Andrea Peters
infinitepolyam.bsky.social
Andrea Peters
@infinitepolyam.bsky.social
She/Her | HTX | Queer | 42 | Mom
24ish years non- monogamous

Polyamory life, activism, education, humor
Challenging your viewpoints on relationships

https://linktr.ee/infinitepolyam
No one loves to talk about polyamory more than the non non monogamous. And they repeat the same tired takes ::yawn::
October 14, 2025 at 10:57 PM
You shouldn’t have to apologize for being polyamorous. You shouldn’t have to give disclaimers when discussing the system of monogamy and mononormativity. Take up space. Don’t apologize for being here.
May 22, 2025 at 9:47 PM
I was heavily taught about sex as a child - but only for reproduction. My mom was a labor and delivery RN so “where do babies come from” was such a natural convo. But sex for pleasure? Consent? Masturbation? Sexual orientation? Etc - NEVER!
May 16, 2025 at 5:28 PM
I wrote on this a while back and I think I should do an update. I don’t just get the ick, I find it harmful. Sharing if you’d like to read. Seems as only relationships that don’t conform to a cisheteromononormative box are called a lifestyle.

medium.com/@infinitepol...
Stop Calling Polyamory a “Lifestyle” — An Open Letter to the Polyamorous Community
Why am I requesting polyamorous people to stop referring to polyamory as a lifestyle and why do I care? You may be wondering this among many other things or even ready to scroll away. To explain my…
medium.com
May 13, 2025 at 4:24 PM
Love this!!
May 9, 2025 at 8:50 PM
TLC is always going to show some drama so if I accept that it’s of course going to focus heavily on that, I think so far they’re showing good polyamory representation of how they appear in their own content and good rep of a quad.

#Polyfamily
April 30, 2025 at 3:17 AM
They only care about themselves, no one else plus refuse to acknowledge their own behavior. “Love everybody” means only those they think deserve their love and they view trans people as beneath them.
April 18, 2025 at 1:41 PM
Reposted by Andrea Peters
People often forget colonialism didn’t just steal land—it also stole sexual autonomy. Christian missionaries criminalised polyamory, erased matriarchal systems, and forced monogamy to control inheritance and property.

The Spanish burned Indigenous erotic art & labelled Andean shamans “diabolical”.
April 17, 2025 at 9:23 PM
It was on TikTok. I can download but I think (I could be wrong) only downloads my posted videos and not include comments. If someone closes their account, comments disappear so that could impact it too. I wish I did a screen shot at the time but it wasn’t until far later I saw the full humor lol
April 16, 2025 at 2:13 PM
In the US, I highly doubt it. I believe there will be more and more US cities that begin to recognize multiple partnerships, but on a national level, no.
April 9, 2025 at 2:11 PM
I get it and I don’t think that’s shallow. Maybe it’s part of wanting at least a few of those things in common with someone else or if they are super into a genre you despise, it can affect connection or even give an ick.

I’m sure there are many various reasons for different people.
April 8, 2025 at 5:34 PM