Her actions don't come across to me as someone trying to do what she thinks her daughter would have wanted. If it is she is so misguided and needs a break from book deals and press to connect with the community she is supposedly trying to represent

At a certain point you have to start at least suggesting that she is a bigot and doesn't care for the harm she causes trans people. I hate to do it, but I question her grief, why constantly talk about her daughter's phone time and mental health when they are irrelevant to why she is not here today.

I try to give her leeway. I assume she is being used by the media & politicians, pushed in her grief towards this path. But the amount of incidents I see. Multiple accounts of deadnaming, becoming friends with the mum of one of the killers, this book, avoiding mentioning transphobia, badmouthing etc

your core users are people who have already demonstrated a willingness to abandon a more popular social media site for another, in the most part for disliking the politics of the people who run it. write this on a big whiteboard somewhere in the office