tryna be drunk (comme Baudelaire)
"performative means [sincere performance of X]"
and
"performative has a *common* derogatory connotation of [insincere performance of X]"
in the same post maybe highlights (and hopefully legitimizes) the issue some readers are having with OP's post
"performative means [sincere performance of X]"
and
"performative has a *common* derogatory connotation of [insincere performance of X]"
in the same post maybe highlights (and hopefully legitimizes) the issue some readers are having with OP's post