I had not personally tried. So I just started lying to him. He wanted a high-end Chilean white wine that I've personally drank. Chile doesn't make super expensive whites, drink a carmenere like a normal person.

A different male coworker walks up to me with the same man behind him and points to me and says "I'm just the spirits guy, they're gonna be able to help you with any wine questions" and this customer was clearly not happy with my shit-eating grin. He would not take any recommendations about things-

so I can give you a fairly good description of what it will taste like. 99% of customers know this. Today, I got that 1%. A man came in, asked me for *older male coworker*, "sorry, he's not here today, anything I can help you with?" "No, I'm just going to look around". About 5 minutes later-

No no, I'M the Italian one in the relationship

I feel great about it

God forbid your boyfriend be rational 🤷

I appreciate this 🥲 got too anxious and felt like an awkward moment meant I am inherently unlikable. I had some food and I feel mostly normal again.

Or have I just been convinced that neurodivergence is unsettling and inherently unlovable....pls answer w/ explanation thx

U better replace them I stg

Helloooo?!?!?!