Why do I keep attracting unavailable partners?”

Because there’s a part of you still confusing longing with love.

Even in a room of 20 people, you’d magnetize to the one who can’t love you back.

That’s not chemistry. That’s wounding.

This is the work of Awakening to Love.

#AwakeningToLove

What if your second thought is the real you?
The one who sees the impulse… and chooses presence instead.
Not perfection, but practice.
Not denial, but sacred awareness.
#SecondThoughtWisdom #AwakeningToLove #ConsciousLiving

It wasn’t heartbreak that hurt it was forgetting to love wisely. And the Eternal whispered:
“Sweetheart, you hurt because you are love. Come home.”
This is the real love story.
#DivineLove #AwakeningToLove #SacredUnion #ComeHomeToSelf

You are not your first thought. That reflex or judgment is your survival brain doing its job. The second thought is your power. That is where sincerity begins. You are not broken. You are waking up deeper.
#SecondThought #Awakening #ConsciousRelationships

Meditation isn’t stillness.
It’s remembering: “I am not this thought.”
It’s choosing your awareness
instead of being swept away by it.

#WhatIsMeditation #SpiritualPractice

Bluesky
If you’re not choosing your next thought,
are you really your thoughts?
That question cracked me open.

#YouAreNotYourThoughts #MindfulInquiry

You want to be seen, but fear holds you back. So you stay guarded and call it safety. But true embodiment is staying open—again and again—even when they might not handle you with care. That’s not weakness, that’s wisdom. That’s being fully alive. #embodiment #healingjourney #awakeningtolove

Real love isn’t perfect. Even with a safe partner, you’ll be tested. It takes courage to stay open, speak truth, trust your intuition, and choose love despite fear. This isn’t just partnership, it’s awakening to love. ~Gigi

Expression isn’t ego, it’s medicine.
Especially in a world terrified to be seen.

 #embodiedwisdom #reclaimyourvoice

Self-abandonment isn’t spiritual.

I thought unconditional love meant denying my needs.
Spirit said: No.
You’re not evolving, you’re disappearing!

#spiritualgrowth #selfabandonment  #consciousrelationships #awakeningtolove #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment

What feels like love for one person is survival mode for another. Some overgive and call it connection. Others overprotect and call it boundaries. If your default is either, the “healthy thing” might actually be the pattern keeping you stuck.

You’ve done the work, but still feel superior or inferior sometimes. That’s not failure—it’s your ego doing its job. True growth isn’t ego silence, it’s awareness. You catch the pattern, soften, and let it pass. That’s the real inner work.

You can’t ayahuasca your ego away.
You can’t journal it out, sage or manifest it away

The ego doesn’t vanish because you’ve had an awakening.
It adapts.
It hides in your healing.

The work isn’t about getting rid of it.
It’s about recognizing it sooner

That’s the real integration.
That’s the path.

We think what ends communities is different than what ends intimate relationships. It’s not. Our dynamics are the same, *even* with our own children after a matter of time.

This is the journey of awakening to love for each of us.