Lanceii
@lanceii.bsky.social
INFJ. Boston. Join me as I combat a general malaise by inconsistently sharing non sequiturs when I want attention.
Celebrated the 30th anniversary of crying myself to sleep on my 7th birthday because I was getting old. Buckle up, kiddo.
May 17, 2025 at 4:39 AM
Celebrated the 30th anniversary of crying myself to sleep on my 7th birthday because I was getting old. Buckle up, kiddo.
The force is strong with me. Mando's handler asked everyone "Francais? English?" but to me he just said "Bonjour, Francais?"
Each time I was mistaken for a local was :: chef's kiss ::
And then I opened my mouth.
#maythe4thbewithyou #disneylandparis
#LeBébéYoda
#LanceInFrance
Each time I was mistaken for a local was :: chef's kiss ::
And then I opened my mouth.
#maythe4thbewithyou #disneylandparis
#LeBébéYoda
#LanceInFrance
May 4, 2025 at 2:14 PM
The force is strong with me. Mando's handler asked everyone "Francais? English?" but to me he just said "Bonjour, Francais?"
Each time I was mistaken for a local was :: chef's kiss ::
And then I opened my mouth.
#maythe4thbewithyou #disneylandparis
#LeBébéYoda
#LanceInFrance
Each time I was mistaken for a local was :: chef's kiss ::
And then I opened my mouth.
#maythe4thbewithyou #disneylandparis
#LeBébéYoda
#LanceInFrance
"The beauty one finds alone is a prayer that longs to be shared" (imagine this is set to Miley's "Prelude")
Also, I cried 5 times during the final 12 hours because I love #Paris so much.
I'm so grateful to @yonka.paris for this once in a lifetime experience.
#LanceInFrance
Also, I cried 5 times during the final 12 hours because I love #Paris so much.
I'm so grateful to @yonka.paris for this once in a lifetime experience.
#LanceInFrance
May 4, 2025 at 2:07 PM
"The beauty one finds alone is a prayer that longs to be shared" (imagine this is set to Miley's "Prelude")
Also, I cried 5 times during the final 12 hours because I love #Paris so much.
I'm so grateful to @yonka.paris for this once in a lifetime experience.
#LanceInFrance
Also, I cried 5 times during the final 12 hours because I love #Paris so much.
I'm so grateful to @yonka.paris for this once in a lifetime experience.
#LanceInFrance
- florals for spring
- a gorgeous rainbow after a long day
- my endless planning and research for Paris (less than a week now 😳)
- a gorgeous rainbow after a long day
- my endless planning and research for Paris (less than a week now 😳)
April 20, 2025 at 11:13 AM
- florals for spring
- a gorgeous rainbow after a long day
- my endless planning and research for Paris (less than a week now 😳)
- a gorgeous rainbow after a long day
- my endless planning and research for Paris (less than a week now 😳)
- a mossy plant ball from my mom
- shirts for the outreach group initiative I started at work to empower & help facilitate employees to engage with the community & fundraise for causes they're passionate about arrived (a day late).
- Boston Common Magazine with my 1st photo credit in print(?)
- shirts for the outreach group initiative I started at work to empower & help facilitate employees to engage with the community & fundraise for causes they're passionate about arrived (a day late).
- Boston Common Magazine with my 1st photo credit in print(?)
April 20, 2025 at 11:13 AM
- a mossy plant ball from my mom
- shirts for the outreach group initiative I started at work to empower & help facilitate employees to engage with the community & fundraise for causes they're passionate about arrived (a day late).
- Boston Common Magazine with my 1st photo credit in print(?)
- shirts for the outreach group initiative I started at work to empower & help facilitate employees to engage with the community & fundraise for causes they're passionate about arrived (a day late).
- Boston Common Magazine with my 1st photo credit in print(?)
- an early Easter at my mom's with Jello eggs & niblings (not sure how I felt about the weird underwear stuffing game my mom bought, but the kids liked it)
- @timtam82.bsky.social's charcuterie board
- @timtam82.bsky.social's charcuterie board
April 20, 2025 at 11:13 AM
- an early Easter at my mom's with Jello eggs & niblings (not sure how I felt about the weird underwear stuffing game my mom bought, but the kids liked it)
- @timtam82.bsky.social's charcuterie board
- @timtam82.bsky.social's charcuterie board
A few things that got me through this week:
- a chilly day at Brimfield Brewfest warmed up by my double puzzle piece winner, Flying Fox Brewing's Strawberry Jalepeno Sour, Lolita, and a night at the lake with the Sharecuterie Crew (@timtam82.bsky.social)
- a man named Ray thinks I'm wonderful
- a chilly day at Brimfield Brewfest warmed up by my double puzzle piece winner, Flying Fox Brewing's Strawberry Jalepeno Sour, Lolita, and a night at the lake with the Sharecuterie Crew (@timtam82.bsky.social)
- a man named Ray thinks I'm wonderful
April 20, 2025 at 11:13 AM
A few things that got me through this week:
- a chilly day at Brimfield Brewfest warmed up by my double puzzle piece winner, Flying Fox Brewing's Strawberry Jalepeno Sour, Lolita, and a night at the lake with the Sharecuterie Crew (@timtam82.bsky.social)
- a man named Ray thinks I'm wonderful
- a chilly day at Brimfield Brewfest warmed up by my double puzzle piece winner, Flying Fox Brewing's Strawberry Jalepeno Sour, Lolita, and a night at the lake with the Sharecuterie Crew (@timtam82.bsky.social)
- a man named Ray thinks I'm wonderful
- David from Survivor 48
- Kylie. Minogue.
- 'Slow' getting the 'Skirt' treatment (my entry song as an actual fan mixed with one of my favorite songs (an opinion!))
- Kylie. Minogue.
- 'Slow' getting the 'Skirt' treatment (my entry song as an actual fan mixed with one of my favorite songs (an opinion!))
April 13, 2025 at 3:10 PM
- David from Survivor 48
- Kylie. Minogue.
- 'Slow' getting the 'Skirt' treatment (my entry song as an actual fan mixed with one of my favorite songs (an opinion!))
- Kylie. Minogue.
- 'Slow' getting the 'Skirt' treatment (my entry song as an actual fan mixed with one of my favorite songs (an opinion!))
- getting my first new phone in several years
- the new phone camera (see daffodil comparison), although my old phone was kinder with selfies.
- my fountain is back
- the new phone camera (see daffodil comparison), although my old phone was kinder with selfies.
- my fountain is back
April 13, 2025 at 3:10 PM
- getting my first new phone in several years
- the new phone camera (see daffodil comparison), although my old phone was kinder with selfies.
- my fountain is back
- the new phone camera (see daffodil comparison), although my old phone was kinder with selfies.
- my fountain is back
- finally going to IKEA to get a new pillow
- Leaving IKEA with upgraded furniture because a shelf I've had for over a decade was about to collapse
- Leaving IKEA with upgraded furniture because a shelf I've had for over a decade was about to collapse
April 13, 2025 at 3:10 PM
- finally going to IKEA to get a new pillow
- Leaving IKEA with upgraded furniture because a shelf I've had for over a decade was about to collapse
- Leaving IKEA with upgraded furniture because a shelf I've had for over a decade was about to collapse
Things this week:
- 50k on the common (biggest rally I've seen)
- shybird irl (sb dunks!)
- an artist asking if he can draw me (first time since 2007! What have you all been waiting for?!)
- first trip to Costco (I should have been mic'd)
- 50k on the common (biggest rally I've seen)
- shybird irl (sb dunks!)
- an artist asking if he can draw me (first time since 2007! What have you all been waiting for?!)
- first trip to Costco (I should have been mic'd)
April 13, 2025 at 3:10 PM
Things this week:
- 50k on the common (biggest rally I've seen)
- shybird irl (sb dunks!)
- an artist asking if he can draw me (first time since 2007! What have you all been waiting for?!)
- first trip to Costco (I should have been mic'd)
- 50k on the common (biggest rally I've seen)
- shybird irl (sb dunks!)
- an artist asking if he can draw me (first time since 2007! What have you all been waiting for?!)
- first trip to Costco (I should have been mic'd)
- Robert Irwin
- French
- my therapist pointing out he's recognized the breakthrough I sensed a couple weeks ago 🥳
- French
- my therapist pointing out he's recognized the breakthrough I sensed a couple weeks ago 🥳
April 6, 2025 at 1:14 PM
- Robert Irwin
- French
- my therapist pointing out he's recognized the breakthrough I sensed a couple weeks ago 🥳
- French
- my therapist pointing out he's recognized the breakthrough I sensed a couple weeks ago 🥳
- 'Queer' being on max
- being told that scene at the end was one of the most me things on film (true.)
- finally drinking the hot chocolate we put out to have on Xmas
- starting April by rereading this children's book about Titanic I loved as a gayby (needed something lighter after CMBYM & Queer)
- being told that scene at the end was one of the most me things on film (true.)
- finally drinking the hot chocolate we put out to have on Xmas
- starting April by rereading this children's book about Titanic I loved as a gayby (needed something lighter after CMBYM & Queer)
April 6, 2025 at 1:14 PM
- 'Queer' being on max
- being told that scene at the end was one of the most me things on film (true.)
- finally drinking the hot chocolate we put out to have on Xmas
- starting April by rereading this children's book about Titanic I loved as a gayby (needed something lighter after CMBYM & Queer)
- being told that scene at the end was one of the most me things on film (true.)
- finally drinking the hot chocolate we put out to have on Xmas
- starting April by rereading this children's book about Titanic I loved as a gayby (needed something lighter after CMBYM & Queer)
A few things that got me through this week:
- Brighter Days Ahead (album + literally)
- Act 1 of Miley's 'Something Beautiful'
- Breakfast for dinner
- Mickey waffles
- the trees in Back Bay in bloom
- a coworker giving me an apple turnover + the opportunity to send a Golden Girls joke to @timtam82
- Brighter Days Ahead (album + literally)
- Act 1 of Miley's 'Something Beautiful'
- Breakfast for dinner
- Mickey waffles
- the trees in Back Bay in bloom
- a coworker giving me an apple turnover + the opportunity to send a Golden Girls joke to @timtam82
April 6, 2025 at 1:14 PM
A few things that got me through this week:
- Brighter Days Ahead (album + literally)
- Act 1 of Miley's 'Something Beautiful'
- Breakfast for dinner
- Mickey waffles
- the trees in Back Bay in bloom
- a coworker giving me an apple turnover + the opportunity to send a Golden Girls joke to @timtam82
- Brighter Days Ahead (album + literally)
- Act 1 of Miley's 'Something Beautiful'
- Breakfast for dinner
- Mickey waffles
- the trees in Back Bay in bloom
- a coworker giving me an apple turnover + the opportunity to send a Golden Girls joke to @timtam82
Things that got me through this week: For most of the week, not much! But made it through with the first blooms appearing on the trees, 2 mois des leçons Français chaque jour, buying the correct size frame for "the Swallows," another bottle of whiskey, and filling out my luggage tags (< 1 month🇫🇷)
March 31, 2025 at 2:40 AM
Things that got me through this week: For most of the week, not much! But made it through with the first blooms appearing on the trees, 2 mois des leçons Français chaque jour, buying the correct size frame for "the Swallows," another bottle of whiskey, and filling out my luggage tags (< 1 month🇫🇷)
- Buying @patrickwolf.music-social.com.ap.brid.gy tickets as my first purchase on my first credit card
- Tim pointing at a wall that said "DiCK NASTY" & asking, did you write that?
- Tim pointing at a wall that said "DiCK NASTY" & asking, did you write that?
March 22, 2025 at 1:30 PM
- Buying @patrickwolf.music-social.com.ap.brid.gy tickets as my first purchase on my first credit card
- Tim pointing at a wall that said "DiCK NASTY" & asking, did you write that?
- Tim pointing at a wall that said "DiCK NASTY" & asking, did you write that?
A few things that got me through the week:
-Framing art from one of my favorite queer artists @allantics.bsky.social (got the wrong size for the @dovegraveyard.bsky.social piece 🤡)
- taking advantage of a beautiful day to clean/rearrange the back porch/ yard in preparation for future beautiful days
-Framing art from one of my favorite queer artists @allantics.bsky.social (got the wrong size for the @dovegraveyard.bsky.social piece 🤡)
- taking advantage of a beautiful day to clean/rearrange the back porch/ yard in preparation for future beautiful days
March 22, 2025 at 1:30 PM
A few things that got me through the week:
-Framing art from one of my favorite queer artists @allantics.bsky.social (got the wrong size for the @dovegraveyard.bsky.social piece 🤡)
- taking advantage of a beautiful day to clean/rearrange the back porch/ yard in preparation for future beautiful days
-Framing art from one of my favorite queer artists @allantics.bsky.social (got the wrong size for the @dovegraveyard.bsky.social piece 🤡)
- taking advantage of a beautiful day to clean/rearrange the back porch/ yard in preparation for future beautiful days
An odd, uneven blip of a book that had the emotional bones that Luca was able to cover in flesh (literally) for the film. It was interesting to see how Luca curated Burroughs' fragmented manuscript... 🌈📚
March 16, 2025 at 9:27 PM
An odd, uneven blip of a book that had the emotional bones that Luca was able to cover in flesh (literally) for the film. It was interesting to see how Luca curated Burroughs' fragmented manuscript... 🌈📚
Realized I didn't share last week's poem.
I think this is my most succinct expression of experiencing anxious attachment.
[Photo of Doris Selcedo's Untitled, 1989]
I think this is my most succinct expression of experiencing anxious attachment.
[Photo of Doris Selcedo's Untitled, 1989]
March 15, 2025 at 11:47 PM
Realized I didn't share last week's poem.
I think this is my most succinct expression of experiencing anxious attachment.
[Photo of Doris Selcedo's Untitled, 1989]
I think this is my most succinct expression of experiencing anxious attachment.
[Photo of Doris Selcedo's Untitled, 1989]
A few things that got me through the week:
- a night of Sum Light at Drawdown Brewing in JP with Steph & Tim
- Springing forward
- @dazza.bsky.social coming for breakfast
- Booking a trip to Ogunquit
- Leaving work before sunset
- a night of Sum Light at Drawdown Brewing in JP with Steph & Tim
- Springing forward
- @dazza.bsky.social coming for breakfast
- Booking a trip to Ogunquit
- Leaving work before sunset
March 15, 2025 at 11:37 PM
A few things that got me through the week:
- a night of Sum Light at Drawdown Brewing in JP with Steph & Tim
- Springing forward
- @dazza.bsky.social coming for breakfast
- Booking a trip to Ogunquit
- Leaving work before sunset
- a night of Sum Light at Drawdown Brewing in JP with Steph & Tim
- Springing forward
- @dazza.bsky.social coming for breakfast
- Booking a trip to Ogunquit
- Leaving work before sunset
A few things that got me through the week:
- Dancing to fka twigs in mom's old jazzercise unitard
- Jade's cover of my fav Madonna song
- this smokey whiskey
- a 98 year old book Tim bought, "The Gay Nineties," of gorgeous illustrations & humorous social commentary
- warmer weather & later sunsets
- Dancing to fka twigs in mom's old jazzercise unitard
- Jade's cover of my fav Madonna song
- this smokey whiskey
- a 98 year old book Tim bought, "The Gay Nineties," of gorgeous illustrations & humorous social commentary
- warmer weather & later sunsets
March 8, 2025 at 8:54 PM
A few things that got me through the week:
- Dancing to fka twigs in mom's old jazzercise unitard
- Jade's cover of my fav Madonna song
- this smokey whiskey
- a 98 year old book Tim bought, "The Gay Nineties," of gorgeous illustrations & humorous social commentary
- warmer weather & later sunsets
- Dancing to fka twigs in mom's old jazzercise unitard
- Jade's cover of my fav Madonna song
- this smokey whiskey
- a 98 year old book Tim bought, "The Gay Nineties," of gorgeous illustrations & humorous social commentary
- warmer weather & later sunsets
Made it to the Stand Up For Science rally today in Boston as things were winding down. Who is joining me for a future rally?
March 8, 2025 at 1:30 AM
Made it to the Stand Up For Science rally today in Boston as things were winding down. Who is joining me for a future rally?
Update from Exeter Street as of about 6pm
March 8, 2025 at 1:28 AM
Update from Exeter Street as of about 6pm
Scaffolding collapse at Exeter & Beacon in back bay. Traffic being diverted. Reportedly parked cars crushed on Beacon. Concerns that Exeter portion could also collapse with such high winds. No word regarding whether there are injuries.
March 7, 2025 at 4:22 PM
Scaffolding collapse at Exeter & Beacon in back bay. Traffic being diverted. Reportedly parked cars crushed on Beacon. Concerns that Exeter portion could also collapse with such high winds. No word regarding whether there are injuries.