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previously: fatuglyorslutty.com 🪦
lately: o11y and street dance and wtfff is going on

honestly i probably shouldn't be here 🫠

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for some reason that Coates / Klein moment about immediacy / “winning” embedded itself deeply in my cortex and I know it’s not logical but I feel all these same neurons firing
We'll see. I think it's kinda chicken or the egg until there are more use cases. She told me about the mutual aid stuff before launching and I was like "sounds good! Shit's getting rough!" but didn't think much else. It's clear to me in hindsight it's been the skeleton key of the whole campaign.
December 27, 2025 at 2:36 AM
I volunteered for a bunch of the logistics this year and it was a big project that went pretty good. somehow 15lbs cooked in ~2 hrs. convection went crazy on that bird. made soup today after gifts. took a couple hours of being home before I felt like, oh, we did it. these are the last of the dishes
December 25, 2025 at 11:43 PM
listened to a BTB pod on Kent H who befriended a pedophile. the structure of his excuses has stuck with me. he spoke about his friend’s actions in a legal sense, “so it was okay”

I have this childhood sense of knowing that “legal age” was important to a lot of men
December 20, 2025 at 3:36 AM
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It’s that time of the year where Home Alone is going to be on tv a bunch. As relatives go “they should have had a battery powered alarm” and make other judgments on the family’s lack of responsibility in forgetting their kid, get a better source to learn from what happened.

ferd.ca/home-alone-a...
Home Alone: a Post-Incident Review
A post-incident review of the first Home Alone movie and how parents could leave Kevin behind.
ferd.ca
December 19, 2025 at 12:54 PM
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This report co-prepared by @dairinstitute.bsky.social is *horrifying*. data-workers.org/wp-content/u...

It turns out that, yes, you can give cis people gender dysphoria by forcing them to do immersive sexual roleplay in shifts, without regard to their gender identity and sexuality.
data-workers.org
December 10, 2025 at 7:30 AM
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Holy shit.

Reuters reporting that new admin instructions on visas are if you worked at a platform in trust & safety or content moderation or on fact checking or online safety at an platform you *and your loved ones* are ineligible for H-1B visa.

www.reuters.com/world/us/tru...
December 4, 2025 at 5:41 PM
woooo it’s here! @quinnae.com ✨📖

I’ve been thinking a lot about social software accommodating human impulse. like if there was a “CLICK HERE TO MAKE A LOUD BAD DECISION” button then maybe I would be less of a Posting Risk? lol anyway psyched to dig in on this problem space again
December 7, 2025 at 6:01 AM
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I don't think transgender athletes are the problem facing girls and women in sports.
Investigators say former coach Sean Gardner created videos showing close-up images of at least 10 minors naked or undressing, which they recovered from his computers last year while investigating reports of sexual abuse.

Gardner has pleaded not guilty and has been jailed pending trial.
Olympics Sports Watchdog Failed to Stop Mississippi Coach's Sexual Abuse, Women Allege
Two gymnasts who say they were sexually abused at an elite academy in Iowa filed lawsuits Monday against the sport’s oversight bodies.
www.mississippifreepress.org
December 6, 2025 at 4:46 PM
I’ve had an intense time the last couple of days and this is the rewatch I reached for. so much to learn here for Animation technique & performance, but just so playful

youtu.be/Kg3_27GaEPk?...
Phax Juste Debout 2005
YouTube video by OLWEB69MEMBERS
youtu.be
December 6, 2025 at 4:13 AM
y'know as a teen computer dork working in fast food I was somehow able to bond with my dad over a software culture comic (I HAD A TSHIRT) and maybe this can heal something about how THAT all turned out
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November 28, 2025 at 10:47 PM
I don't know how to start / cue a habit of regularly organizing photos and vids. I always have new videos from dance classes, rehearsals, freestyle, events, etc but they seem like a fundamentally different category of media, mixed in with photos of flowers and cats
November 26, 2025 at 9:11 PM
It's finally up! A collection of links to news articles, interviews, panels, etc for & related to FUoS, sexism, & online harassment in games. FUoS was active more than a decade ago, so it's been an interesting exploration of the discourse from that time fatuglyorslutty.com/links.html
FatUglyOrSlutty.com - Links
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November 22, 2025 at 7:21 PM