Same!

I split with my partner of 15 years this year after years of dealing with a LOT of life crap but also crap from him & I wouldn’t have got through it without fanfic and my cat.

There’s something really cathartic about writing fanfic about a man who loves a woman the way you wanted to be loved

Honestly I was like “What in the actual fuck made you think that??? Did you even pay ANY attention to Tom Paris & what he does?? He’s romantic & charming AF, he isn’t trying her up for fun!” He’s also reliable & she can lean on him. Now THAT’S sexy!

Also he knew I hated ‘50 Shades’

Yup. My ex included. He’s delusional about having kids. It’s why he’s now my ex. Men have no fucking clue b/c they aren’t the ones risking everything to birth and raise them.

I might consider having kids if I could be a dad. It’s piss-easy. Being a mother is relentless and thankless.

I just imagine how shit their life is having to basically solo raise kids with men who don’t ever pull their weight and all of the stress and sacrifices they have had to make while watching their husbands’ lives barely change

B/c that’s most mothers’ reality. They’re miserable b/c they’re miserable

Can Monsanto invent weed that smells like a Yankee candle or something please? I don’t care if you smoke but I’m sick of the smell wafting into my flat/every goddamn place I go. It’s gross &, yes, I can smell it on you too. Even if YOU don’t think so.

Because people who smoke weed have convinced themselves that they aren’t drug users/addicts.

You do you, and it might not be as dangerous as alcohol or, say, fentanyl, but there is still risk & it still incapacitates you.

Personally I wish they’d just invent a cultivar of weed that doesn’t stink

Also, I never heard about that, which scene was she knocked out in??

Yeah Amanda Tapping spent a lot of that show telling the writers that that’s not how women speak and telling them to piss off when they kept trying to put her in skimpy outfits with push-up bras (& latterly fat-shaming her for getting pregnant)! Cooper can sit on a fucking cactus.

Go Amanda! 💪

Women who hold watermelons for White patriarchy tend to get kept around, sadly.

I remember watching that episode being like “What the actual hell??” then being really surprised to find that a WOMAN WROTE IT as well b/c it was fucking terrible.

But now it all makes sense!

It would have been a 1000% better and not racist if Jeri Taylor or Lisa Klink had written it. Just sayin

When I was in the Stargate fandom, I almost exclusively only interacted with Sam/Jack shippers who were almost all women.

They were lovely but, yeah, I don’t often speak to men, especially straight men about SG-1, we have zero in common about what we like about it!