jeff perera
@jeffperera.bsky.social
speaker and writer helping men draw maps to manhood.
The work to inspire men and boys to embrace helpful versus harmful ideas of manhood is more urgent than ever.
Thank you for your support to help me continue the work. My PayPal is: paypal.me/higherunlearning
Thank you for your support to help me continue the work. My PayPal is: paypal.me/higherunlearning
November 13, 2025 at 8:27 PM
The work to inspire men and boys to embrace helpful versus harmful ideas of manhood is more urgent than ever.
Thank you for your support to help me continue the work. My PayPal is: paypal.me/higherunlearning
Thank you for your support to help me continue the work. My PayPal is: paypal.me/higherunlearning
Let’s do the work.
November 10, 2025 at 8:04 PM
Let’s do the work.
Truth hurts sometimes, doesn't it? Spending your entire life as a man running from hard truths hurts everyone - including yourself - more.
November 9, 2025 at 8:20 PM
Truth hurts sometimes, doesn't it? Spending your entire life as a man running from hard truths hurts everyone - including yourself - more.
I got to speak to 5 brilliant experts exploring what’s next after the Hockey Canada trial aftermath. As part of a 5-part IG Live series,
We discussed consent, hockey culture and Canadian masculinities, accountability and more.
watch all the convos here: higherunlearning.com/2025/08/17/w...
We discussed consent, hockey culture and Canadian masculinities, accountability and more.
watch all the convos here: higherunlearning.com/2025/08/17/w...
November 8, 2025 at 5:53 PM
I got to speak to 5 brilliant experts exploring what’s next after the Hockey Canada trial aftermath. As part of a 5-part IG Live series,
We discussed consent, hockey culture and Canadian masculinities, accountability and more.
watch all the convos here: higherunlearning.com/2025/08/17/w...
We discussed consent, hockey culture and Canadian masculinities, accountability and more.
watch all the convos here: higherunlearning.com/2025/08/17/w...
October 31, 2025 at 2:22 PM
American Baseball talking head ‘experts’ learning how to spell Clement and pronounce Lukes in October… #WantItall #BlueJays
October 5, 2025 at 8:52 PM
American Baseball talking head ‘experts’ learning how to spell Clement and pronounce Lukes in October… #WantItall #BlueJays
You aren't just stuck in traffic...
Thoughts on what we contribute to, and how the kind of impact we leave on others impacts us as well.
Thoughts on what we contribute to, and how the kind of impact we leave on others impacts us as well.
October 3, 2025 at 8:04 PM
You aren't just stuck in traffic...
Thoughts on what we contribute to, and how the kind of impact we leave on others impacts us as well.
Thoughts on what we contribute to, and how the kind of impact we leave on others impacts us as well.
Debate Bros are so wack. Let’s make being Dialogue Dawgs the new cool.
#ConflictResolution #Dialogue #BuildingBridges #DialogueDawgs #Manhood
#ConflictResolution #Dialogue #BuildingBridges #DialogueDawgs #Manhood
September 19, 2025 at 9:17 PM
Debate Bros are so wack. Let’s make being Dialogue Dawgs the new cool.
#ConflictResolution #Dialogue #BuildingBridges #DialogueDawgs #Manhood
#ConflictResolution #Dialogue #BuildingBridges #DialogueDawgs #Manhood
Excited to read this! Joanna Schroeder and Christopher Pepper offer parents, father figures and family members 16 conversations via this beautifully done book to help teens and tweens navigate today’s tough topics and issues.
Thankful to have written a little piece for the book as well! Go get it!
Thankful to have written a little piece for the book as well! Go get it!
September 9, 2025 at 7:04 PM
Excited to read this! Joanna Schroeder and Christopher Pepper offer parents, father figures and family members 16 conversations via this beautifully done book to help teens and tweens navigate today’s tough topics and issues.
Thankful to have written a little piece for the book as well! Go get it!
Thankful to have written a little piece for the book as well! Go get it!
What does bravery as a man look like today?
September 7, 2025 at 3:20 PM
What does bravery as a man look like today?
Does it feel like you - like we - reached a point of no return?
It’s not too late to turn things around… but it’s time.
It’s not too late to turn things around… but it’s time.
September 6, 2025 at 7:32 PM
Does it feel like you - like we - reached a point of no return?
It’s not too late to turn things around… but it’s time.
It’s not too late to turn things around… but it’s time.
Rebuilding our atrophied empathy muscles as men would give us the strength to eradicate hate.
September 5, 2025 at 6:04 PM
Rebuilding our atrophied empathy muscles as men would give us the strength to eradicate hate.
Enough of the measuring contests… here’s the true measure of man. 📏
#masculinity #manhood HigherUnlearning.com
#masculinity #manhood HigherUnlearning.com
August 29, 2025 at 7:38 PM
Enough of the measuring contests… here’s the true measure of man. 📏
#masculinity #manhood HigherUnlearning.com
#masculinity #manhood HigherUnlearning.com
Being assertive as a man doesn’t mean we have to be aggressive 24/7. For some guys however, the Ends justify the Mean.
August 28, 2025 at 8:07 PM
Being assertive as a man doesn’t mean we have to be aggressive 24/7. For some guys however, the Ends justify the Mean.
From my short piece: ‘Five Truths on Not Buying into the Manosphere Bait and Switch’ up at The 44 North
the44north.ca/manosphere-bait-and-switch
the44north.ca/manosphere-bait-and-switch
August 25, 2025 at 6:23 PM
From my short piece: ‘Five Truths on Not Buying into the Manosphere Bait and Switch’ up at The 44 North
the44north.ca/manosphere-bait-and-switch
the44north.ca/manosphere-bait-and-switch
Bring me out to talk together with your young male hockey players, young male athletes teams, as well as organizations, coaches and staff, spaces or community
To book me or learn more: higherunlearning.com/book-jeff-perera/
To book me or learn more: higherunlearning.com/book-jeff-perera/
August 18, 2025 at 12:13 PM
Bring me out to talk together with your young male hockey players, young male athletes teams, as well as organizations, coaches and staff, spaces or community
To book me or learn more: higherunlearning.com/book-jeff-perera/
To book me or learn more: higherunlearning.com/book-jeff-perera/
Read the ‘Five Truths on Not Buying into the Manosphere Bait and Switch’ from my new article at @the44north.bsky.social
“The beauty is: while they trap young guys in prisons made of harmful notions of what a man is or should be, the door is unlocked.”
“The beauty is: while they trap young guys in prisons made of harmful notions of what a man is or should be, the door is unlocked.”
August 8, 2025 at 4:56 PM
Read the ‘Five Truths on Not Buying into the Manosphere Bait and Switch’ from my new article at @the44north.bsky.social
“The beauty is: while they trap young guys in prisons made of harmful notions of what a man is or should be, the door is unlocked.”
“The beauty is: while they trap young guys in prisons made of harmful notions of what a man is or should be, the door is unlocked.”
TONIGHT 6pm PST/ 9pm EST Join us for next in GECO IG Live series on ‘What’s Next after the Hockey Canada Verdict’
I’ll be talking w/ Kip Ioane of Teams of Men/author of Mirror Training re: inspiring young male athletes & coaches, parents & hockey/sports ecosystem to help end gender based violence
I’ll be talking w/ Kip Ioane of Teams of Men/author of Mirror Training re: inspiring young male athletes & coaches, parents & hockey/sports ecosystem to help end gender based violence
August 6, 2025 at 4:05 PM
TONIGHT 6pm PST/ 9pm EST Join us for next in GECO IG Live series on ‘What’s Next after the Hockey Canada Verdict’
I’ll be talking w/ Kip Ioane of Teams of Men/author of Mirror Training re: inspiring young male athletes & coaches, parents & hockey/sports ecosystem to help end gender based violence
I’ll be talking w/ Kip Ioane of Teams of Men/author of Mirror Training re: inspiring young male athletes & coaches, parents & hockey/sports ecosystem to help end gender based violence
Masculinity isn't Toxic or Inherently Evil. As a man you can decide how you accessorize it, like a tool belt.
July 23, 2025 at 8:31 PM
Masculinity isn't Toxic or Inherently Evil. As a man you can decide how you accessorize it, like a tool belt.
For young men and boys - rather than search for someone who can offer shortcuts to status and identity at the expense of others - we can look inside ourselves to find the person who can help us be a man today. #Manhood #masculinity
July 21, 2025 at 6:27 PM
For young men and boys - rather than search for someone who can offer shortcuts to status and identity at the expense of others - we can look inside ourselves to find the person who can help us be a man today. #Manhood #masculinity
Join us this Sunday and support the good work of Embrave: Agency to End Violence I’ll be your MC!
More info here: embrave.akaraisin.com/ui/9EB6F4921...
More info here: embrave.akaraisin.com/ui/9EB6F4921...
July 10, 2025 at 12:36 AM
Join us this Sunday and support the good work of Embrave: Agency to End Violence I’ll be your MC!
More info here: embrave.akaraisin.com/ui/9EB6F4921...
More info here: embrave.akaraisin.com/ui/9EB6F4921...