Natasha Wiebe
@fixyourlife.bsky.social
www.fixyourlife.ca
Relationship and Communication Strategist
Heart-centered and no-bullshit approach.
Relationship and Communication Strategist
Heart-centered and no-bullshit approach.
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Natasha Wiebe
@fixyourlife.bsky.social
· Jan 30
#ShareYourJoy Day 1: Share something you're grateful for.
I am incredibly grateful I got to spend time with horses and in a barn today. It's been a year and a half since the last time, and today was very soul-nourishing. @fixyourlife.bsky.social
I am incredibly grateful I got to spend time with horses and in a barn today. It's been a year and a half since the last time, and today was very soul-nourishing. @fixyourlife.bsky.social
Day 45 final day of the #ShareYourJoy Challenge w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social : What I have enjoyed about the past 45days is the authenticity, &getting to share aspects many might not know/see.
I think if we all shared more, in a positive&vulnerable way, it would build more community& understanding.
I think if we all shared more, in a positive&vulnerable way, it would build more community& understanding.
March 15, 2025 at 6:22 AM
Day 45 final day of the #ShareYourJoy Challenge w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social : What I have enjoyed about the past 45days is the authenticity, &getting to share aspects many might not know/see.
I think if we all shared more, in a positive&vulnerable way, it would build more community& understanding.
I think if we all shared more, in a positive&vulnerable way, it would build more community& understanding.
Day 44 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social What I've enjoyed most of this is seeing another person being consistent with creating more joy in their life. With all the other 'stuff' feeds are filled with and legitimate causes for concern, this was a haven of good.
March 13, 2025 at 2:08 PM
Day 44 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social What I've enjoyed most of this is seeing another person being consistent with creating more joy in their life. With all the other 'stuff' feeds are filled with and legitimate causes for concern, this was a haven of good.
#ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social ! Day 43. What I've enjoyed the most about this challenge is it forced me to focus in on the aspects that make me 'me' & smile, even on days that were hard, exhausting, or painful. There is something good everyday,&some days we get to be really intentional.
March 13, 2025 at 1:20 PM
#ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social ! Day 43. What I've enjoyed the most about this challenge is it forced me to focus in on the aspects that make me 'me' & smile, even on days that were hard, exhausting, or painful. There is something good everyday,&some days we get to be really intentional.
w/ ALL the toppings, & the freshness of a salad. It's embracing all facets of my self, &releasing any shame towards the 'unhealthy' /indulgences. (Hint: It's not the act or the food that makes something unhealthy; it's the shame or guilt that you've attached to it.)❤️ 2/2
#selflove #balance #coaching
#selflove #balance #coaching
March 12, 2025 at 2:56 AM
w/ ALL the toppings, & the freshness of a salad. It's embracing all facets of my self, &releasing any shame towards the 'unhealthy' /indulgences. (Hint: It's not the act or the food that makes something unhealthy; it's the shame or guilt that you've attached to it.)❤️ 2/2
#selflove #balance #coaching
#selflove #balance #coaching
Day 42 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social Joy to me means balance. It's the comfort in familiarity & the excitement of new-ness; it's those 'energy-efficient' days, doing absolutely nothing, mixed with the ever-productive & creative accomplishing days; it's the luxurious ice cream sundaes 1/2
March 12, 2025 at 2:55 AM
Day 42 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social Joy to me means balance. It's the comfort in familiarity & the excitement of new-ness; it's those 'energy-efficient' days, doing absolutely nothing, mixed with the ever-productive & creative accomplishing days; it's the luxurious ice cream sundaes 1/2
Day 41 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social : Joy, to me, is laughter. It's relaxation and safety and acceptance. Friendship, community, and belonging. Joy is each and all of these things.
March 11, 2025 at 6:09 AM
Day 41 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social : Joy, to me, is laughter. It's relaxation and safety and acceptance. Friendship, community, and belonging. Joy is each and all of these things.
Day 40 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social Joy to me means... purpose. Having a positive impact on my community, and the ripple effect from that.
March 10, 2025 at 1:46 AM
Day 40 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social Joy to me means... purpose. Having a positive impact on my community, and the ripple effect from that.
Day 39 of the #ShareYourJoy Challenge with @fixyourlife.bsky.social : Something I've learned (and teach).
#relationships #coaching
#relationships #coaching
March 9, 2025 at 5:48 AM
Day 39 of the #ShareYourJoy Challenge with @fixyourlife.bsky.social : Something I've learned (and teach).
#relationships #coaching
#relationships #coaching
Day38 #ShareYourJoy @fixyourlife.bsky.social 1 thing I've loved w/ learning Dutch is how furious reminds me of wounded(woedend)&'Ik maak me zorgen/Ik schaam me'(I'm worried&I'm ashamed)is 'I make me worried/I shame me',taking accountability of what response we're creating within ourselves. #learning
March 8, 2025 at 7:31 AM
Day38 #ShareYourJoy @fixyourlife.bsky.social 1 thing I've loved w/ learning Dutch is how furious reminds me of wounded(woedend)&'Ik maak me zorgen/Ik schaam me'(I'm worried&I'm ashamed)is 'I make me worried/I shame me',taking accountability of what response we're creating within ourselves. #learning
Day 37 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social Something I've learned: @yungpueblo.bsky.social 's quote says it best, I believe.. "How do you build a good life? Relentlessly follow your intuition. Build with people who also love to grow. Take responsibility for your healing" ❤️
March 7, 2025 at 5:54 AM
Day 37 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social Something I've learned: @yungpueblo.bsky.social 's quote says it best, I believe.. "How do you build a good life? Relentlessly follow your intuition. Build with people who also love to grow. Take responsibility for your healing" ❤️
together or separated, unless abuse was/is a factor), w/ your children.
Bonus: Partners can be friends w/ exes/people they've hooked up with. (Not trusting a partner or knowing why you're together is a deeper issue).
Be safe, be loving, be empowered, have great s3x/connection. 😘
3/3
Bonus: Partners can be friends w/ exes/people they've hooked up with. (Not trusting a partner or knowing why you're together is a deeper issue).
Be safe, be loving, be empowered, have great s3x/connection. 😘
3/3
March 6, 2025 at 2:30 AM
together or separated, unless abuse was/is a factor), w/ your children.
Bonus: Partners can be friends w/ exes/people they've hooked up with. (Not trusting a partner or knowing why you're together is a deeper issue).
Be safe, be loving, be empowered, have great s3x/connection. 😘
3/3
Bonus: Partners can be friends w/ exes/people they've hooked up with. (Not trusting a partner or knowing why you're together is a deeper issue).
Be safe, be loving, be empowered, have great s3x/connection. 😘
3/3
& regularly as the relationship goes on
3) People should be ridiculously empowered & courageous about what their preferences/curiosities are
4) Consent culture is in ALL areas of life, not just physical/s3xual.
5) The order of relationship priority is: w/ yourself, w/ your coparent (whether
2/4
3) People should be ridiculously empowered & courageous about what their preferences/curiosities are
4) Consent culture is in ALL areas of life, not just physical/s3xual.
5) The order of relationship priority is: w/ yourself, w/ your coparent (whether
2/4
March 6, 2025 at 2:27 AM
& regularly as the relationship goes on
3) People should be ridiculously empowered & courageous about what their preferences/curiosities are
4) Consent culture is in ALL areas of life, not just physical/s3xual.
5) The order of relationship priority is: w/ yourself, w/ your coparent (whether
2/4
3) People should be ridiculously empowered & courageous about what their preferences/curiosities are
4) Consent culture is in ALL areas of life, not just physical/s3xual.
5) The order of relationship priority is: w/ yourself, w/ your coparent (whether
2/4
1/ Day 36 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social A goal that means the world to me: To change the way most people think about s3x & relationships.
Hot takes I have:
1) Every relationship is completely customizable to whomever is in it
2) S3x/Intimacy should be talked about on the first few dates
Hot takes I have:
1) Every relationship is completely customizable to whomever is in it
2) S3x/Intimacy should be talked about on the first few dates
March 6, 2025 at 2:24 AM
1/ Day 36 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social A goal that means the world to me: To change the way most people think about s3x & relationships.
Hot takes I have:
1) Every relationship is completely customizable to whomever is in it
2) S3x/Intimacy should be talked about on the first few dates
Hot takes I have:
1) Every relationship is completely customizable to whomever is in it
2) S3x/Intimacy should be talked about on the first few dates
Day 35 #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social : A goal that means the world to me.. Feeling free, owning land, designing a farm/house layout, in the spacious country. ❤️
March 5, 2025 at 6:29 AM
Day 35 #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social : A goal that means the world to me.. Feeling free, owning land, designing a farm/house layout, in the spacious country. ❤️
Day 34 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social A goal that means the world to me.. Creating a world where every child grows up knowing they are safe, loved, wanted, &empowered. ❤️ I heal relationships (within one's self/romantic/coparenting) to minimize future generations being negatively affected.
March 4, 2025 at 6:48 AM
Day 34 #ShareYourJoy w/ @fixyourlife.bsky.social A goal that means the world to me.. Creating a world where every child grows up knowing they are safe, loved, wanted, &empowered. ❤️ I heal relationships (within one's self/romantic/coparenting) to minimize future generations being negatively affected.
2/2 back to our hotel at 11ish pm, where the incredible @markanthonybates.bsky.social continued teaching and working with a group of us until 2/2:30 in the morning. I love meeting people who are committed to their own personal development and creating a positive impact in the world ❤️
March 3, 2025 at 2:59 AM
2/2 back to our hotel at 11ish pm, where the incredible @markanthonybates.bsky.social continued teaching and working with a group of us until 2/2:30 in the morning. I love meeting people who are committed to their own personal development and creating a positive impact in the world ❤️
1/2 Day 33: #ShareYourJoy Challenge with @fixyourlife.bsky.social : I have the most fun when... I am hosting workshops, doing speaking engagements, or attending business conferences, or working with my own coaches. I remember when a group of us had already had a long, full day of coaching, returning
March 3, 2025 at 2:58 AM
1/2 Day 33: #ShareYourJoy Challenge with @fixyourlife.bsky.social : I have the most fun when... I am hosting workshops, doing speaking engagements, or attending business conferences, or working with my own coaches. I remember when a group of us had already had a long, full day of coaching, returning
Day 32: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social - I have the most fun when I'm exploring new areas, or when a loved one learns something new (whether human or animal) - experiencing progress or seeing/feeling their excitement is so fun for me ❤️ #compersion - joy in your joy.
March 1, 2025 at 6:02 PM
Day 32: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social - I have the most fun when I'm exploring new areas, or when a loved one learns something new (whether human or animal) - experiencing progress or seeing/feeling their excitement is so fun for me ❤️ #compersion - joy in your joy.
Day 31: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social - I have the most fun road-tripping in the Jeep. Whether it's feeling the sun on me, wind in my hair, or playing in the snow or mud, or getting to sleep with dog beside and stars above. She makes me very happy. ❤️
March 1, 2025 at 6:33 AM
Day 31: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social - I have the most fun road-tripping in the Jeep. Whether it's feeling the sun on me, wind in my hair, or playing in the snow or mud, or getting to sleep with dog beside and stars above. She makes me very happy. ❤️
Day 30: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social - something that pleases your senses:
The feel/coziness of heat - from a fire, or a blanket fresh out of the dryer, holding a mug of tea, or the wave when you open the oven when baking cookies. ❤️
The feel/coziness of heat - from a fire, or a blanket fresh out of the dryer, holding a mug of tea, or the wave when you open the oven when baking cookies. ❤️
February 28, 2025 at 10:16 PM
Day 30: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social - something that pleases your senses:
The feel/coziness of heat - from a fire, or a blanket fresh out of the dryer, holding a mug of tea, or the wave when you open the oven when baking cookies. ❤️
The feel/coziness of heat - from a fire, or a blanket fresh out of the dryer, holding a mug of tea, or the wave when you open the oven when baking cookies. ❤️
Day 29: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social - something that pleases your senses:Today's is the smell of a farm - the freshness, especially after a rainfall; a horse's dander as I'm brushing/resting my face against their neck; even the manure,knowing everything is a season. Breathing fully.
February 28, 2025 at 9:28 PM
Day 29: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social - something that pleases your senses:Today's is the smell of a farm - the freshness, especially after a rainfall; a horse's dander as I'm brushing/resting my face against their neck; even the manure,knowing everything is a season. Breathing fully.
Day 28: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social
Something that pleases one of my senses.
Today, I'll do sight: Sunrises and sunsets are my favourite moments to capture.
Something that pleases one of my senses.
Today, I'll do sight: Sunrises and sunsets are my favourite moments to capture.
February 28, 2025 at 5:23 AM
Day 28: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social
Something that pleases one of my senses.
Today, I'll do sight: Sunrises and sunsets are my favourite moments to capture.
Something that pleases one of my senses.
Today, I'll do sight: Sunrises and sunsets are my favourite moments to capture.
not others)&puns. I don't like jokes that make other people feel bad. Emotional processing has to happen one way or another, so I'd rather cry from laughing than cry from feeling sorry for myself. When we did a fantastic shot w/ hair whipping water back,&then it was like, "Well, now what? 😅" /2
February 28, 2025 at 5:15 AM
not others)&puns. I don't like jokes that make other people feel bad. Emotional processing has to happen one way or another, so I'd rather cry from laughing than cry from feeling sorry for myself. When we did a fantastic shot w/ hair whipping water back,&then it was like, "Well, now what? 😅" /2
Day 27: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social: Something you find goofy/makes you belly-laugh
I fall on my ass a lot (not literally) - it's what happens when constantly exploring new things reaching for new levels. I laugh a lot at grey humour (dark, but making fun of my personal situation, /1
I fall on my ass a lot (not literally) - it's what happens when constantly exploring new things reaching for new levels. I laugh a lot at grey humour (dark, but making fun of my personal situation, /1
February 28, 2025 at 5:15 AM
Day 27: #ShareYourJoy with @fixyourlife.bsky.social: Something you find goofy/makes you belly-laugh
I fall on my ass a lot (not literally) - it's what happens when constantly exploring new things reaching for new levels. I laugh a lot at grey humour (dark, but making fun of my personal situation, /1
I fall on my ass a lot (not literally) - it's what happens when constantly exploring new things reaching for new levels. I laugh a lot at grey humour (dark, but making fun of my personal situation, /1
2/2 of my belly-laughs are in moments pre, during, or post-intimacy. S3x is supposed to be fun&playful - there is an openness, vulnerability, trust,& release that comes from engaging w/ another (it doesn't have to be a committed relationship to have this).
When do you have the most belly-laughs?
When do you have the most belly-laughs?
February 27, 2025 at 5:31 PM
2/2 of my belly-laughs are in moments pre, during, or post-intimacy. S3x is supposed to be fun&playful - there is an openness, vulnerability, trust,& release that comes from engaging w/ another (it doesn't have to be a committed relationship to have this).
When do you have the most belly-laughs?
When do you have the most belly-laughs?