@itswoot1.bsky.social
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thank you!
this one got under my skin quite a bit. and ffs, I could have just restricted him and been done with it. however, by blocking ... he gets a refund and I don't have to deal with the negative vibes.
this one got under my skin quite a bit. and ffs, I could have just restricted him and been done with it. however, by blocking ... he gets a refund and I don't have to deal with the negative vibes.
December 22, 2025 at 7:21 PM
thank you!
this one got under my skin quite a bit. and ffs, I could have just restricted him and been done with it. however, by blocking ... he gets a refund and I don't have to deal with the negative vibes.
this one got under my skin quite a bit. and ffs, I could have just restricted him and been done with it. however, by blocking ... he gets a refund and I don't have to deal with the negative vibes.
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He considers my social media my free pages. And is also confused why I’d talk to people that don’t pay (aka my friends and people I enjoy) and thinks I’m the problem with OF.
December 21, 2025 at 10:36 PM
He considers my social media my free pages. And is also confused why I’d talk to people that don’t pay (aka my friends and people I enjoy) and thinks I’m the problem with OF.
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Lastly, I want to point out that he doesn’t know who pays. It’s maddening.
December 21, 2025 at 11:14 PM
Lastly, I want to point out that he doesn’t know who pays. It’s maddening.
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I am fortunate in a lot of ways. I make way more doing this but it's too much stress.
I miss being able to take time away without people taking it personally.
I miss being able to socialize after working 8-10 hours without being judged.
I miss people not discounting what I say immediately.
I miss being able to take time away without people taking it personally.
I miss being able to socialize after working 8-10 hours without being judged.
I miss people not discounting what I say immediately.
December 22, 2025 at 4:24 AM
I am fortunate in a lot of ways. I make way more doing this but it's too much stress.
I miss being able to take time away without people taking it personally.
I miss being able to socialize after working 8-10 hours without being judged.
I miss people not discounting what I say immediately.
I miss being able to take time away without people taking it personally.
I miss being able to socialize after working 8-10 hours without being judged.
I miss people not discounting what I say immediately.
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We don't have sick time or vacation days where we can completely walk away. If we miss a day, days, whatever, people notice. We can make arrangements to make it less noticeable but there is not a complete disconnection ever.
I’m not going to apologize for not prioritizing you over my mental health, family health and care, and kind subscribers for what amounts to $9 over three months from you.
December 22, 2025 at 4:24 AM
We don't have sick time or vacation days where we can completely walk away. If we miss a day, days, whatever, people notice. We can make arrangements to make it less noticeable but there is not a complete disconnection ever.
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It wasn’t the worst message but combined with comments on posts and the fact that I’ve been open about blocking people for this.
December 21, 2025 at 10:27 PM
It wasn’t the worst message but combined with comments on posts and the fact that I’ve been open about blocking people for this.
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Dear buyers...shes a human...not a fucking product
December 22, 2025 at 7:03 AM
Dear buyers...shes a human...not a fucking product
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Oh man that’s really frustrating! It is ridiculous that people are demanding your time like that when 1) you are a professional & absolutely deserve boundaries 2) you already have a lot on your plate. I hope you’re able to get a chance to decompress soon 😣
December 21, 2025 at 9:13 PM
Oh man that’s really frustrating! It is ridiculous that people are demanding your time like that when 1) you are a professional & absolutely deserve boundaries 2) you already have a lot on your plate. I hope you’re able to get a chance to decompress soon 😣
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and my last set of thoughts on this topic, for today, is that I was avoiding my messages before my interviews because of shitheads and I am so glad I did that.
December 21, 2025 at 8:55 PM
and my last set of thoughts on this topic, for today, is that I was avoiding my messages before my interviews because of shitheads and I am so glad I did that.
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Obviously speaking to specific people here and not everyone. Because in reality there are only a few shitheads amongst many amazing, caring and understanding people.
December 21, 2025 at 8:28 PM
Obviously speaking to specific people here and not everyone. Because in reality there are only a few shitheads amongst many amazing, caring and understanding people.
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Treating me like I am doing something wrong by responding to people when I am, as a human being, restoring my social battery is incredibly dehumanizing.
The truth is I do not have more to give.
People like you are one of the reasons why creators hire chatters.
The truth is I do not have more to give.
People like you are one of the reasons why creators hire chatters.
December 21, 2025 at 8:26 PM
Treating me like I am doing something wrong by responding to people when I am, as a human being, restoring my social battery is incredibly dehumanizing.
The truth is I do not have more to give.
People like you are one of the reasons why creators hire chatters.
The truth is I do not have more to give.
People like you are one of the reasons why creators hire chatters.
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I know this is disappointing to some of you but complaining isn't going to get you more of me, it will get you less of me because I cannot change my situation at this time.
December 21, 2025 at 8:26 PM
I know this is disappointing to some of you but complaining isn't going to get you more of me, it will get you less of me because I cannot change my situation at this time.
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The reality of this is if you send me untipped messages frequently, you will continuously become my newest message in a huge pool of messages and you get moved to the back of the line.
Full disclosure, I can't even get through my tipped messages most days I am not home.
Full disclosure, I can't even get through my tipped messages most days I am not home.
December 21, 2025 at 8:26 PM
The reality of this is if you send me untipped messages frequently, you will continuously become my newest message in a huge pool of messages and you get moved to the back of the line.
Full disclosure, I can't even get through my tipped messages most days I am not home.
Full disclosure, I can't even get through my tipped messages most days I am not home.
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I read my messages starting with my highest tiers on Fansly, then the tipped messages and finally the rest of them starting with the oldest. I very rarely can get to more than a handful each time I log on.
December 21, 2025 at 8:26 PM
I read my messages starting with my highest tiers on Fansly, then the tipped messages and finally the rest of them starting with the oldest. I very rarely can get to more than a handful each time I log on.
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I have been dealing with some serious family issues and have spent 70% of my time away from home. I don't want to explain the details because so many people can't help but make everything sexual but I do not have privacy.
December 21, 2025 at 8:26 PM
I have been dealing with some serious family issues and have spent 70% of my time away from home. I don't want to explain the details because so many people can't help but make everything sexual but I do not have privacy.
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Social media isn't "my free pages". I use social media as both a creative outlet and a way to refill my social battery.
When I am staying with family, it isn't weird to be on insta or discord casually chatting. It is weird to be on Fansly/OF. I don't live in a sex bubble. I am a human being.
When I am staying with family, it isn't weird to be on insta or discord casually chatting. It is weird to be on Fansly/OF. I don't live in a sex bubble. I am a human being.
December 21, 2025 at 8:26 PM
Social media isn't "my free pages". I use social media as both a creative outlet and a way to refill my social battery.
When I am staying with family, it isn't weird to be on insta or discord casually chatting. It is weird to be on Fansly/OF. I don't live in a sex bubble. I am a human being.
When I am staying with family, it isn't weird to be on insta or discord casually chatting. It is weird to be on Fansly/OF. I don't live in a sex bubble. I am a human being.
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I’ve advanced two more times. There’s many more steps that include a full day on-site, a presentation, a panel interview, 1 on 1s and a technical assessment.
It went okay. ❤️ now that it’s over, I’ll start checking my messages again. But later, I need to nap.
December 21, 2025 at 8:18 AM
I’ve advanced two more times. There’s many more steps that include a full day on-site, a presentation, a panel interview, 1 on 1s and a technical assessment.
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It went okay. ❤️ now that it’s over, I’ll start checking my messages again. But later, I need to nap.
December 18, 2025 at 10:37 PM
It went okay. ❤️ now that it’s over, I’ll start checking my messages again. But later, I need to nap.
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I hate making non-cat posts. I hate "discourse". But the number of comments I've seen degrading and dehumanizing sex workers because of that Melania trailer is appalling. That ghoulish woman will never see your "whore" jokes but they absolutely contribute to the stigma that gets sex workers killed.
December 17, 2025 at 7:39 PM
I hate making non-cat posts. I hate "discourse". But the number of comments I've seen degrading and dehumanizing sex workers because of that Melania trailer is appalling. That ghoulish woman will never see your "whore" jokes but they absolutely contribute to the stigma that gets sex workers killed.
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I don't care what little story you tell yourself to justify it, it's a cheap blow punching down at a population that is "among the most vulnerable people in society... routinely subjected to violence, discrimination, and harassment" www.amnestyusa.org/reports/sex-...
Amnesty International today published its policy on protecting sex workers from human rights violations and abuses, along with four research reports on these issues in Papua New Guinea, Hong Kong, Nor...
Amnesty International today published its policy on protecting sex workers from human rights violations and abuses, along with four research reports on these issues in Papua New Guinea, Hong Kong, Nor...
www.amnestyusa.org
December 17, 2025 at 7:39 PM
I don't care what little story you tell yourself to justify it, it's a cheap blow punching down at a population that is "among the most vulnerable people in society... routinely subjected to violence, discrimination, and harassment" www.amnestyusa.org/reports/sex-...
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I will not be arguing about this with anyone. If you think it's cool to use people who suffer chronic human rights abuses as a punchline I'm not going to be explain to you why it's not. Follow @swop-usa.bsky.social. Listen to sex workers. Decriminalize sex work. www.theguardian.com/society/2018...
Criminalisation of sex work normalises violence, review finds
Sex workers three times more likely to experience violence from client where trade is criminalised, data shows
www.theguardian.com
December 17, 2025 at 7:39 PM
I will not be arguing about this with anyone. If you think it's cool to use people who suffer chronic human rights abuses as a punchline I'm not going to be explain to you why it's not. Follow @swop-usa.bsky.social. Listen to sex workers. Decriminalize sex work. www.theguardian.com/society/2018...
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Fingers crossed, I have an interview this week. 😇
December 16, 2025 at 5:24 AM
Fingers crossed, I have an interview this week. 😇