and of course being gay shouldn't make anything about them distinctive from straight peple in any way they just happen to be gay in a way that doesn't threaten our sense of normalcy

i want to see where she goes because she's great in general but also had a lot of caveats about people who love horror
but she's trained and i'm not and I would like to see what she actually says BUT the video she's responding too is so impossible to tolerate for even short bursts of time omg

it has aftercare and non-explicit consent and reference to a safeword but it's not boring because it's in the particular specific way i enjoy those things with this specific pair lol

and well

i'm not always a humorless cold bitch but admittedly i can be at times lol

Yeah i've tried really hard not to get pulled into the aspect of the fandom that associates anyone with certain opinions as belonging to one generalized group or another
I'm not a nmj hater but i'm not really into him either so i don't fit in a camp except the nhs lover camp lol

I do lean more towards this view of him too

asdlkfj i love him

the epitome of needing to fuck out their differences 🤭

And Sizhui has a bizarre alchemical mix of abandonment issues and confidence that is often earned but sometimes unearned, and it may or may not lead to a total breakdown in his adult years

if i wrote serious ship fic with him and sizhui it would be a source of a lot of conflict and stress for poor Sizhui

Nie Huaisang will never tell someone directly & explicitly what he wants or needs but he will be resentful when he doesn't get it

Yeah, I'm not sure i like that

I'm disappointed to see some similar issues with the movie from multiple people.

With respect, i'm not especially interested in viewing fiction through the lens of any kind of test.

what 🤔