The complaint about the phrase “toxic masculinity” is a classic reversal of victim and offender: the moral emergency is not the sexist violence and degradation that women are complaining about, but the way that overhearing their complaints makes men feel.

a lot of people are going to place blame onto the anti-genocide movement, and spend their time scolding them. but this is how politics works. you can’t leave someone in the cold and then demand their fealty.

literally also just learned this yesterday