Finn Deerhart
@finndeerhart.bsky.social
AASECT Certified Sex Counselor. Writer. Teacher. Group facilitator.
Writing: finndeerhart.substack.com
Counseling: finndeerhart.com
Writing: finndeerhart.substack.com
Counseling: finndeerhart.com
Searching for Phallos in the dark.
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September 30, 2025 at 7:06 PM
Searching for Phallos in the dark.
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💚love him
August 23, 2025 at 8:45 PM
💚love him
Sometimes an under-towel sauna stroke can lead to surprising political conversations.
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August 21, 2025 at 8:05 PM
Sometimes an under-towel sauna stroke can lead to surprising political conversations.
Link: finndeerhart.substack.com/p/finntrests...
Link: finndeerhart.substack.com/p/finntrests...
To those of us whose fathers have not been what we needed - Happy Father's Day to the ONE inside you who inspires you to let go and grow. 💚 Yes, this is me as a child.
Father As Process, Not Object
Me in the middle of my own fucking way
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June 17, 2025 at 6:15 PM
To those of us whose fathers have not been what we needed - Happy Father's Day to the ONE inside you who inspires you to let go and grow. 💚 Yes, this is me as a child.
Dear Kristi Noem, there is not enough filler in the world to lift your face away from the anguish beneath.
If you know about the very hands-on forced expulsion of U.S. Senator Alex Padilla from DHS press conference you need to watch it. Sure, a knucklehead standing on a burning car is a scary image. This is MUCH scarier. www.youtube.com/watch?v=R42v...
Senator Alex Padilla removed from Sec. Noem press conference
YouTube video by KSBW Action News 8
www.youtube.com
June 12, 2025 at 9:01 PM
Dear Kristi Noem, there is not enough filler in the world to lift your face away from the anguish beneath.
An important, if not urgent, read. 😍
ON THE SO-CALLED DEATH DRIVE AND THE REVOLUTIONARY IMPULSE
By Avgi Saketopoulou
The idea of a death drive functioning like a passe-partout explanation serves as the starting point for psychoanalyst Avgi Saketopoulou. In her view, the Freudian differentiation between destructive a...
www.textezurkunst.de
June 12, 2025 at 8:59 PM
An important, if not urgent, read. 😍
“Not all Christianity is overtly violent on the surface. But for me, even the most accommodating sects must still contend with an inherent displacement of universal existential guilt—which remains frozen inside fantasies of a bludgeoned and murdered (White) son-god.”
The Devil Followed Me Home
My thoughts on the film Sinners
finndeerhart.substack.com
June 2, 2025 at 4:36 PM
“Not all Christianity is overtly violent on the surface. But for me, even the most accommodating sects must still contend with an inherent displacement of universal existential guilt—which remains frozen inside fantasies of a bludgeoned and murdered (White) son-god.”
Performing empathy…
June 1, 2025 at 12:37 AM
Performing empathy…
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May 25, 2025 at 5:40 PM
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On sex apps and modern dating culture.
The Ideal Object is only a map of one’s inner terrain.
That said, please like and share; the irony is not lost on me.
The Ideal Object is only a map of one’s inner terrain.
That said, please like and share; the irony is not lost on me.
Pageantry of the Undone
If only it was just your cock...
finndeerhart.substack.com
May 20, 2025 at 5:53 PM
On sex apps and modern dating culture.
The Ideal Object is only a map of one’s inner terrain.
That said, please like and share; the irony is not lost on me.
The Ideal Object is only a map of one’s inner terrain.
That said, please like and share; the irony is not lost on me.
An incredible listen 🔮
The Assault on the Transgender Community is a Piece of a Far More Foreboding Puzzle
Listen now | a conversation with two world renowned experts in this space
open.substack.com
May 17, 2025 at 8:44 PM
An incredible listen 🔮

Trump’s EPA is planning to roll back rules that limit the amount of “forever chemicals” allowed in drinking water.
This comes after chemical companies donated generously to his inauguration fund.
See how this works?
This comes after chemical companies donated generously to his inauguration fund.
See how this works?
May 17, 2025 at 5:22 PM

In Praise of Sinners - Chloé Valdary layin' it down!
In Praise of Sinners
Soil of my Soil
open.substack.com
May 17, 2025 at 1:02 PM
In Praise of Sinners - Chloé Valdary layin' it down!
Of course...
Pope Leo XIV Says Marriage Is “Between a Man and a Woman”
The new Pope's first meeting with the Vatican diplomatic corps touched on a range of topics.
www.them.us
May 16, 2025 at 6:03 PM
Of course...
💚🔮🌈Most proud of banned 📚
May 12, 2025 at 5:36 PM
💚🔮🌈Most proud of banned 📚
Read the brilliance of Jeff Sharlet!
(And my Substack)💚🫶🏼
(And my Substack)💚🫶🏼
The Undertow by Jeff Sharlet
I know inside every man, a war has already come and gone.
finndeerhart.substack.com
May 3, 2025 at 5:10 PM
Read the brilliance of Jeff Sharlet!
(And my Substack)💚🫶🏼
(And my Substack)💚🫶🏼
Reposted by Finn Deerhart
Say. This.
Walz: If you say you love freedom but you don't believe freedom is for everybody, then the thing you love is not freedom, it is privilege.
April 24, 2025 at 12:23 AM
Say. This.
Happy Easter💚
Hope U got a basket as nice as this one!!
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April 20, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Happy Easter💚
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🧵 This brief amount of privilege that you thought whiteness was going to give you, white folks, white patriarchal violence will – capitalist violence will - absolutely strip you of immediately when it needs to return to subjugation and power.
April 12, 2025 at 10:00 PM
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Who is to blame for the pain? Oh yeah, I remember…again and again. There’s really no one there.💚🔮
Charged Like Exploding Stars
Without someone to blame...
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April 5, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Who is to blame for the pain? Oh yeah, I remember…again and again. There’s really no one there.💚🔮
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I have a book called "Notes From a Queer Cripple" coming out in less than a month on April 21, 2025. It is available all the places you get books in e-book and paperback format. It is an urgent call to see queer disabled people, and to see queer non-disabled people must do better. Pre-order now!
March 24, 2025 at 3:17 PM
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Surprise
Republican behind bill to ‘protect’ girls from trans people arrested for allegedly soliciting minor
Republican who co-sponsored anti-trans bill arrested for 'soliciting a minor'
Justin Eichorn, who co-sponsored a bill to "protect" girls from trans people, has been arrested for allegedly soliciting a 17-year-old.
www.thepinknews.com
March 19, 2025 at 3:50 PM
Surprise
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I want my book on Queerness and Disability, "Notes From a Queer Cripple" to be a New York Times Bestseller. Disabled authors don't get as much opportunities, and our work is not as widely platformed. Please pre-order "Notes From a Queer Cripple" today!
March 17, 2025 at 10:27 PM
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hi friends, for your afternoon reading pleasure: today’s Micro essay by @finndeerhart.bsky.social, out in @theoffingmag.bsky.social! I love how it sets its insight on friendship & sex against its lonely, suffocating occasion. A treat to publish. 🛣️🌙
https://theoffingmag.com/micro/miles-like-friends/
https://theoffingmag.com/micro/miles-like-friends/
March 17, 2025 at 9:09 PM
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