Hanoumatoi
hanoumatoi.bsky.social
Hanoumatoi
@hanoumatoi.bsky.social
Not the fastest Diablo 3 player in the world, dad, progressive
Seattle, WA area
he/him
Sorry, is this saying you're not allowed to discuss Prohibited Discriminatory Behaviors and why they are prohibited??
November 20, 2025 at 11:43 PM
"Reward the healthy" sounds good when you are thinking "why should I pay more for Joe's smoking habit??", a lot less when you realize it means if you have an emergency you are no longer "the healthy" and when you understand that kind of health often isn't a choice.
/fin
November 20, 2025 at 3:09 AM
They didn't like my pointing out that a) communalizing risk is the point of insurance,
And b) the people who did need it would be crushed to save everyone else a few dollars.
I ultimately was able to finagle one more year of the old coverage for those who opted in, but at an increased rate. 3/
November 20, 2025 at 3:08 AM
They saw an opportunity for savings: switch plans to one where most people would still be covered, but the deductible would go way up! But it's ok, most people will be able to put the difference in an HSA and come out a little ahead!
2/
November 20, 2025 at 3:06 AM
At a union job I had ages ago, I was a shop steward, so they brought us in to explain the changes to health care plans. The company and our provider had done an analysis and discovered that most of the claims (aka costs) came from only a small group of people! 1/
November 20, 2025 at 3:04 AM
Talk to your current psychiatrist and get them to give you refills now, set up a PCP appointment as soon as possible and ask if a) they'll write you the scrip themselves and b) if they'll refer you to a psychiatrist and write the scrip until that's set up.
My care team has been very accommodating.
November 19, 2025 at 6:01 AM
I looked at the profiles of the doctors online and picked one who sounded welcoming and patient forward.

I hope it goes smoothly for you!
November 19, 2025 at 5:47 AM
Are you asking about it changing to Kaiser as in it wasn't before and now is, or charging to Kaiser, as in using Kaiser to pay for an outside psychiatrist?

If you mean you are going from a different network to Kaiser, my PCP was willing to prescribe me based on past history of prescriptions.
November 19, 2025 at 5:43 AM
Dash-con did this years ago!
November 17, 2025 at 6:05 PM
I gave you multiple tips! And the one that got you to watch Hero was even good!
Your avatar looks like a kid though so hard pass on the other part.
November 15, 2025 at 9:18 AM
Hello Emily, I'm dad.
November 15, 2025 at 5:46 AM
That's what he is saying: "the problematic part is that the government is allowed to do it, not that you can't."
November 14, 2025 at 9:37 PM
No, it's more like saying someone who OD'd on heroin died from drug use.
November 14, 2025 at 12:02 AM
Of himself that are holding him back from becoming the best form of himself. He takes abuse throughout the film (verbal from his boss, verbal and dysphoric from the agents, then finally physical from Smith at the end) before finally accepting himself and breaking free. Where we go from here... 2/2
November 13, 2025 at 4:12 AM
Neo is lost and feels like his mind and his body don't belong together. He is looking for others like him who can help him, but they can only show him the path, only he can walk it (transition). He isn't ready to accept the truth about himself yet, and needs to let go of certain parts 1/
November 13, 2025 at 4:10 AM
Yes, but it's also very funny that they thought it was a selling point
November 13, 2025 at 1:15 AM
I was definitely struck by it as an allegory for self-discovery and of course particularly in the sense of identifying as trans. I loved the movie 25 years ago, and I love it today, in different ways. What a wonderful job you two did. Thank you for sharing this story with us.
November 12, 2025 at 11:18 PM
I recall something like that in Moving Pictures.
November 12, 2025 at 11:04 PM
By "misunderstood" they meant his ideas were unpopular. And good, they fucking should be!!!
November 12, 2025 at 8:44 PM
I don't want the world! I just want your half.
November 12, 2025 at 7:23 AM
This feels like when all those refueling aircraft were moving towards Europe, and people were like "this is weird..." and then it turned out it was to bomb Iran.
November 12, 2025 at 6:32 AM
I believe that's the name of the band! Fun fact: Lone Digger features in Disney's Strange World, which cracked me up based on the idea of folks looking up the song for their kids and seeing cartoon animals and thinking it would be fine.
November 12, 2025 at 1:52 AM