Working on my master’s in the sun during spring break 🌸🌻🪻🌿

I'm uncomfortable with the inevitable "his work was always crap" because it seems to say "you can tell who the predators are by how well they write" and ... no no you absolutely cannot, that's the whole point.

How do y’all deal with the Sunday Scaries?

I’m looking to read books/listen to podcasts that encourage people pleaser, queer/fat folks to take up space. Any recommendations?