ここKara
@kokokara.bsky.social
nintendo, movies, crochet
recreational estrogen user
車車 | she/her
recreational estrogen user
車車 | she/her
(Game) Donkey Kong Bananza - Fun platformer although it was often more about environmental destruction and punching out voxels than the fine tuned platforming of Odyssey. It was fun, but feels short of an all-timer. However "Oooh Banana" is one of those audio clips that will live forever in my head
February 15, 2026 at 11:32 PM
(Game) Donkey Kong Bananza - Fun platformer although it was often more about environmental destruction and punching out voxels than the fine tuned platforming of Odyssey. It was fun, but feels short of an all-timer. However "Oooh Banana" is one of those audio clips that will live forever in my head
If a trans woman has female fat and muscle distribution, breasts, and a vagina, and you still insist on calling her male, then that's not biology, it's Catholicism
February 15, 2026 at 2:29 AM
If a trans woman has female fat and muscle distribution, breasts, and a vagina, and you still insist on calling her male, then that's not biology, it's Catholicism
(Game) Powerwash Simulator + DLC - It is insane how much time I put into this game, but it really is ideal for listening to music/podcasts or alternatively when you're pumping breast milk and don't know what else to do for 15 minutes
February 14, 2026 at 7:22 PM
(Game) Powerwash Simulator + DLC - It is insane how much time I put into this game, but it really is ideal for listening to music/podcasts or alternatively when you're pumping breast milk and don't know what else to do for 15 minutes
(Book) Douglas Adams' Dirk Gently's Holistic Detective Agency - I fear I've outgrown this particular brand of British tomfoolery
February 7, 2026 at 5:58 PM
(Book) Douglas Adams' Dirk Gently's Holistic Detective Agency - I fear I've outgrown this particular brand of British tomfoolery
(Book) Thomas Pynchon's The Crying of Lot 49 - About halfway through I realized I'd already read this before, and I suspect it's going to again skim off my mind. Some things to love here but I actually prefer the prose of V., as confusing as it is. It's alright. Working my way up to Gravity's.
February 2, 2026 at 11:13 PM
(Book) Thomas Pynchon's The Crying of Lot 49 - About halfway through I realized I'd already read this before, and I suspect it's going to again skim off my mind. Some things to love here but I actually prefer the prose of V., as confusing as it is. It's alright. Working my way up to Gravity's.
(Book) Alyson Greaves' All The Way (When You Fell From Heaven Book 2) - Absolutely insane that I've now read 900ish pages for such a silly concept but it really does take a trans woman to write a trans girl this well. Fell in love with these characters and dying to read the next one. OOPS, INVESTED!
February 1, 2026 at 9:48 AM
(Book) Alyson Greaves' All The Way (When You Fell From Heaven Book 2) - Absolutely insane that I've now read 900ish pages for such a silly concept but it really does take a trans woman to write a trans girl this well. Fell in love with these characters and dying to read the next one. OOPS, INVESTED!
(TV) Curb Your Enthusiasm Season 1 - Very late to this one, especially as a Seinfeld fan. Kind of a rough start but it really starts to take off as it goes. We all think we can write Seinfeld plots but only one man on Earth is willing to think "imagine an awkward Incest Survivors Anonymous meeting"
January 31, 2026 at 2:03 AM
(TV) Curb Your Enthusiasm Season 1 - Very late to this one, especially as a Seinfeld fan. Kind of a rough start but it really starts to take off as it goes. We all think we can write Seinfeld plots but only one man on Earth is willing to think "imagine an awkward Incest Survivors Anonymous meeting"
Thanks for answering! :)
January 24, 2026 at 5:55 AM
Thanks for answering! :)
(Book) Ben Lerner's 10:04 - Apparently I'm reading a lot of books. Compelling auto/meta fiction that I'd probably like more were I more in "da art scene" but the prose is so good it carried me through. Importantly the author looks like Will Poulters future self
January 17, 2026 at 8:59 PM
(Book) Ben Lerner's 10:04 - Apparently I'm reading a lot of books. Compelling auto/meta fiction that I'd probably like more were I more in "da art scene" but the prose is so good it carried me through. Importantly the author looks like Will Poulters future self
(Book) Emily St. James' Woodworking
- Whipped through this enjoyable piece of trans lit which had some novel perspectives but otherwise didn't tread much new ground. Jesus it does make me glad I'm now away from the ritualistic embarrassments of early transition though
- Whipped through this enjoyable piece of trans lit which had some novel perspectives but otherwise didn't tread much new ground. Jesus it does make me glad I'm now away from the ritualistic embarrassments of early transition though
January 15, 2026 at 5:32 AM
(Book) Emily St. James' Woodworking
- Whipped through this enjoyable piece of trans lit which had some novel perspectives but otherwise didn't tread much new ground. Jesus it does make me glad I'm now away from the ritualistic embarrassments of early transition though
- Whipped through this enjoyable piece of trans lit which had some novel perspectives but otherwise didn't tread much new ground. Jesus it does make me glad I'm now away from the ritualistic embarrassments of early transition though
You have no knowledge of science, no knowledge of trans bodies, no knowledge of what HRT does, and no knowledge of how any of these regulations worked before. Was silence not an option?
December 4, 2025 at 12:38 AM
You have no knowledge of science, no knowledge of trans bodies, no knowledge of what HRT does, and no knowledge of how any of these regulations worked before. Was silence not an option?
You don't really know me so I think it's striking that you immediately moved to assuming I'm trying to "weed out" people with a model that I didn't even come up with and have told you I have qualms with myself. It's clear this is the only lens that you can view this in
November 5, 2025 at 9:57 PM
You don't really know me so I think it's striking that you immediately moved to assuming I'm trying to "weed out" people with a model that I didn't even come up with and have told you I have qualms with myself. It's clear this is the only lens that you can view this in
but if someone has the desire, they are included. There are other reasons to object to the term cissexual (and I have one or two of my own), but I don't really think this hangs.
November 5, 2025 at 9:51 PM
but if someone has the desire, they are included. There are other reasons to object to the term cissexual (and I have one or two of my own), but I don't really think this hangs.
Afraid to say I suspect you are missing the point - I've seen what Nicole has said previously on the subject and she has been consistent that a desire - regardless of access - means transsexual under this model. I suppose closeted gay people are also missed under our model of homosexuality,
November 5, 2025 at 9:51 PM
Afraid to say I suspect you are missing the point - I've seen what Nicole has said previously on the subject and she has been consistent that a desire - regardless of access - means transsexual under this model. I suppose closeted gay people are also missed under our model of homosexuality,
Frankly it sounds like everyone involved in this conversation is recognizing that, so I feel like there is some confusion here. Your friend would not be considered cissexual under this framework, in the same way I would not consider a celibate gay man to be straight
November 5, 2025 at 9:48 PM
Frankly it sounds like everyone involved in this conversation is recognizing that, so I feel like there is some confusion here. Your friend would not be considered cissexual under this framework, in the same way I would not consider a celibate gay man to be straight
I'm afraid to say I'm not really agreeing with you - my point is that this is not a totally unreasonable framework (at least on this point) because your example does not mean your friend would not be considered "transsexual" due to his desire to use T, whether or not he can or does
November 5, 2025 at 9:47 PM
I'm afraid to say I'm not really agreeing with you - my point is that this is not a totally unreasonable framework (at least on this point) because your example does not mean your friend would not be considered "transsexual" due to his desire to use T, whether or not he can or does
Many gay people can live out their entire life without a fulfilling relationship that reflects their actual desires - and have - but we still understand them to be gay because we recognize the underlying desire. Not all "needs" when unfulfilled lead to death.
November 5, 2025 at 8:47 PM
Many gay people can live out their entire life without a fulfilling relationship that reflects their actual desires - and have - but we still understand them to be gay because we recognize the underlying desire. Not all "needs" when unfulfilled lead to death.
if you are wondering if this is me actively agreeing vs me missing the point so hard it sounds like im agreeing with you, its the former lol
November 5, 2025 at 8:28 PM
if you are wondering if this is me actively agreeing vs me missing the point so hard it sounds like im agreeing with you, its the former lol
I don't even see why this is hard to get. We already have a common cultural understanding that being gay is defined by an endorsed "want," but also understand that this want is a reflection of an internal difference that is in-born. Why can't the "want" to change sex reflect an internal difference?
November 5, 2025 at 8:27 PM
I don't even see why this is hard to get. We already have a common cultural understanding that being gay is defined by an endorsed "want," but also understand that this want is a reflection of an internal difference that is in-born. Why can't the "want" to change sex reflect an internal difference?
That's a dishonest and inaccurate summary of the discourse so again I think it's bad to call trans women you disagree with to be TERFs, and again, lazy.
October 28, 2025 at 8:59 PM
That's a dishonest and inaccurate summary of the discourse so again I think it's bad to call trans women you disagree with to be TERFs, and again, lazy.