Hannah Donia
@hannahdonia.bsky.social
This is my anonymousish account to say true things to the Internet about my messy relationship with gender.
She/her, let's see how this feels.
She/her, let's see how this feels.
Hello, I did a brave thing tonight and it went well initially and then not so well and now I am in The Bad Place.
September 6, 2025 at 6:12 AM
Hello, I did a brave thing tonight and it went well initially and then not so well and now I am in The Bad Place.
Rumi from KPDH is a trans icon, I will not be taking questions at this time.
September 6, 2025 at 12:52 AM
Rumi from KPDH is a trans icon, I will not be taking questions at this time.
I want to make a joke about picking the wrong year to quit being cis modelled on the joke from Airplane about sniffing glue, but every time I start to write it I get offended by myself. So just pretend I made a funny but offensive joke, ok?
August 28, 2025 at 3:06 PM
I want to make a joke about picking the wrong year to quit being cis modelled on the joke from Airplane about sniffing glue, but every time I start to write it I get offended by myself. So just pretend I made a funny but offensive joke, ok?
I have now positively identified myself as a trans woman who has no idea what the fuck she's going to do about that to two (2) real live people.
Does this get easier or, should I just start taking a bunch of anti-anxiety meds in advance?
Does this get easier or, should I just start taking a bunch of anti-anxiety meds in advance?
August 27, 2025 at 11:10 PM
I have now positively identified myself as a trans woman who has no idea what the fuck she's going to do about that to two (2) real live people.
Does this get easier or, should I just start taking a bunch of anti-anxiety meds in advance?
Does this get easier or, should I just start taking a bunch of anti-anxiety meds in advance?
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when society collapses, i'll be the trans left
August 27, 2025 at 3:58 AM
when society collapses, i'll be the trans left
I love Tori Amos, I really do, but releasing She's Your Cocaine in 1998, of all years, really does seem like a personal attack.
August 24, 2025 at 11:00 PM
I love Tori Amos, I really do, but releasing She's Your Cocaine in 1998, of all years, really does seem like a personal attack.
The fastest hat trick in MLS history is 16 minutes. So this is a record in American professional soccer, full stop.
(Also, omg, this is just *incredible* play)
(Also, omg, this is just *incredible* play)
Grab some popcorn and watch history being made 🍿
In 10 minutes and 9 seconds, Ludmila's hat trick tonight is the FASTEST in NWSL history!
In 10 minutes and 9 seconds, Ludmila's hat trick tonight is the FASTEST in NWSL history!
August 23, 2025 at 4:48 AM
The fastest hat trick in MLS history is 16 minutes. So this is a record in American professional soccer, full stop.
(Also, omg, this is just *incredible* play)
(Also, omg, this is just *incredible* play)
Someone once said "man cannot live on bread alone", to which I reply
a man in a knight 's helmet is covering his face with his hand and saying i am no man .
ALT: a man in a knight 's helmet is covering his face with his hand and saying i am no man .
media.tenor.com
August 22, 2025 at 5:34 PM
Someone once said "man cannot live on bread alone", to which I reply
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“Overall, Gavin Newsom supports the LGBT+ community” I’m going to stop you right there
You can’t round up on this shit
You can’t round up on this shit
August 21, 2025 at 10:45 AM
“Overall, Gavin Newsom supports the LGBT+ community” I’m going to stop you right there
You can’t round up on this shit
You can’t round up on this shit
Had a dream last night in which my unconscious invented the word "non-ordinal" to describe a gender identity, and now I'm kind of obsessed with figuring out what that means.
August 21, 2025 at 4:27 PM
Had a dream last night in which my unconscious invented the word "non-ordinal" to describe a gender identity, and now I'm kind of obsessed with figuring out what that means.
Microdosing transitioning by spending a meeting being constantly interrupted by men explaining things to me that I already understand better than they do.
August 21, 2025 at 3:19 AM
Microdosing transitioning by spending a meeting being constantly interrupted by men explaining things to me that I already understand better than they do.
When I was pretty little, I think 7 or 8, there was this day at recess where the boys were plotting ways to mess with the girls, and since the girls were my friends I decided to be a double agent - because I was a boy, right? So I could go undercover, find out their plans and report back. Foolproof.
August 20, 2025 at 3:18 AM
When I was pretty little, I think 7 or 8, there was this day at recess where the boys were plotting ways to mess with the girls, and since the girls were my friends I decided to be a double agent - because I was a boy, right? So I could go undercover, find out their plans and report back. Foolproof.
Yesterday I was like "what am I fixating on gender for, I'm fine, this is fine, I can just live like this and will be not great but acceptable."
Today I'm like "welp, this is unbearable, might as well die."
Today I'm like "welp, this is unbearable, might as well die."
6) I don't have, like, constant, intense dysphoria, just sort of a low lying discomfort most of the time that occasionally flares up to pretty awful levels.
August 19, 2025 at 11:19 PM
Yesterday I was like "what am I fixating on gender for, I'm fine, this is fine, I can just live like this and will be not great but acceptable."
Today I'm like "welp, this is unbearable, might as well die."
Today I'm like "welp, this is unbearable, might as well die."
Let's make a list of stupid reasons why I think I can't/shouldn't actually go through with transitioning!
(there are not stupid - or at least less stupid - reasons too, but this is a list of stupid ones that pop into my head)
(there are not stupid - or at least less stupid - reasons too, but this is a list of stupid ones that pop into my head)
August 19, 2025 at 6:09 AM
Let's make a list of stupid reasons why I think I can't/shouldn't actually go through with transitioning!
(there are not stupid - or at least less stupid - reasons too, but this is a list of stupid ones that pop into my head)
(there are not stupid - or at least less stupid - reasons too, but this is a list of stupid ones that pop into my head)
Through what can only be an inexplicable coincidence, this is the first time I've ever actually been looking forward to going to therapy tomorrow.
I talked to my therapist about my gender stuff. Which I have never talked to another person face to face about before. So ... yay me?
August 19, 2025 at 3:28 AM
Through what can only be an inexplicable coincidence, this is the first time I've ever actually been looking forward to going to therapy tomorrow.
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going into a grocery store as an ADHD person is like playing a game of minesweeper with your human proximity tolerance
August 17, 2025 at 1:45 PM
going into a grocery store as an ADHD person is like playing a game of minesweeper with your human proximity tolerance
Bare minimum for holding a conversation:
Gabapentin, quetiapine, loop earplugs, one hour set aside afterwards for crying purposes.
Gabapentin, quetiapine, loop earplugs, one hour set aside afterwards for crying purposes.
Bare minimum for holding a conversation: concerta, Busiprone, nortryptaline, at least 10 hours of sleep, a whole lot of water.
Bare minimum for holding a conversation: Miller, Barash, Cullen, Stoelting, Yao & Artusio, Stoelting, Hadzic
August 17, 2025 at 5:18 PM
Bare minimum for holding a conversation:
Gabapentin, quetiapine, loop earplugs, one hour set aside afterwards for crying purposes.
Gabapentin, quetiapine, loop earplugs, one hour set aside afterwards for crying purposes.
I had not realized how incredibly affirming it is to replace "dance" with "trans" in song lyrics.
EVERYBODY TRANS NOW
DUN... DUN... DUN DUN DUN
DUN... DUN... DUN DUN DUN
August 16, 2025 at 6:19 PM
I had not realized how incredibly affirming it is to replace "dance" with "trans" in song lyrics.
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if your party is big-tent enough to include transphobes, it’s a transphobe party
sorry, I don’t make the rules
sorry, I don’t make the rules
August 15, 2025 at 10:41 PM
if your party is big-tent enough to include transphobes, it’s a transphobe party
sorry, I don’t make the rules
sorry, I don’t make the rules
Normal people: for fuck's sake.
Me, a person on Bluesky: facial feminization surgery
Me, a person on Bluesky: facial feminization surgery
August 15, 2025 at 4:23 AM
Normal people: for fuck's sake.
Me, a person on Bluesky: facial feminization surgery
Me, a person on Bluesky: facial feminization surgery
I don't know why, but I'm into it.
August 15, 2025 at 12:33 AM
I don't know why, but I'm into it.
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the quintessential ADHD experience
August 11, 2025 at 9:05 PM
the quintessential ADHD experience
On the one hand "male brain" and "female brain is obviously bullshit. On the other hand, I think a lot about how I somehow ended up with the girl flavor of ADHD.
August 14, 2025 at 12:15 AM
On the one hand "male brain" and "female brain is obviously bullshit. On the other hand, I think a lot about how I somehow ended up with the girl flavor of ADHD.
Gray 47
Me Second & the Gimmie Gimmies
Slightly diminish a band: About as Good as Ezra
August 13, 2025 at 4:35 AM
Gray 47