@fortitude321.bsky.social
going back. When that’s not enough and I have acted, I either refuse to speak to liaison or get forced to and say I’m fine. No treatment still. Sickening.
November 23, 2025 at 10:19 PM
going back. When that’s not enough and I have acted, I either refuse to speak to liaison or get forced to and say I’m fine. No treatment still. Sickening.
Stunning x
November 23, 2025 at 5:20 PM
Stunning x
I wish my love for you would counteract the hatred. I think you’re amazing. Sending huge hugs xxx
November 22, 2025 at 8:39 AM
I wish my love for you would counteract the hatred. I think you’re amazing. Sending huge hugs xxx
How do you feel about that? Xxx
November 21, 2025 at 11:49 AM
How do you feel about that? Xxx
There’s lots that’s wonderful about you Rowena x
November 21, 2025 at 11:48 AM
There’s lots that’s wonderful about you Rowena x
Carrie says it better than I did. What you give to the world is independent of being employed. You are incredibly likeable and have been dealt a tough hand. You remind us what it is to be humble, grateful and kind, Shaun.
November 18, 2025 at 3:04 PM
Carrie says it better than I did. What you give to the world is independent of being employed. You are incredibly likeable and have been dealt a tough hand. You remind us what it is to be humble, grateful and kind, Shaun.
I agree. You’re a good man Shaun. Lots to give to this world
November 18, 2025 at 1:23 PM
I agree. You’re a good man Shaun. Lots to give to this world
That’s good to know. Some fire services are iffy about helping animals which is terrible
November 16, 2025 at 8:18 PM
That’s good to know. Some fire services are iffy about helping animals which is terrible
Thank you for doing it. That poor dog must be terrified and exhausted 💔
November 16, 2025 at 6:33 PM
Thank you for doing it. That poor dog must be terrified and exhausted 💔
Christ. What a terrible 24 hours for you. I’d call the fire brigade and let them assess. Sounds like the dog’s in danger
November 16, 2025 at 5:39 PM
Christ. What a terrible 24 hours for you. I’d call the fire brigade and let them assess. Sounds like the dog’s in danger
Beautiful. I’ve been thinking of you. I hope today is a bit easier x
November 16, 2025 at 1:47 PM
Beautiful. I’ve been thinking of you. I hope today is a bit easier x
Thanks lovely. Likewise. Please get in touch any time xx
November 14, 2025 at 7:04 PM
Thanks lovely. Likewise. Please get in touch any time xx
The result is that an already desperate and distressed person feels more desperate and distressed. My spaces that are meant to be set up for people like me. Again.
November 14, 2025 at 1:12 PM
The result is that an already desperate and distressed person feels more desperate and distressed. My spaces that are meant to be set up for people like me. Again.
not saying it’s not a possibility, but questioning my humanity, when there are a million more likely reasons that someone in a MH group needed their camera off, did not feel kind. A few minutes is also not needed to verify someone’s identity and humanity.
November 14, 2025 at 1:12 PM
not saying it’s not a possibility, but questioning my humanity, when there are a million more likely reasons that someone in a MH group needed their camera off, did not feel kind. A few minutes is also not needed to verify someone’s identity and humanity.
although I was uncomfortable, for the group’s comfort, I needed to violate my own boundary. They then said I needed to put my camera on for a ‘few minutes at least’ so they could ascertain I was not a bot which I found quite insulting. I’m
November 14, 2025 at 1:12 PM
although I was uncomfortable, for the group’s comfort, I needed to violate my own boundary. They then said I needed to put my camera on for a ‘few minutes at least’ so they could ascertain I was not a bot which I found quite insulting. I’m
which weren’t communicated with me. They mentioned cameras on and I asserted my boundary, and offered to leave if that boundary was not suitable for the group. They said it was fine to stay, before a few seconds later saying that
November 14, 2025 at 1:12 PM
which weren’t communicated with me. They mentioned cameras on and I asserted my boundary, and offered to leave if that boundary was not suitable for the group. They said it was fine to stay, before a few seconds later saying that
am not unsympathetic to that. I feel that having an option to be camera off is inclusive to more people’s needs, while there still being discomfort. However, my main point is how it was handled. Knowing
group boundaries before entering the group is important,
group boundaries before entering the group is important,
November 14, 2025 at 1:12 PM
am not unsympathetic to that. I feel that having an option to be camera off is inclusive to more people’s needs, while there still being discomfort. However, my main point is how it was handled. Knowing
group boundaries before entering the group is important,
group boundaries before entering the group is important,
In my mind, whether it’s a camera on policy or not, some people will be uncomfortable either way. Although I mostly choose not to show my face, I too feel uncomfortable not fully knowing who is in the room, so I
November 14, 2025 at 1:12 PM
In my mind, whether it’s a camera on policy or not, some people will be uncomfortable either way. Although I mostly choose not to show my face, I too feel uncomfortable not fully knowing who is in the room, so I
Fuck so far off.
November 14, 2025 at 11:11 AM
Fuck so far off.
They said it’s fine, don’t worry. And then 20 seconds later I need to put my camera on FOR A FEW MINUTES to reassure people I’m not a bot? They were like “we know you’re not comfortable but for the comfort of the group…”. So you’re saying that the comfort of the group is more important than mine?
November 14, 2025 at 11:11 AM
They said it’s fine, don’t worry. And then 20 seconds later I need to put my camera on FOR A FEW MINUTES to reassure people I’m not a bot? They were like “we know you’re not comfortable but for the comfort of the group…”. So you’re saying that the comfort of the group is more important than mine?
Just tried to join another group. Pressuring me immediately to turn my camera on. I replied in chat saying I’m not comfortable with that, that it’s my first time. I had a shitty horrible night and not even in proper clothes yet. I said “I’m not comfortable with that, would you like me to leave?”
November 14, 2025 at 11:11 AM
Just tried to join another group. Pressuring me immediately to turn my camera on. I replied in chat saying I’m not comfortable with that, that it’s my first time. I had a shitty horrible night and not even in proper clothes yet. I said “I’m not comfortable with that, would you like me to leave?”
Love you too. Please get in touch if you want to talk about anything - I’m here. I’m distressed tonight/today. Considering ringing someone but worried it will just make it worse. I hope you get rest tonight and you don’t get any nightmares xx
November 13, 2025 at 10:04 PM
Love you too. Please get in touch if you want to talk about anything - I’m here. I’m distressed tonight/today. Considering ringing someone but worried it will just make it worse. I hope you get rest tonight and you don’t get any nightmares xx