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jeff perera
@jeffperera.bsky.social
speaker and writer helping men draw maps to manhood.
smh.
November 10, 2025 at 5:27 PM
Truth hurts sometimes, doesn't it? Spending your entire life as a man running from hard truths hurts everyone - including yourself - more.
November 9, 2025 at 8:20 PM
You aren't just stuck in traffic...

Thoughts on what we contribute to, and how the kind of impact we leave on others impacts us as well.
October 3, 2025 at 8:04 PM
Debate Bros are so wack. Let’s make being Dialogue Dawgs the new cool.

#ConflictResolution #Dialogue #BuildingBridges #DialogueDawgs #Manhood
September 19, 2025 at 9:17 PM
What does bravery as a man look like today?
September 7, 2025 at 3:20 PM
Does it feel like you - like we - reached a point of no return?

It’s not too late to turn things around… but it’s time.
September 6, 2025 at 7:32 PM
Rebuilding our atrophied empathy muscles as men would give us the strength to eradicate hate.
September 5, 2025 at 6:04 PM
Enough of the measuring contests… here’s the true measure of man. 📏

#masculinity #manhood HigherUnlearning.com
August 29, 2025 at 7:38 PM
Being assertive as a man doesn’t mean we have to be aggressive 24/7. For some guys however, the Ends justify the Mean.
August 28, 2025 at 8:07 PM
From my short piece: ‘Five Truths on Not Buying into the Manosphere Bait and Switch’ up at The 44 North

the44north.ca/manosphere-bait-and-switch
August 25, 2025 at 6:23 PM
Read the ‘Five Truths on Not Buying into the Manosphere Bait and Switch’ from my new article at @the44north.bsky.social

“The beauty is: while they trap young guys in prisons made of harmful notions of what a man is or should be, the door is unlocked.”
August 8, 2025 at 4:56 PM
For young men and boys - rather than search for someone who can offer shortcuts to status and identity at the expense of others - we can look inside ourselves to find the person who can help us be a man today. #Manhood #masculinity
July 21, 2025 at 6:27 PM