Koldthav
@koldthav.bsky.social
Enby/genderfluid afab (they/them, he/his) 🏳️🌈
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Queer domestic chaos
wife, dog, yarn, garden, outfits & screams about navigating life with an anxiety disorder
main art stuff: @koldthav.bsky.social
🇺🇦🇵🇱
Queer domestic chaos
wife, dog, yarn, garden, outfits & screams about navigating life with an anxiety disorder
main art stuff: @koldthav.bsky.social
I went for a great walk in the park
November 2, 2025 at 2:50 PM
I went for a great walk in the park
Today my wife and I have our 10th anniversary!
OMG ten years together!!!
I decided we need a romatic breakfast today
OMG ten years together!!!
I decided we need a romatic breakfast today
October 31, 2025 at 10:02 AM
Today my wife and I have our 10th anniversary!
OMG ten years together!!!
I decided we need a romatic breakfast today
OMG ten years together!!!
I decided we need a romatic breakfast today
How do you start your day?
I usually need some time to just drink coffee and wake up. Sometimes I use this time to draw but usually Im too sleepy and just scroll through Pinterest or TickTock. But I dont like such a time waste.
I decided to try knitting bevause it dorsnt need thinking😅
I usually need some time to just drink coffee and wake up. Sometimes I use this time to draw but usually Im too sleepy and just scroll through Pinterest or TickTock. But I dont like such a time waste.
I decided to try knitting bevause it dorsnt need thinking😅
October 27, 2025 at 7:14 AM
How do you start your day?
I usually need some time to just drink coffee and wake up. Sometimes I use this time to draw but usually Im too sleepy and just scroll through Pinterest or TickTock. But I dont like such a time waste.
I decided to try knitting bevause it dorsnt need thinking😅
I usually need some time to just drink coffee and wake up. Sometimes I use this time to draw but usually Im too sleepy and just scroll through Pinterest or TickTock. But I dont like such a time waste.
I decided to try knitting bevause it dorsnt need thinking😅
Somehow I have 7 knitting projects waiting for me...
The best advice for adhd people is "make it visible". I completely forgot about at least two... No more buying!
The best advice for adhd people is "make it visible". I completely forgot about at least two... No more buying!
October 26, 2025 at 11:23 AM
Somehow I have 7 knitting projects waiting for me...
The best advice for adhd people is "make it visible". I completely forgot about at least two... No more buying!
The best advice for adhd people is "make it visible". I completely forgot about at least two... No more buying!
I had to go to diary.ru for some old fics I love and I miss to much, I was so happy to have a place that was almost 100% fandoms and freaks, it was so amazing!
Tumblr is something like that but vibes are not same.
Tumblr is something like that but vibes are not same.
diary.ru
October 14, 2025 at 6:12 AM
I had to go to diary.ru for some old fics I love and I miss to much, I was so happy to have a place that was almost 100% fandoms and freaks, it was so amazing!
Tumblr is something like that but vibes are not same.
Tumblr is something like that but vibes are not same.
I got ill, so last days Im mostly in bed(
Re-reading old fics (looks I have a nostalgy moment, ha-ha). Emily Waters, Treggy Di, everything I can remember about Musketeers BBC.
Old times, I miss you.
Re-reading old fics (looks I have a nostalgy moment, ha-ha). Emily Waters, Treggy Di, everything I can remember about Musketeers BBC.
Old times, I miss you.
October 14, 2025 at 6:02 AM
I got ill, so last days Im mostly in bed(
Re-reading old fics (looks I have a nostalgy moment, ha-ha). Emily Waters, Treggy Di, everything I can remember about Musketeers BBC.
Old times, I miss you.
Re-reading old fics (looks I have a nostalgy moment, ha-ha). Emily Waters, Treggy Di, everything I can remember about Musketeers BBC.
Old times, I miss you.
We are travelling! A few days in Tatry mountains.
Its raining every day, but very warm and nice!
Its raining every day, but very warm and nice!
October 9, 2025 at 6:16 AM
We are travelling! A few days in Tatry mountains.
Its raining every day, but very warm and nice!
Its raining every day, but very warm and nice!
My partner earns much more then me, but I am that person who wants to buy some storage items, new cutlery, I have hobbies (like knitting and painting) and they cost money, and I'd like to buy courses about concept art and painting, but I cant let myself because they cost like 200-500$.
Every time
Every time
July 18, 2025 at 9:32 PM
My partner earns much more then me, but I am that person who wants to buy some storage items, new cutlery, I have hobbies (like knitting and painting) and they cost money, and I'd like to buy courses about concept art and painting, but I cant let myself because they cost like 200-500$.
Every time
Every time
I bought some quince and lemon balm tea to try and it's one of the best fruit teas I've ever had.
What tea do you like?
I used to drink only black and mint but in Poland herbal and friit teas are very popular.
What tea do you like?
I used to drink only black and mint but in Poland herbal and friit teas are very popular.
June 29, 2025 at 9:29 PM
I bought some quince and lemon balm tea to try and it's one of the best fruit teas I've ever had.
What tea do you like?
I used to drink only black and mint but in Poland herbal and friit teas are very popular.
What tea do you like?
I used to drink only black and mint but in Poland herbal and friit teas are very popular.
We bought a folding bathtab and I am so, so happy!
After 4 years with shower only I can relax in hot water with salt and oils...
After 4 years with shower only I can relax in hot water with salt and oils...
June 29, 2025 at 7:45 PM
We bought a folding bathtab and I am so, so happy!
After 4 years with shower only I can relax in hot water with salt and oils...
After 4 years with shower only I can relax in hot water with salt and oils...
Season open!
Its 22C in the air and around 18C water.
Its 22C in the air and around 18C water.
June 20, 2025 at 4:11 PM
Season open!
Its 22C in the air and around 18C water.
Its 22C in the air and around 18C water.
My succulents are blooming!
June 8, 2025 at 8:50 AM
My succulents are blooming!
Irises that I got as a present month ago are blooming!
Love them, its like a piece of home 💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💛#gardening
Love them, its like a piece of home 💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💛#gardening
May 24, 2025 at 7:53 PM
Irises that I got as a present month ago are blooming!
Love them, its like a piece of home 💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💛#gardening
Love them, its like a piece of home 💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💛#gardening
Me in fem and mask days.
38 years, 98 kg on both
No filters
#genderfluid #qweerandchubby #qweerandfat
38 years, 98 kg on both
No filters
#genderfluid #qweerandchubby #qweerandfat
May 24, 2025 at 7:45 PM
Me in fem and mask days.
38 years, 98 kg on both
No filters
#genderfluid #qweerandchubby #qweerandfat
38 years, 98 kg on both
No filters
#genderfluid #qweerandchubby #qweerandfat
I love buying vegetables at the market. So much greenery! What can I make from sorrel? Any advice?
May 24, 2025 at 11:12 AM
I love buying vegetables at the market. So much greenery! What can I make from sorrel? Any advice?
I am trying to bring some sport and moving in my life to get fit a little and its not easy. But today I suddenly woke up with urge to move! Feels amazing!
We had plans for morning but my wife waited so I could so running. So sweet 🥰
We had plans for morning but my wife waited so I could so running. So sweet 🥰
May 24, 2025 at 7:13 AM
I am trying to bring some sport and moving in my life to get fit a little and its not easy. But today I suddenly woke up with urge to move! Feels amazing!
We had plans for morning but my wife waited so I could so running. So sweet 🥰
We had plans for morning but my wife waited so I could so running. So sweet 🥰
O M G I did it!
I am officially in the team, probation period was excellent, git lits of comments from my collegues.
Some about my art and some about me being proactive, reacting nicely to feedback and so on.
I am so happy!
Not exactly a dream job, but I really need a year or two of stability.
I am officially in the team, probation period was excellent, git lits of comments from my collegues.
Some about my art and some about me being proactive, reacting nicely to feedback and so on.
I am so happy!
Not exactly a dream job, but I really need a year or two of stability.
May 17, 2025 at 8:13 AM
O M G I did it!
I am officially in the team, probation period was excellent, git lits of comments from my collegues.
Some about my art and some about me being proactive, reacting nicely to feedback and so on.
I am so happy!
Not exactly a dream job, but I really need a year or two of stability.
I am officially in the team, probation period was excellent, git lits of comments from my collegues.
Some about my art and some about me being proactive, reacting nicely to feedback and so on.
I am so happy!
Not exactly a dream job, but I really need a year or two of stability.
Last day of my probation period. With me luck!
May 14, 2025 at 6:29 AM
Last day of my probation period. With me luck!
Oysters! It's my wife's birthday and my sugar mommy is feeding me something delicious
May 11, 2025 at 2:16 PM
Oysters! It's my wife's birthday and my sugar mommy is feeding me something delicious
That how my days usually start 😆
Comes with some wild boars sometimes, and its scary.
Like, really. They can attack, especially if you have a dog. Met one today, walked away VERY fast.
Comes with some wild boars sometimes, and its scary.
Like, really. They can attack, especially if you have a dog. Met one today, walked away VERY fast.
May 11, 2025 at 10:02 AM
That how my days usually start 😆
Comes with some wild boars sometimes, and its scary.
Like, really. They can attack, especially if you have a dog. Met one today, walked away VERY fast.
Comes with some wild boars sometimes, and its scary.
Like, really. They can attack, especially if you have a dog. Met one today, walked away VERY fast.
Very long day...
Dragged myself from the bed to go to the market, walked the dog, made breakfast, worked 4 hours like a responsible adult (ugh), then gardened (herbs! more herbs!).
Another walk, then finally got a bit of stitching and art tutorial time before collapsing.
Currently: very sleepy.
Dragged myself from the bed to go to the market, walked the dog, made breakfast, worked 4 hours like a responsible adult (ugh), then gardened (herbs! more herbs!).
Another walk, then finally got a bit of stitching and art tutorial time before collapsing.
Currently: very sleepy.
May 10, 2025 at 10:11 PM
Very long day...
Dragged myself from the bed to go to the market, walked the dog, made breakfast, worked 4 hours like a responsible adult (ugh), then gardened (herbs! more herbs!).
Another walk, then finally got a bit of stitching and art tutorial time before collapsing.
Currently: very sleepy.
Dragged myself from the bed to go to the market, walked the dog, made breakfast, worked 4 hours like a responsible adult (ugh), then gardened (herbs! more herbs!).
Another walk, then finally got a bit of stitching and art tutorial time before collapsing.
Currently: very sleepy.
I work from home now but I decided to wear "work outfits" to feel more confident. No pijamas at noon anymore!
Do I look masculine here?
#genderfluid #queerfashion #chubbyandqueer
Do I look masculine here?
#genderfluid #queerfashion #chubbyandqueer
May 10, 2025 at 10:01 PM
I work from home now but I decided to wear "work outfits" to feel more confident. No pijamas at noon anymore!
Do I look masculine here?
#genderfluid #queerfashion #chubbyandqueer
Do I look masculine here?
#genderfluid #queerfashion #chubbyandqueer
Hi-hi!
I am Koldthav or Kel, a qweer artist from Ukraine.
I am afab and I dont present myself daily as genderfluid because a) I dont feel safe enough and b) its too much explanation to do it daily.
I live in Poland with my wife and our fluffy kids (cat snd german shephard) because its war at home
I am Koldthav or Kel, a qweer artist from Ukraine.
I am afab and I dont present myself daily as genderfluid because a) I dont feel safe enough and b) its too much explanation to do it daily.
I live in Poland with my wife and our fluffy kids (cat snd german shephard) because its war at home
May 10, 2025 at 9:56 PM
Hi-hi!
I am Koldthav or Kel, a qweer artist from Ukraine.
I am afab and I dont present myself daily as genderfluid because a) I dont feel safe enough and b) its too much explanation to do it daily.
I live in Poland with my wife and our fluffy kids (cat snd german shephard) because its war at home
I am Koldthav or Kel, a qweer artist from Ukraine.
I am afab and I dont present myself daily as genderfluid because a) I dont feel safe enough and b) its too much explanation to do it daily.
I live in Poland with my wife and our fluffy kids (cat snd german shephard) because its war at home