Jay Aaron
@jay-aaron.bsky.social
Thinking 🧠 & Feeling ❤️
Traumatized #Millennial 🫨
#Gay Ginger #Gaymer Geek 👨🏻🦰
#CriticalTheory Discourse 🤔
#Queer Theory 🌈
#SmartHome #Tech 🤖
#SocialJustice ⬅️
#Disability & #MentalHealth Advocacy
#Musical
🔗 https://linktr.ee/jayaaron
Traumatized #Millennial 🫨
#Gay Ginger #Gaymer Geek 👨🏻🦰
#CriticalTheory Discourse 🤔
#Queer Theory 🌈
#SmartHome #Tech 🤖
#SocialJustice ⬅️
#Disability & #MentalHealth Advocacy
#Musical
🔗 https://linktr.ee/jayaaron
✨ STOP GATEKEEPING FOOD FROM THE POOR ✨
unFun Fact: Work requirements for SNAP only increase the number of people without food—they do NOT increase employment. (And SNAP has stringent 3-month work requirements. And resource/asset limits.)
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unFun Fact: Work requirements for SNAP only increase the number of people without food—they do NOT increase employment. (And SNAP has stringent 3-month work requirements. And resource/asset limits.)
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October 29, 2025 at 6:06 AM
✨ STOP GATEKEEPING FOOD FROM THE POOR ✨
unFun Fact: Work requirements for SNAP only increase the number of people without food—they do NOT increase employment. (And SNAP has stringent 3-month work requirements. And resource/asset limits.)
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unFun Fact: Work requirements for SNAP only increase the number of people without food—they do NOT increase employment. (And SNAP has stringent 3-month work requirements. And resource/asset limits.)
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Every 👏 Person 👏 Deserves 👏 Food 👏
There are 0 undeserving people on SNAP.
Come on, now!
There are 0 undeserving people on SNAP.
Come on, now!
October 29, 2025 at 6:00 AM
Every 👏 Person 👏 Deserves 👏 Food 👏
There are 0 undeserving people on SNAP.
Come on, now!
There are 0 undeserving people on SNAP.
Come on, now!
✨ Just World Fallacy ✨
One of my (least) favorite cognitive biases. 🧠
It’s the assumption that people generally get what they deserve, the corollary being that one who is suffering likely deserves their plight.
The reality?
Things happen whether or not we “deserve” it.
All the time.
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One of my (least) favorite cognitive biases. 🧠
It’s the assumption that people generally get what they deserve, the corollary being that one who is suffering likely deserves their plight.
The reality?
Things happen whether or not we “deserve” it.
All the time.
(1/2)
October 28, 2025 at 1:49 AM
✨ Just World Fallacy ✨
One of my (least) favorite cognitive biases. 🧠
It’s the assumption that people generally get what they deserve, the corollary being that one who is suffering likely deserves their plight.
The reality?
Things happen whether or not we “deserve” it.
All the time.
(1/2)
One of my (least) favorite cognitive biases. 🧠
It’s the assumption that people generally get what they deserve, the corollary being that one who is suffering likely deserves their plight.
The reality?
Things happen whether or not we “deserve” it.
All the time.
(1/2)
It’s wild to me—did people forget what it was like before the #ACA?
Do they know anyone who has had (or lives with) an illness?
Do they know seniors and others on #Medicare?
Do they know the working poor on #Medicaid?
Do they know that they can get sick or have an accident at ANY time?! 🙃
Do they know anyone who has had (or lives with) an illness?
Do they know seniors and others on #Medicare?
Do they know the working poor on #Medicaid?
Do they know that they can get sick or have an accident at ANY time?! 🙃
October 28, 2025 at 1:39 AM
The Apple Watch Series 11 internals look a lot like my Series 9 (and Series 10)…
I was hoping for a reason to upgrade 😭
#AppleEvent #AppleWatch #Apple #AppleWatchSeries11
I was hoping for a reason to upgrade 😭
#AppleEvent #AppleWatch #Apple #AppleWatchSeries11
September 9, 2025 at 7:50 PM
The Apple Watch Series 11 internals look a lot like my Series 9 (and Series 10)…
I was hoping for a reason to upgrade 😭
#AppleEvent #AppleWatch #Apple #AppleWatchSeries11
I was hoping for a reason to upgrade 😭
#AppleEvent #AppleWatch #Apple #AppleWatchSeries11
Public figure #ileavebreadcrumbs wrote that he engaged in behaviors, knowing of (or recklessly indifferent to) the serious harm. For 3 years. False repair promises. For his comfort. At my expense.
It’s NAUSEATING to see Joshua Alan Snyder-Hill recast it as cutting me off b/c I take his joy. Be true
It’s NAUSEATING to see Joshua Alan Snyder-Hill recast it as cutting me off b/c I take his joy. Be true
![Spreadsheet of messages from the public figure, Joshua Alan Snyder-Hill, aka ileavebreadcrumbs, from May 10, 2025 in which he states his understanding that he “knows” he “seriously wronged” J and does not believe that J did so to him. He commits to making “a serious effort to fix it / Understanding that [he] ha[s]en’t as of yet.” He confirms understanding and knowledge of the impacts on J’s “body and mind and business” as well as “physical impacts” and that he “knew,” backtracking to “reckless indifference” because he didn’t want to cause the harms, but then that he “had enough info from” J to know of the injuries, so back to a “yes” on the question of his knowledge.](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:awi2buwkkwer5zlhudt55ctz/bafkreifzob4wgxif5oe6ed5uzomj6pck2chao53deeuotuvrbwb22k44zq@jpeg)
August 17, 2025 at 3:35 AM
Public figure #ileavebreadcrumbs wrote that he engaged in behaviors, knowing of (or recklessly indifferent to) the serious harm. For 3 years. False repair promises. For his comfort. At my expense.
It’s NAUSEATING to see Joshua Alan Snyder-Hill recast it as cutting me off b/c I take his joy. Be true
It’s NAUSEATING to see Joshua Alan Snyder-Hill recast it as cutting me off b/c I take his joy. Be true
“The reason why we lose elections is because we’re arguing about X.”
Brillant.
YOU’RE BRILLIANT! 🥹
🏆*Nobel Peace Prize Granted* 🏆
🤯*Political Scientists’ Brains Explode* 🤯
👻*Critical Thinkers?! VANISHED!* 👻
Brillant.
YOU’RE BRILLIANT! 🥹
🏆*Nobel Peace Prize Granted* 🏆
🤯*Political Scientists’ Brains Explode* 🤯
👻*Critical Thinkers?! VANISHED!* 👻
July 31, 2025 at 1:59 AM
“The reason why we lose elections is because we’re arguing about X.”
Brillant.
YOU’RE BRILLIANT! 🥹
🏆*Nobel Peace Prize Granted* 🏆
🤯*Political Scientists’ Brains Explode* 🤯
👻*Critical Thinkers?! VANISHED!* 👻
Brillant.
YOU’RE BRILLIANT! 🥹
🏆*Nobel Peace Prize Granted* 🏆
🤯*Political Scientists’ Brains Explode* 🤯
👻*Critical Thinkers?! VANISHED!* 👻
Ok I’ll post about something else.
It would be nice to have a PC to edit videos and stream games. I have everything but the PC. 4K editing is annoyingly pricey.
And it’s this weird Intel thing where you can get a deal, but get locked out of Copilot+ because of the NPU.
Wait longer? But tariffs. 🙃
It would be nice to have a PC to edit videos and stream games. I have everything but the PC. 4K editing is annoyingly pricey.
And it’s this weird Intel thing where you can get a deal, but get locked out of Copilot+ because of the NPU.
Wait longer? But tariffs. 🙃
July 31, 2025 at 12:40 AM
Ok I’ll post about something else.
It would be nice to have a PC to edit videos and stream games. I have everything but the PC. 4K editing is annoyingly pricey.
And it’s this weird Intel thing where you can get a deal, but get locked out of Copilot+ because of the NPU.
Wait longer? But tariffs. 🙃
It would be nice to have a PC to edit videos and stream games. I have everything but the PC. 4K editing is annoyingly pricey.
And it’s this weird Intel thing where you can get a deal, but get locked out of Copilot+ because of the NPU.
Wait longer? But tariffs. 🙃
I think it’s important for @ileavebreadcrumbs.bsky.social to understand that lying about material details that I asked for (in writing) over and over so that he could gain access to me s*xualky & emotionally sure as hell is NOT consent, even if it may be legally.
How many others are there?
How many others are there?
July 30, 2025 at 8:25 PM
I think it’s important for @ileavebreadcrumbs.bsky.social to understand that lying about material details that I asked for (in writing) over and over so that he could gain access to me s*xualky & emotionally sure as hell is NOT consent, even if it may be legally.
How many others are there?
How many others are there?
Men who wear work outfits, but a size too tight 👀
July 27, 2025 at 4:31 AM
Men who wear work outfits, but a size too tight 👀
Well, I logged into my Anminal Crossing island for no reason and…it’s been 3 years and 7 months.
That’s how I know how much time has passed. 😱😭
That’s how I know how much time has passed. 😱😭
July 25, 2025 at 1:54 AM
Well, I logged into my Anminal Crossing island for no reason and…it’s been 3 years and 7 months.
That’s how I know how much time has passed. 😱😭
That’s how I know how much time has passed. 😱😭
At this point, this chronic cough could be either vagus nerve damage (from all of the natural impacts of his behavior on me) or psychogenic.
How sweet. I can’t sing or speak.
It’s ok though: he “didn’t intend” it.
And I’m not really a person.
So it’s my fault, really. 🤷♂️
How sweet. I can’t sing or speak.
It’s ok though: he “didn’t intend” it.
And I’m not really a person.
So it’s my fault, really. 🤷♂️
July 22, 2025 at 1:05 AM
At this point, this chronic cough could be either vagus nerve damage (from all of the natural impacts of his behavior on me) or psychogenic.
How sweet. I can’t sing or speak.
It’s ok though: he “didn’t intend” it.
And I’m not really a person.
So it’s my fault, really. 🤷♂️
How sweet. I can’t sing or speak.
It’s ok though: he “didn’t intend” it.
And I’m not really a person.
So it’s my fault, really. 🤷♂️
There’s no “healing” happening—when one takes control of someone’s life, strings them along with false reassurances, and then uses their privilege to enjoy the benefits of silence—the lingering effects, and the rest of the system, ensures the punishment never ends. #ileavebreadcrumbs #ptsd #cptsd
July 19, 2025 at 1:30 AM
There’s no “healing” happening—when one takes control of someone’s life, strings them along with false reassurances, and then uses their privilege to enjoy the benefits of silence—the lingering effects, and the rest of the system, ensures the punishment never ends. #ileavebreadcrumbs #ptsd #cptsd
I think the most fascinating—and personally devastating—aspect of engaging in social media as a creator, primarily on TikTok, has just been how off-the-rails lonely it is.
The lack of process and censorship has been bonkers to navigate. And ultimately, it fails you when you need to be a messy human
The lack of process and censorship has been bonkers to navigate. And ultimately, it fails you when you need to be a messy human
July 14, 2025 at 3:02 AM
I think the most fascinating—and personally devastating—aspect of engaging in social media as a creator, primarily on TikTok, has just been how off-the-rails lonely it is.
The lack of process and censorship has been bonkers to navigate. And ultimately, it fails you when you need to be a messy human
The lack of process and censorship has been bonkers to navigate. And ultimately, it fails you when you need to be a messy human
There’s a mistaken assumption that I want “revenge” or I’m holding on to a romantic fantasy. Both are false.
This was deliberate. My body, my mind—deliberately taken advantage of. Those around him, hostile or indifferent to the impacts on me.
They advocate as safe.
Why won’t anyone do something?!
This was deliberate. My body, my mind—deliberately taken advantage of. Those around him, hostile or indifferent to the impacts on me.
They advocate as safe.
Why won’t anyone do something?!
July 13, 2025 at 2:15 AM
There’s a mistaken assumption that I want “revenge” or I’m holding on to a romantic fantasy. Both are false.
This was deliberate. My body, my mind—deliberately taken advantage of. Those around him, hostile or indifferent to the impacts on me.
They advocate as safe.
Why won’t anyone do something?!
This was deliberate. My body, my mind—deliberately taken advantage of. Those around him, hostile or indifferent to the impacts on me.
They advocate as safe.
Why won’t anyone do something?!
Well, that explains why
this happened.
I was just told that
I should have known, and
should have asked the husband,
even though I didn’t know
and had no reason to suspect anything,
and I can’t retroactively know
that I was lied to but also
that people just get hurt all the time
so…yeah.
this happened.
I was just told that
I should have known, and
should have asked the husband,
even though I didn’t know
and had no reason to suspect anything,
and I can’t retroactively know
that I was lied to but also
that people just get hurt all the time
so…yeah.
July 10, 2025 at 12:46 AM
Well, that explains why
this happened.
I was just told that
I should have known, and
should have asked the husband,
even though I didn’t know
and had no reason to suspect anything,
and I can’t retroactively know
that I was lied to but also
that people just get hurt all the time
so…yeah.
this happened.
I was just told that
I should have known, and
should have asked the husband,
even though I didn’t know
and had no reason to suspect anything,
and I can’t retroactively know
that I was lied to but also
that people just get hurt all the time
so…yeah.
I think he broke me and that was the point
July 5, 2025 at 2:59 AM
I think he broke me and that was the point
On the bright side: at least I have that job I was offered but never given and then blamed for when he was supposed to call me back but never did.
Yeah #Medicaid is how some of us manage to get by.
Glad men who have more will profit though. 🙄
Thanks.
Yeah #Medicaid is how some of us manage to get by.
Glad men who have more will profit though. 🙄
Thanks.
July 4, 2025 at 12:29 AM
On the bright side: at least I have that job I was offered but never given and then blamed for when he was supposed to call me back but never did.
Yeah #Medicaid is how some of us manage to get by.
Glad men who have more will profit though. 🙄
Thanks.
Yeah #Medicaid is how some of us manage to get by.
Glad men who have more will profit though. 🙄
Thanks.
He had a dream involving a leather dog collar and leash.
He waited until he had my full attention before he would tell me about it.
I later bought a nice collar and leash.
He knew it wasn’t allowed.
But I was trained—so here I have this reminder.
I hope to reclaim it.
#GaySky #GayLeather
He waited until he had my full attention before he would tell me about it.
I later bought a nice collar and leash.
He knew it wasn’t allowed.
But I was trained—so here I have this reminder.
I hope to reclaim it.
#GaySky #GayLeather
July 3, 2025 at 4:14 AM
He had a dream involving a leather dog collar and leash.
He waited until he had my full attention before he would tell me about it.
I later bought a nice collar and leash.
He knew it wasn’t allowed.
But I was trained—so here I have this reminder.
I hope to reclaim it.
#GaySky #GayLeather
He waited until he had my full attention before he would tell me about it.
I later bought a nice collar and leash.
He knew it wasn’t allowed.
But I was trained—so here I have this reminder.
I hope to reclaim it.
#GaySky #GayLeather
I thought I was standing up for myself. I mirrored his language. But 0 views.
This is what systemic #manipulation is: platforms protect reward the silence of larger creators, while you are silent punished. You can speak, but not be heard.
I feel…empty.
#ptsd
#ileavebreadcrumbs
#gayrelationships
This is what systemic #manipulation is: platforms protect reward the silence of larger creators, while you are silent punished. You can speak, but not be heard.
I feel…empty.
#ptsd
#ileavebreadcrumbs
#gayrelationships
July 3, 2025 at 2:28 AM
I thought I was standing up for myself. I mirrored his language. But 0 views.
This is what systemic #manipulation is: platforms protect reward the silence of larger creators, while you are silent punished. You can speak, but not be heard.
I feel…empty.
#ptsd
#ileavebreadcrumbs
#gayrelationships
This is what systemic #manipulation is: platforms protect reward the silence of larger creators, while you are silent punished. You can speak, but not be heard.
I feel…empty.
#ptsd
#ileavebreadcrumbs
#gayrelationships
When you can’t even POST about it.
0 views. I can mirror his language but I avoid the words you aren’t supposed to say.
0 views.
It’s systemic.
THAT’s power.
It’s not ok.
😔
0 views. I can mirror his language but I avoid the words you aren’t supposed to say.
0 views.
It’s systemic.
THAT’s power.
It’s not ok.
😔
July 2, 2025 at 6:46 PM
When you can’t even POST about it.
0 views. I can mirror his language but I avoid the words you aren’t supposed to say.
0 views.
It’s systemic.
THAT’s power.
It’s not ok.
😔
0 views. I can mirror his language but I avoid the words you aren’t supposed to say.
0 views.
It’s systemic.
THAT’s power.
It’s not ok.
😔
How is it easier to lie or otherwise deceive
over and over—for 3 years—rather than just have told the truth or simply ignored me?
One can pose for the camera, profit off of being safe, empathic. But privately, shape me into a “good boy” through power & deceit. Silenced #ptsd #breadcrumbs #gayman
over and over—for 3 years—rather than just have told the truth or simply ignored me?
One can pose for the camera, profit off of being safe, empathic. But privately, shape me into a “good boy” through power & deceit. Silenced #ptsd #breadcrumbs #gayman
June 29, 2025 at 5:00 AM
How is it easier to lie or otherwise deceive
over and over—for 3 years—rather than just have told the truth or simply ignored me?
One can pose for the camera, profit off of being safe, empathic. But privately, shape me into a “good boy” through power & deceit. Silenced #ptsd #breadcrumbs #gayman
over and over—for 3 years—rather than just have told the truth or simply ignored me?
One can pose for the camera, profit off of being safe, empathic. But privately, shape me into a “good boy” through power & deceit. Silenced #ptsd #breadcrumbs #gayman
I can’t even talk about Medicaid. When they say they are cutting “waste,” I can’t help but think—
who taught them that the lives of human beings are “waste?” 🤦♂️
#Medicaid #DisabilitySky
who taught them that the lives of human beings are “waste?” 🤦♂️
#Medicaid #DisabilitySky
June 26, 2025 at 1:14 AM
I can’t even talk about Medicaid. When they say they are cutting “waste,” I can’t help but think—
who taught them that the lives of human beings are “waste?” 🤦♂️
#Medicaid #DisabilitySky
who taught them that the lives of human beings are “waste?” 🤦♂️
#Medicaid #DisabilitySky
I keep feeling like
I did something wrong—
like I made a mistake.
I know it’s because of
the reaction (silence), not the act.
But then I see posts about caring about people & crisis lines—
but not ACTUAL people.
Not me.
My friend.
I worked a digital line.
I suffer.
He profits. 😔
#ptsd #power
I did something wrong—
like I made a mistake.
I know it’s because of
the reaction (silence), not the act.
But then I see posts about caring about people & crisis lines—
but not ACTUAL people.
Not me.
My friend.
I worked a digital line.
I suffer.
He profits. 😔
#ptsd #power
June 25, 2025 at 2:48 AM
I never even got to say goodbye.
Sometimes, I fear, that my suffering makes him happy. That’s how much I don’t know.
I don’t know if anything he said was true. I don’t know if he knows how much I withheld from…everyone.
To keep him safe.
Because objects—“good bois,”
don’t get a choice.
I heart
Sometimes, I fear, that my suffering makes him happy. That’s how much I don’t know.
I don’t know if anything he said was true. I don’t know if he knows how much I withheld from…everyone.
To keep him safe.
Because objects—“good bois,”
don’t get a choice.
I heart
June 24, 2025 at 4:54 AM
I never even got to say goodbye.
Sometimes, I fear, that my suffering makes him happy. That’s how much I don’t know.
I don’t know if anything he said was true. I don’t know if he knows how much I withheld from…everyone.
To keep him safe.
Because objects—“good bois,”
don’t get a choice.
I heart
Sometimes, I fear, that my suffering makes him happy. That’s how much I don’t know.
I don’t know if anything he said was true. I don’t know if he knows how much I withheld from…everyone.
To keep him safe.
Because objects—“good bois,”
don’t get a choice.
I heart