alex 🐻 (they/them)
@holistic-cub.bsky.social
they/them • nonbinary • queer • 33 • ohio
not a man, not a mister. please don't call me either. inquire within for more details.
not a man, not a mister. please don't call me either. inquire within for more details.
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We've really gotta talk about how I've been getting hate comments on TikTok lately from men calling me a beta. That is the funniest shit if you think about it for a minute.
For one, I'm nonbinary. I have zero interest in the bizarre ranking system of toxic masculinity.
For one, I'm nonbinary. I have zero interest in the bizarre ranking system of toxic masculinity.
November 2, 2025 at 5:51 PM
We've really gotta talk about how I've been getting hate comments on TikTok lately from men calling me a beta. That is the funniest shit if you think about it for a minute.
For one, I'm nonbinary. I have zero interest in the bizarre ranking system of toxic masculinity.
For one, I'm nonbinary. I have zero interest in the bizarre ranking system of toxic masculinity.
I don't wanna be at work, I just wanna be at home with a magically infinite supply of every crafting material I could ever need and making cosplay looks while singing along to the Wicked soundtrack while homemade apple cider simmers on the stove and bread is in the oven. Is that so much to ask for?!
October 29, 2025 at 1:54 PM
I don't wanna be at work, I just wanna be at home with a magically infinite supply of every crafting material I could ever need and making cosplay looks while singing along to the Wicked soundtrack while homemade apple cider simmers on the stove and bread is in the oven. Is that so much to ask for?!
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Kinda feel like the selfie gods have been smiling down on me lately. I'm making that your problem, I guess, lol.
October 29, 2025 at 1:56 AM
Kinda feel like the selfie gods have been smiling down on me lately. I'm making that your problem, I guess, lol.
Kinda feel like the selfie gods have been smiling down on me lately. I'm making that your problem, I guess, lol.
October 29, 2025 at 1:56 AM
Kinda feel like the selfie gods have been smiling down on me lately. I'm making that your problem, I guess, lol.
C'mere and cuddle.
October 26, 2025 at 1:24 PM
C'mere and cuddle.
Had someone stop me yesterday to tell me I look like Teddy Swims.
I absolutely don't, but I'll go ahead and let that feed my ego anyway.
I absolutely don't, but I'll go ahead and let that feed my ego anyway.
October 26, 2025 at 1:05 PM
Had someone stop me yesterday to tell me I look like Teddy Swims.
I absolutely don't, but I'll go ahead and let that feed my ego anyway.
I absolutely don't, but I'll go ahead and let that feed my ego anyway.
Another day, another self-directed question of "am I maybe interested in exploring being a pup or do I just like the idea of being collared because of the idea of having physical evidence that I belong to someone and someone wants me to belong with them"
October 24, 2025 at 7:10 PM
Another day, another self-directed question of "am I maybe interested in exploring being a pup or do I just like the idea of being collared because of the idea of having physical evidence that I belong to someone and someone wants me to belong with them"
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Repost if you have more followers than the Official White House BlueSky Account
October 17, 2025 at 10:41 PM
Repost if you have more followers than the Official White House BlueSky Account
Throwback to earlier this summer on the Rim Trail
Where, tragically, I did not in fact throw it back OR get rimmed 😔
Where, tragically, I did not in fact throw it back OR get rimmed 😔
October 15, 2025 at 8:41 PM
Throwback to earlier this summer on the Rim Trail
Where, tragically, I did not in fact throw it back OR get rimmed 😔
Where, tragically, I did not in fact throw it back OR get rimmed 😔
Baby, I'm not flirting... I'm just a moderately friendly queer person with a masculine aesthetic who has been to therapy and you decided I was your Manic Pixie Dream Man who would erase all your insecurities and you got disillusioned with me when I decided to wear a skirt and talk about btm surgery
Baby, I'm not flirting ... I'm a Scorpio and I make promises to do the things to you that whisper in the back of your mind late at night.
Baby, I'm [actually] flirting... I'm just an Aquarius which is either switch on or switch off; there’s no in-between
October 14, 2025 at 9:45 PM
Baby, I'm not flirting... I'm just a moderately friendly queer person with a masculine aesthetic who has been to therapy and you decided I was your Manic Pixie Dream Man who would erase all your insecurities and you got disillusioned with me when I decided to wear a skirt and talk about btm surgery
You've no idea the terror that ran through me when I saw this last night on Bateworld
It actually started at 219, but I didn't think to take a picture until after clicking the first notification
It actually started at 219, but I didn't think to take a picture until after clicking the first notification
October 14, 2025 at 6:07 PM
You've no idea the terror that ran through me when I saw this last night on Bateworld
It actually started at 219, but I didn't think to take a picture until after clicking the first notification
It actually started at 219, but I didn't think to take a picture until after clicking the first notification
No YOU'RE posting hole on main
October 14, 2025 at 6:04 PM
No YOU'RE posting hole on main
Got a case of The Sad™️ this evening. Come over and nuzzle into my chest and neck?
October 8, 2025 at 2:14 AM
Got a case of The Sad™️ this evening. Come over and nuzzle into my chest and neck?
Golden hour lighting shenanigans.
October 6, 2025 at 3:46 AM
Golden hour lighting shenanigans.
While y'all are wearing jockstraps, I'm learning French. Call that Jacquestober
October 2, 2025 at 6:51 PM
While y'all are wearing jockstraps, I'm learning French. Call that Jacquestober
Also, I feel pretty today. 😌
October 2, 2025 at 3:07 PM
Also, I feel pretty today. 😌
Bit o' tits 'n belly, innit
October 2, 2025 at 2:41 PM
Bit o' tits 'n belly, innit
Also!
If your response to JKR's transphobia is "if she'd just kept her mouth shut, everything would be fine," I encourage you to inspect that thought.
JKR doesn't just talk about transphobia, she funds it and steers public policy.
If she'd "shut her mouth," that wouldn't stop things.
If your response to JKR's transphobia is "if she'd just kept her mouth shut, everything would be fine," I encourage you to inspect that thought.
JKR doesn't just talk about transphobia, she funds it and steers public policy.
If she'd "shut her mouth," that wouldn't stop things.
September 21, 2025 at 8:42 PM
Also!
If your response to JKR's transphobia is "if she'd just kept her mouth shut, everything would be fine," I encourage you to inspect that thought.
JKR doesn't just talk about transphobia, she funds it and steers public policy.
If she'd "shut her mouth," that wouldn't stop things.
If your response to JKR's transphobia is "if she'd just kept her mouth shut, everything would be fine," I encourage you to inspect that thought.
JKR doesn't just talk about transphobia, she funds it and steers public policy.
If she'd "shut her mouth," that wouldn't stop things.
After the interactions I have had with cis queer men over the last two years, I want to make something abundantly clear:
If you are sexually or romantically attracted to a nonbinary person, especially someone who came out within the last few years, you owe them room to figure out who they are.
If you are sexually or romantically attracted to a nonbinary person, especially someone who came out within the last few years, you owe them room to figure out who they are.
September 21, 2025 at 8:06 PM
After the interactions I have had with cis queer men over the last two years, I want to make something abundantly clear:
If you are sexually or romantically attracted to a nonbinary person, especially someone who came out within the last few years, you owe them room to figure out who they are.
If you are sexually or romantically attracted to a nonbinary person, especially someone who came out within the last few years, you owe them room to figure out who they are.
You ever just get closure on the thing that's been devastating your self-esteem most of the summer and realize it had nothing to do with you, get the best night of sleep of the year, and then jerk off and cum so hard you can even feel it in your hands and feet?
Happy Sunday!
Happy Sunday!
September 21, 2025 at 2:46 PM
You ever just get closure on the thing that's been devastating your self-esteem most of the summer and realize it had nothing to do with you, get the best night of sleep of the year, and then jerk off and cum so hard you can even feel it in your hands and feet?
Happy Sunday!
Happy Sunday!
Having a time upstairs with (not) wanting to make spicy content.
Have a picture where I felt real cute.
Have a picture where I felt real cute.
September 15, 2025 at 11:13 PM
Having a time upstairs with (not) wanting to make spicy content.
Have a picture where I felt real cute.
Have a picture where I felt real cute.
Forever thinking about that guy I talked to on the apps who, when we started talking about fetishes and kinks, led with saying he "wasn't into anything with animals."
To which I was like, UH YEAH AGREED, also why did you lead with that??????????
Reader, he meant pup play.
To which I was like, UH YEAH AGREED, also why did you lead with that??????????
Reader, he meant pup play.
September 12, 2025 at 1:14 PM
Forever thinking about that guy I talked to on the apps who, when we started talking about fetishes and kinks, led with saying he "wasn't into anything with animals."
To which I was like, UH YEAH AGREED, also why did you lead with that??????????
Reader, he meant pup play.
To which I was like, UH YEAH AGREED, also why did you lead with that??????????
Reader, he meant pup play.
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I love my bears, but I'm gonna need you guys to do a better job with pronouns. It literally takes 10 seconds to check someone's pronouns in their bio before messaging them. Validating a non-binary person's existence is hot and sexy!
Here's a list of non-gendered terms that @pizzahog made:
Here's a list of non-gendered terms that @pizzahog made:
Inclusive non-gendered terms to use while thirsting on Bsky:
Daddy ~> Boss|Coach|Alpha|Chief
Boy ~> Babe|Pet|Pup|Kitten|Cub|Buddy
Man|Guy|Dude|Bro|etc ~> Friend|Bud|Person
Ex.:
“Show me that cock, pup”
“Your hole looks delicious Chief”
“Such a beautiful person!”
“Damn bud 🥴 Can I huff those pits?”
Daddy ~> Boss|Coach|Alpha|Chief
Boy ~> Babe|Pet|Pup|Kitten|Cub|Buddy
Man|Guy|Dude|Bro|etc ~> Friend|Bud|Person
Ex.:
“Show me that cock, pup”
“Your hole looks delicious Chief”
“Such a beautiful person!”
“Damn bud 🥴 Can I huff those pits?”
August 29, 2025 at 3:25 PM
I love my bears, but I'm gonna need you guys to do a better job with pronouns. It literally takes 10 seconds to check someone's pronouns in their bio before messaging them. Validating a non-binary person's existence is hot and sexy!
Here's a list of non-gendered terms that @pizzahog made:
Here's a list of non-gendered terms that @pizzahog made:
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July 25, 2025 at 12:50 PM
New level of panic unlocked: Hit myself in the nipple with my car door accidentally and thought I'd ripped out one of my bars. 🙃
August 21, 2025 at 3:04 PM
New level of panic unlocked: Hit myself in the nipple with my car door accidentally and thought I'd ripped out one of my bars. 🙃