I was apparently going on a face journey and they hurried to tell me they meant that I'm A Unique, Creative Individual Who Doesn't Give A Fuck which was kind but absolutely not the source of my ire

And here are two people wearing attire that's a bit more alternative. IMO, all four people are beautifully dressed but they using two different visual languages.

IG langleyseye

"why do you take the calls?" bc they'll do it wrong and i'll have to fix it if i don't and they'll fight amongst themselves