OK a few more gay coming of age movies...
Show Me Love/Fucking Amal (Lukas Moodyson, baby lesbians, precious, mean)
Water Lilies (contains the gayest thing I've ever seen, no spoilers)
And one more YMMV sad/tense one, BLUE JEAN, England during Section 28, hot lesbians, beautiful 16mm photography

Couple more which are in a more YMMV mode.
Lianna (very touching, hot, poignant, but sad)
Love Lies Bleeding (grotesque but so gay)
Eileen (bleak toxic lesbianism)
Huesera: The Bone Woman (horror movie, lesbianism isn't the focus but it's hot)

Hi, gay wife here! Some movies to add:
D.E.B.S. (goofy cartoon romp)
The Duke of Burgundy (lez BDSM lepidopterists, so endearing)
Kajillionaire (small time schemes)
Something You Said Last Night (gentle, moving)
The Binding of Itzik (very gender short film)
Girl Picture (Finnish, lesbian, cute)

Only took me like 30 years to realize I wanted to be her too :)

9/9 What an incredible year for learning about the world and myself, growing and changing.

8/ Side Effects (2013)
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: Mutant Mayhem (2023)
The Venture Bros.: Radiant is the Blood of the Baboon Heart (2023)
What Happened Was... (1994)
You Can Count on Me (2000)

7/ And then had some honourable mentions:
Bottoms (2023)
Guardians of the Galaxy, vol. 3 (2023)
High Art (1998)
May December (2023)
Personal Best (1982)

6/ A League of Their Own (1992)
Party Girl (1995)
Retrograde (2022)
Saving Face (2004)
Tytöt Tytöt Tytöt/Girl Picture (2022)

5/ With film (narrative features), I have the same principle - counting whatever I saw and hadn't seen before and loved, in no order.
Bound (1996)
Desert Hearts (1985)
Desperately Seeking Susan (1985)
Fucking Åmål/Show Me Love (1998)
Kajillionaire (2020)

4/ Favourite TV and streaming programs watched for the first time, here.
Betty
Dimension 20: Mentopolis
Harley Quinn
Invincible: Atom Eve
A Murder at the End of the World
My Adventures with Superman
The Owl House
Scott Pilgrim Takes Off
She-Ra and the Princesses of Power
Superstore

3/ The Hellbound Heart, Clive Barker
Manhunt, Gretchen Felker-Martin
Nevada, Imogen Binnie
Summer Fun, Jeanne Thornton
Wild Geese, Soula Emmanuel

2/ Favourite Books, all genres:
Brainwyrms, Alison Rumfitt
Convenience Store Woman, Sayaka Murata
A Dream of a Woman, Casey Plett
The Haunting of Hill House, Shirley Jackson
Health Communism: A Surplus Manifesto, Beatrice Adler-Bolton and Artie Vierkant

Do I actually want to do ECW-style backyard wrestling or am I just touch-starved??