Wasn’t till the military testing they found the lower T and higher E but still let me enlist. I didn’t find out till much later when I went for a comprehensive blood work up and even later about having XXY. Then it was that “AHA!” moment when everything fell together

Oh the similarities. “Sperm donor” forced all the boy things… sports, roughhousing, etc. When I went into the Army and the T spiked I was the same way: always moody, short tempered, got SOME muscle but it was always lean not bulky like the guys.

I didn’t find out till after my military records were released in full. Similar to you, I didn’t develop in the “typical” male ways… always shorter, smaller, more “effeminate”… then come to find out I was selected for “extra testing” which consisted of genetic and chromosome testing.

Her music was so unsettling yet beautiful… it cemented my love of classical and started my love for electronica.