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kink blogger & tiktok creator, here i mostly post nonsense. oh also there’s a podcast now!
W/we’re also guests on Insert Here’s latest episode! Busy day 🥳 open.spotify.com/episode/3g7s...
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November 12, 2025 at 6:14 PM
Today’s podcast episode is about #sadism and #masochism - what playing with pain does for U/us, the universal human need to understand pain, and how s&p is different from dominance and submission #kink #bdsm kirizal.com/dontscarethe...
Don’t Scare the Newbies!
Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy…
kirizal.com
November 12, 2025 at 10:02 AM
long Teams meetings are gonna end up expensive because i looked at my own face for too long and now i’m googling buccal fat removal 😩
November 6, 2025 at 1:09 PM
New podcast episode today, all about breathplay. Link is for spotify, also up on most podcast platforms & youtube #kink #bdsm open.spotify.com/episode/6k57...
You’ve Gotta Be Choking: All About Breathplay
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November 5, 2025 at 9:35 AM
Trick or treaters turned up a day early and i had to rummage through the kitchen to find where Mx had stored the sweets, failed, and presented them with piles of biscoff biscuits. Seemed to be a popular alternative to be fair
October 30, 2025 at 5:15 PM
Mobile games with microtransactions do not understand me… i will not pay for coins or lives or power ups but i would absolutely empty my bank account to pay you to let me skip levels that are pissing me off i want to RELAX
October 30, 2025 at 5:13 PM
New episode day AND an event announcement! Exciting times? If you wanna hear U/us host O/our first ever guest talking body image, sensuality and life modelling, or wanna come hear me yap about kink live and in person, then check out these! Pod and ticket links are at kirizal.com #kinkpodcast #kink
October 29, 2025 at 9:05 AM
Just a lil teaser for tomorrow because trust me you do NOT wanna miss this one. A mystery announcement, O/our first guest, and all the usual chaos and spice!
October 28, 2025 at 4:21 PM
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New episode day is upon us again! This week is continuing on from last week where W/we talked BDSM contracts, this week W/we’re talking rules, protocol, and punishment #kink #bdsm #podcast
Don’t Scare the Newbies!
Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy…
kirizal.com
October 22, 2025 at 8:02 AM
Editing a podcast episode and Mx had to leave the room and asked me to pause so They don’t miss any because They’re *enjoying listening to it* which is a first. They’ve been cringing to death at Their own voice since W/we started recording back in July 😅
October 21, 2025 at 6:56 PM
Shoutout to Mx for powering through not one but two podcast recordings today with a horrible cold. Editing out all the coughs might be a bit of a challenge but talking for three hours was definitely harder for Them 😅
October 19, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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Watched this today (there’s 5 parts and it is well worth your time) - really important BDSM history & gay history that everyone should know more about
Operation Spanner - The Roland Jaggard Interview (Part 1)
YouTube video by Fireside Chats with Douglas O'Keeffe
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October 15, 2025 at 11:12 AM
New episode- #bdsm contracts, me and Mx share all the details of O/our contract and talk negotiation, legality, and lots more!
#podcast #kink
kirizal.com/dontscarethe...
Don’t Scare the Newbies!
Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy…
kirizal.com
October 15, 2025 at 6:47 AM
Just finished writing up the recording and editing schedule for the next few weeks - if W/we stick to it by 30th Nov W/we’ll have episodes fully done up to Feb 12th and can then take a few weeks off 🥳
October 13, 2025 at 7:17 PM
Maisie Peters dropping the most perfect love song while i was in Cyprus was both entirely predictable (she announced it last week) and still managed to hit me like a train. i wanted to be immortal now i’m fine with growing old 🥰
October 9, 2025 at 2:18 PM
if anyone was wondering what drinking with me is like, Mx has just threatened to go on a sex strike if i don’t stop calling cum “laundry sauce”
October 8, 2025 at 6:52 PM
This week’s episode is here - ‘Controlled Violations: Consensual Non-Consent and Modifying Consent for Kink’ - all about CNC play and dynamics #kink #podcast

kirizal.com/dontscarethe...
Don’t Scare the Newbies!
Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy…
kirizal.com
October 8, 2025 at 4:34 AM
“Something I’ve been ignoring starts to creep up on me in the Cyprus sunsets, and I start to look for a certain name in my notifications, and pretend I wasn’t waiting for it when I see it. They’re keen, nothing to do with me. Right?”
From my kink journal Nov 2023

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Fill This Ghost Town Up With Light
From my kink journal, Nov 14th 2023. Written without capitalisation protocol, because W/we didn’t have that yet. i’m in Paphos again now, with my love beside me, and wanted to share how i felt when…
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October 7, 2025 at 11:34 AM
Seen some people complaining TLOAS isn’t relatable - i recommend listening to it in a securely attached relationship with a person who looks at you like you’re Their whole world. Helps if They’re 6’5 with a massive cock. Just saying 👀
October 6, 2025 at 6:03 PM
Loving my analytics revealing today that a LOT of O/our podcast listeners are Swifties 😂 absolutely dead day and i’m happy to see it, i also have been putting absolutely nothing in my ears other than TLOAS
October 3, 2025 at 11:22 PM
New episode out now - 31 Days of #kink: Beating a Olay Slump. W/we talk about making time for intimacy in all kinds of relationships, and O/our 31 day challenge to play more #bdsm #podcast

kirizal.com/dontscarethe...
Don’t Scare the Newbies!
Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy…
kirizal.com
October 1, 2025 at 5:40 AM
Podcast recordings are done up until early December, and editing up to early November 🥳 Very proud of how on top of things W/we’ve managed to stay! The problem is now i’m so impatient to share ALL the episodes
September 29, 2025 at 9:31 PM
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If anyone is interested, here's a petition asking the government to not introduce digital ID

petition.parliament.uk/petitions/73...
Petition: Do not introduce Digital ID cards
We demand that the UK Government immediately commits to not introducing a digital ID cards. There are reports that this is being looked at.
petition.parliament.uk
September 26, 2025 at 1:38 PM
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as a fan of noncon, dubcon and under/non-negotiated cnc this is honestly one of the most straightforward explanations of this i've ever read?
September 22, 2025 at 9:58 PM
me: *explaining to Mx what kind of things i wanna cover in a podcast episode about anal*
Mx: oh god, you’re going to make Me talk about having a big penis aren’t you?
me: oh yes. Yes i am.
September 25, 2025 at 10:51 AM