The self-regulation bit really annoys me, especially as a parent of autistic children. It's literally teaching them to mask distress to appease the adults around them or that their natural reactions aren't valid.

I wish he'd put his field. You know like 'What could possibly be the emergency in researching dung beetles in ancient Egypt.'

That's pretty specific. Are you looking for a researcher or an adviser? Moving to another country literally changes everything about life, so there's nothing that is predictable.