Fi 🥰
fiemmerson.bsky.social
Fi 🥰
@fiemmerson.bsky.social
Late diagnosed AuDHD, recovered from anorexia, Author of ‘Autism is my friend, Anorexia is not’, Peer support worker, psychology graduate fascinated in Autism & eating disorder research.
I love how my Pepsi cat is currently following me everywhere… I’ve been working in the loft most of the day, with her by my side (on me if I was on a call with anyone because if I’m talking, obviously it’s to her!) but lunch in the garden and now at the end of the day, she joins me too. So sweet.
May 2, 2025 at 4:24 PM
It’s Saturday, it’s not a work day, I do not have to study (although I might have to… simply because I love it!!!)
April 12, 2025 at 9:36 AM
Yummy, Oreo cupcakes to take to work tomorrow…
April 6, 2025 at 10:53 AM
Visited the local chemist to collect my monthly meds as usual.
Greeted by the pharmacist, then ‘you never told me your Dad was a pharmacist!’
Ummm, how do you know that???
‘I read your book!’
Then proceeded to ask me about the front cover design 😂
April 3, 2025 at 2:52 PM
Decided to take my office outside today! #AcademicSky
April 1, 2025 at 7:04 PM
I love having a cat, however, she’s 14 yet acting like a kitten! Woke me up at 5:40am by jumping onto my bedside table and knocking almost everything off it! 🤦‍♀️🐈‍⬛ #SkyCats #BlackCat
March 24, 2025 at 7:02 AM
Just had a fabulous training session with one of the librarians in my trust. So so helpful. Wish I’d known what I know now when I did my dissertation!! Always something new to learn!! #AcademicSky
March 7, 2025 at 1:16 PM
The benefit of working from home - everyone gets to meet my cat 🐈‍⬛ You’re becoming famous Pepsi!! 😻 #SkyCats
February 21, 2025 at 4:08 PM
So I did something pretty amazing, a solo holiday in Spain! Ten years ago, even two years ago, I couldn’t have done it. All inclusive, a massive choice at the buffet every meal, eating around lots of people, and I was so comfortable and happy! #recovery #anorexia
February 19, 2025 at 5:38 PM
What a view to read by… warm sun, a cool breeze and the sun sparkling across the sea. Absolutely love this place! #CostaDelSol #Benalmadena
February 16, 2025 at 11:21 AM
When you slip at the side of the swimming pool and come away with a bruised hip and sore wrist… but then the wrist continually wakes you up at night with pain… think it might be a trip to a Spanish hospital…
February 15, 2025 at 4:42 AM
I’m not the only one enjoying the warmth of the fire this evening 😻 Pepsi is one happy, very loved cat #SkyCats
February 8, 2025 at 8:02 PM
You know she’s super settled and content when the head sinks down into my legs 😻 My beautiful snuggly Pepsi bundle of softness and warmth 🥰 #SkyCats
January 22, 2025 at 7:51 PM
PhD application submitted today! Funding application almost complete, hopefully tomorrow 🤞🤞 One more step towards my dream of researching autism and eating disorders!!
#PhDSky #DoctoralSky
January 14, 2025 at 9:06 PM
A very cold misty morning but the sun is pushing its way through… Pepsi is loving the warmth of the radiator below her!
January 11, 2025 at 9:33 AM
Loving the fire, Pepsi is sprawled out in front of it! At least one room is warm!!!#SkyCats
January 4, 2025 at 6:01 PM
What time is it acceptable to go to bed for the night? #exhausted #firstdayback
January 3, 2025 at 5:11 PM
Back to normality tomorrow… not sure how that will go as I’ve barely stopped crying today, spent the whole afternoon snuggled in bed under my duvet but still couldn’t sleep.

One moment at a time…
January 2, 2025 at 5:50 PM
Happy New Year! I’ve managed to stay up with the kids to see in the new year. 2024 started really badly for me so 2025 can only be better!!!
January 1, 2025 at 12:20 AM
Birthday panto - Beauty and the Beast, I honestly haven’t laughed so much in AGES! It was absolutely hilarious 😆 Such a fun evening.
#leamingtonpanto
December 30, 2024 at 9:06 PM
I slept really badly last night. It’s my birthday today, my kids are coming to stay for a couple of nights and we’re off to the panto this evening with my Aunt. I want to enjoy these next few days but events of last year are lingering on my mind…
December 30, 2024 at 10:02 AM
Finally packed up and finished work for Christmas and for 2024! Never felt so unchristmassy but I’m also still totally wiped out from being so ill last week. Really should have listened to my therapist and taken yesterday and today off sick too but I thought I knew better… that tells me!!
December 24, 2024 at 4:27 PM
Not sure about sleep tonight, last night’s dreams involved my ex and his family, but more distressing was them forcing me to adopt a 3 year old dog I didn’t know much about (my dog attacked me almost a year ago) my fear really came back up to the surface last night…
December 22, 2024 at 8:21 PM
Ok, so I love reading murder mysteries and psychological thrillers, but am open to anything engaging and well written. Hit me with recommendations, especially anything that will take me to a better or different place this Christmas!
December 21, 2024 at 7:43 PM
I’m trying to get Christmassy, I think this is the best I’m going to manage. Pepsi is hiding herself in the semi-darkness.
December 21, 2024 at 7:31 PM