline. nothing is working!!
November 18, 2025 at 3:30 PM
I don’t think it’s there. only on LJ. let me try to find the LJ link (though I do have the pdf but it doesn’t include the preamble/warnings…)
November 17, 2025 at 12:46 AM
you’ve got to verify your age to DM?!!! that is so fucked. also, still no group chats (that I know of) and no saved drafts. if I’m ever gonna get comfortable here, they need to step it up.

and yes, yes we do both have iphones! yay!
November 17, 2025 at 12:45 AM
YES YES YOU HAVE TO
November 17, 2025 at 12:41 AM
this is very exciting for us!!
November 17, 2025 at 12:40 AM
I’m not sure why I’ve been putting it off… scared, maybe
November 17, 2025 at 12:39 AM
I am THRILLED. I couldn’t get into Walker, so this is a very exciting development!!!
November 16, 2025 at 11:23 PM
was it for Deadsville? (one of my faaaaave J2 AUs ever)
November 16, 2025 at 11:22 PM
Sounds like we are both dealing with health issues that suck very very bad. Love you, darling. Will reach out soon. 🫂
November 16, 2025 at 11:18 PM
Thank you, love. Girl I miss you so much. I have a phone plan where I can text American numbers for free. How about you? Otherwise, can we start DMing some more?
November 16, 2025 at 2:52 PM
I need to get on the forums. You are so right. Thank you for the gentle reminder, hun 💜
November 16, 2025 at 2:50 PM