she/her Mother of Gatos. Holder of brain weirdness. cute things, howl into the void, mental health bluntness, disability, more cute things. Bay Area. Mexican American/various whiteness
I needed to step back from social media and I missed so much, I miss you Guppy, you were so easy to like and admire. So genuine and special. Thank you J and family for letting us know
November 8, 2025 at 12:50 PM
I needed to step back from social media and I missed so much, I miss you Guppy, you were so easy to like and admire. So genuine and special. Thank you J and family for letting us know
I’ve been doing this long enough to know better you’d think. Challenging situations can make the world seem small and the obvious not so obvious. Been doing this long enough to know that too
October 7, 2025 at 5:35 PM
I’ve been doing this long enough to know better you’d think. Challenging situations can make the world seem small and the obvious not so obvious. Been doing this long enough to know that too
to be clear: *every* bigotry is a far-right radicalisation vector. the moment you allow yourself to believe that entire populations of marginalised people are malignant is the moment you are ready to believe in *anything*.
September 11, 2025 at 7:28 PM
to be clear: *every* bigotry is a far-right radicalisation vector. the moment you allow yourself to believe that entire populations of marginalised people are malignant is the moment you are ready to believe in *anything*.
I’m glad you are going to be more comfortable without the line. This isn’t the first time I wanted to be able to will chemo into working. I wish this wasn’t happening for you. You remain awesome as always
August 12, 2025 at 4:32 PM
I’m glad you are going to be more comfortable without the line. This isn’t the first time I wanted to be able to will chemo into working. I wish this wasn’t happening for you. You remain awesome as always
The nineties, the era of Nice Guy anthems like Self Esteem by Offspring, shaming pop star’s bodies as unacceptable for wearing high wasted jeans, Howard Stern, people saying queer women could be “fixed” by the right guy, the weaponization of sex positivity for coercion and exploitation
August 3, 2025 at 1:29 PM
The nineties, the era of Nice Guy anthems like Self Esteem by Offspring, shaming pop star’s bodies as unacceptable for wearing high wasted jeans, Howard Stern, people saying queer women could be “fixed” by the right guy, the weaponization of sex positivity for coercion and exploitation