Laura Vanhapelto | Love & Empowerment Coach
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Laura Vanhapelto | Love & Empowerment Coach
@lauravanhapelto.bsky.social
Somatic Love, Sex & Empowerment Coach
• Guiding Women to Purpose & Pleasure
• Tantric Wisdom & Modern Science
• Trauma-informed | VITA™ | TRE®
• 1:1 Coaching online | Workshops | 🇫🇮🇬🇧
• Based in Helsinki, Finland
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So much energy goes into worrying about what others think, while most people are just busy thinking about themselves. 😜

And when someone does notice? Their response can be completely different from what we fear...
August 22, 2025 at 11:11 AM
At an age when many are slowing down, I’m starting over — building something new without a safety net. 🌿✨

I wrote about it after a week in Sweden with tantric empowerment & embodiment coaches. Freedom, uncertainty, and possibility – all at once.

Read more on my blog! 👇
Between Freedom and Fatigue | Embodied Wisdom Coaching
What does it feel like to approach 60 while living outside the script? Reflections on freedom, fatigue, and creating a life that’s truly mine.
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August 19, 2025 at 4:46 PM
A dominatrix, a fire goddess, and a sauna…👠🔥
Not a joke — just a true story from a retreat in Sweden that woke something up in me.

#FemininePower #Embodiment #Naiseus #Voimaantuminen

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Becoming My Own Kind of Powerful | Embodied Wisdom Coaching
A personal story about feminine power, vulnerability, and growing into a strength that doesn’t shout – but burns steady like fire.
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July 23, 2025 at 4:31 PM
July 1, 2025 at 7:49 PM
She doesn’t chase pleasure.
She becomes it.

Soft. Wild. Sacred.
Unapologetically open.

Not for anyone else.
For her own joy.
Her own body.
Her own becoming.

#embodiedfeminine #wildwoman #pleasurepath #sacredfeminine #lovecoach #femalesexualitycoach #nautinto #naiseus #poetry #mindfulness
May 16, 2025 at 6:38 PM
Ever feel like things are technically okay, but something still feels off?

I know. A lot isn’t okay in the world right now. But maybe you’ve got a roof over your head, food on the table – a life that “should” feel fine.

And still…

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You Know There’s More Than This | Embodied Wisdom Coaching
Feeling like something’s missing, even when life looks fine on the outside? This article explores what that quiet knowing is trying to tell you — and how to begin listening.
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April 29, 2025 at 4:31 PM
If we don’t love ourselves, we may mistake attachment for connection, validation for intimacy, or find ourselves in relationships that mirror our own self-doubt.

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Learning to Love Myself | Embodied Wisdom Coaching
Six valuable lessons on self-love.
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April 9, 2025 at 3:47 PM
We've been taught to touch ourselves quickly, quietly, and with a bit of shame. But there’s a whole world waiting beyond that pattern.

Read more:
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#pleasure #lovecoach #feminineempowerment #sexuality #sensuality
Self Pleasure Vs Masturbation | Embodied Wisdom Coaching
What is the difference, and why does it matter?
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April 4, 2025 at 2:53 PM
Yes, I'm all smiles, and happy to announce a project that I have been working on for the past couple of months… or, depending on your perspective, the past several years.

I’m talking about my own website, which I just launched last week. 🎉
February 24, 2025 at 11:51 AM
Anyone on Substack? I just created an account and published my first post! Exploring all these new platforms – well, new for me at least. Let’s connect if you’re out there! 😊❤️

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Blinded by the Light, But Curious
A fresh start, a bright space, and a little bit of squinting.
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February 19, 2025 at 3:49 PM
How often do you dream of a different life, only to follow it with “Yes, but…”?

You don’t need a lottery win to create the life you desire. The first step is the hardest – but if you don’t start, you’ll never get there.

Yes, but…

#FollowYourDreams #YesYouCan #SelfGrowth #JustStart
January 31, 2025 at 10:40 AM
Banning books, restricting #sexualrights, renaming places on the map, appointing billionaire friends to high government positions. No, I'm not talking about Nazi Germany or Stalinist Russia, nor authoritarian regimes like Putin's Russia or Orban's Hungary. It's so sad. 🥲

#Democracy #USA #TrumpEra
January 28, 2025 at 9:42 AM
Reposted by Laura Vanhapelto | Love & Empowerment Coach
Sex can be a complicated and difficult issue for a lot of people in long-term relationships. Add in depression and it just gets tougher. Add in leftover American puritanical reticence to discuss, gets tougher still.
Our show this week is about sex.
Today's show is about SEX. The having/wanting it, the not having/wanting it, long term relationships and expectations and guilt and feeling like your mind is full of the blueberry pie filling of depression.
Our guest is the amazingly candid and helpful Emily Nagoski.
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January 27, 2025 at 3:35 PM
Reposted by Laura Vanhapelto | Love & Empowerment Coach
NEW: Trans women in federal custody were placed in solitary and told they were going to be moved to men's facilities days after Trump's exec order. Other trans folks have issues accessing HRT.

Advocates fear this is just the beginning.

from me + @jessicaschulberg.bsky.social
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Trans Woman Sues After Being Notified Of Transfer To Men’s Prison
One of the women sued the Trump administration, alleging the order violates her constitutional rights and puts her “at an extremely high risk of harassment, abuse, violence, and sexual assault.”
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January 28, 2025 at 3:23 AM
Hello, Blue Sky, I’m Laura. Is this where we can talk about #Purpose, #Power, and #Pleasure?

I'm all about #Love, #Sexuality, #PersonalGrowth, #Empowerment, #ConsciousLiving and #Tantra. Also open to other topics.

Curious to see what this #BlueSkyCommunity has to offer.

Let’s connect! ❤️😊
January 27, 2025 at 1:08 PM