Controversial opinion: Women who have not been violated by men have the right to avoid them too. Women do not have to pay a rape tax to get the right to espouse a mistrust of the class socially, culturally, and legally empowered to violate them.

Once you notice how the worst, most self-absorbed theory ascribes phenomena to identity essences instead of asking how oppressive forces act upon us, you get why it's so narrow in scope.

the documented historical presence of trans people (esp. trans women), no matter how violently transphobic/transmisogynistic, is often taken as evidence of "acceptance," just as the presence of pederasty (no matter how abusive & also transmisogynistic) is often mistake for evidence of "queerness"