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"The Department of DOJ has instructed inspectors to stop evaluating prisons and jails using standards designed to protect transgender, intersex and gender-nonconforming people from sexual violence, according to an internal memo obtained by NPR."

They want trans people raped.
December 4, 2025 at 11:19 PM
Reposted by gary
I live as a man and am seen as a man. That is a verifiable fact whether or not I am "really" a man. Having a passport that outs me would expose my private life and put me in danger. The government shouldn't get to impose that on me because of some philosophical abstraction.
November 17, 2025 at 10:26 PM
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I really dislike this question of whether trans people are "really" women/men. It's the framing the anti-trans activists prefer, and as far as I'm concerned it's also completely irrelevant.
November 17, 2025 at 10:24 PM
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What many quotes seem to say is having identity documents at odds with your lived sex creates opportunities for discrimination and harassment.

The reporter heard about these practical concerns, but chose to focus her story more on what a trans person's "true" identity is and who gets to decide it.
November 17, 2025 at 10:23 PM
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What I dislike about the story is that the author presents the central tension as being about identity and validity: Are trans people "really" who we say we are?

The story claims that this is what many trans people told the reporter. Interestingly, none of the quotes from trans people say this.
November 17, 2025 at 10:19 PM
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I really disliked this piece on trans passports by Amy Harmon of the New York Times. It is, admittedly, an "old" New York Times story, one that makes a reasonable effort to cloak its biases and present itself as seeking both sides of a story ("new" NYT stories don't bother).

Here's a gift link:
New Passport Rule Sends Blunt and Sweeping Message to Trans Americans
www.nytimes.com
November 17, 2025 at 10:15 PM
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Honestly one of the worst, most disturbing paragraphs — on the basis of process, substance, and effect — I’ve read in a Supreme Court order or opinion in a very long time.
November 7, 2025 at 12:55 AM
The Trump administration on price data:
October 25, 2025 at 12:29 AM
Gay Halloween in DC this year is gonna be crazy
October 18, 2025 at 2:04 PM
Does anybody know if we gotta bring our backpacks to the rapture?
September 23, 2025 at 7:45 PM
ITS CUOMER
June 25, 2025 at 2:35 AM
Average DC apartment listing: BRIGHT AND SPACIOUS GARDEN-LEVEL STUDIO - LIGHT-FILLED INTERIOR - AUTHENTIC EXPOSED BRICK - INCLUDES A SWIMMING POOL!!!!! $2700/month
June 5, 2025 at 3:47 PM
JB Pritzker’s speechwriters:
April 30, 2025 at 8:13 PM
I give it 10 years until the US gets boda bodas
April 24, 2025 at 1:41 PM
Wondering lately why a scarf can so often be an Inside Garment in a women’s outfit but always feels an Outside Garment in a men’s outfit
December 3, 2024 at 3:53 AM
Snow in DC !!!
November 22, 2024 at 4:42 PM
hiiiii
November 13, 2024 at 4:20 AM
The older I get, the more like my dad I become. Sleepy after 1 beer, can’t stand watching Trump give speeches cause I can’t stand him, biologically male
January 16, 2024 at 3:51 AM
good mornong blueskyers
October 18, 2023 at 1:55 PM
hoping to hang out here more often
October 17, 2023 at 7:18 PM