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My life is complicated and this account isn’t going to fit in any one lane.
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Thought this little poem we received at last nights Girl Scout service unit meeting was a lovely reminder of why we do this hard work.
September 9, 2025 at 9:54 AM
Thought this little poem we received at last nights Girl Scout service unit meeting was a lovely reminder of why we do this hard work.
Messed up my knee at daughter’s first field hockey game. Wish it was a better story than “I stepped wrong” but such is being a 40-something.
September 8, 2025 at 12:21 AM
Messed up my knee at daughter’s first field hockey game. Wish it was a better story than “I stepped wrong” but such is being a 40-something.
Home safe from MsC. Unpacked except laundry, which I’ll deal with tomorrow. It wasn’t what I expected, but it was what I needed. Sir and I did an incredible amount of much needed relationship work that we now need to carry through.
More behind the thread cause not everyone digs authority exchange.
More behind the thread cause not everyone digs authority exchange.
September 1, 2025 at 8:22 PM
Home safe from MsC. Unpacked except laundry, which I’ll deal with tomorrow. It wasn’t what I expected, but it was what I needed. Sir and I did an incredible amount of much needed relationship work that we now need to carry through.
More behind the thread cause not everyone digs authority exchange.
More behind the thread cause not everyone digs authority exchange.
I don’t have many pictures from MsC, but I do keep laughing about this one. I was searching and searching for our MAsT chapter. I finally found it and of course we have to be different with our patch. MAsT Mass is quality but we’re always a little quirky.
September 1, 2025 at 12:33 PM
I don’t have many pictures from MsC, but I do keep laughing about this one. I was searching and searching for our MAsT chapter. I finally found it and of course we have to be different with our patch. MAsT Mass is quality but we’re always a little quirky.
Kids met their teachers. Son is on a list with the new principal, getting quizzed on math facts as we walked in the door. His new teacher was a math tutor so maybe she can help encourage too.
Daughter’s seat is next to the classroom library. Her current fandom in reach. Temptation!
Daughter’s seat is next to the classroom library. Her current fandom in reach. Temptation!
August 26, 2025 at 9:56 PM
Kids met their teachers. Son is on a list with the new principal, getting quizzed on math facts as we walked in the door. His new teacher was a math tutor so maybe she can help encourage too.
Daughter’s seat is next to the classroom library. Her current fandom in reach. Temptation!
Daughter’s seat is next to the classroom library. Her current fandom in reach. Temptation!
Today I took part in CTs Women’s Shooting Day as part of the Becoming an Outdoorswoman program. I’ve done archery before but never shot a gun.
It was a great event. Shotgun was tough but later discovered I need to shoot lefty & that might of made life easier. Pics are pistols & rifle targets
It was a great event. Shotgun was tough but later discovered I need to shoot lefty & that might of made life easier. Pics are pistols & rifle targets
August 24, 2025 at 12:43 AM
Today I took part in CTs Women’s Shooting Day as part of the Becoming an Outdoorswoman program. I’ve done archery before but never shot a gun.
It was a great event. Shotgun was tough but later discovered I need to shoot lefty & that might of made life easier. Pics are pistols & rifle targets
It was a great event. Shotgun was tough but later discovered I need to shoot lefty & that might of made life easier. Pics are pistols & rifle targets
So close to being an officially licensed professional engineer in NY and the paperwork is killing me.
August 20, 2025 at 4:29 PM
So close to being an officially licensed professional engineer in NY and the paperwork is killing me.
Parents made jam with the kids, then took them to the dinosaur museum and a late lunch at the ferry landing. They are living the life.
August 19, 2025 at 7:18 PM
Parents made jam with the kids, then took them to the dinosaur museum and a late lunch at the ferry landing. They are living the life.
Went to a site visit for work today. It’s a longstanding client and mostly checking the box to do a permit renewal.
Found a spill to the ground. Unclear how much oil went to the ground and more headaches all around.
Nothing ever easy.
Found a spill to the ground. Unclear how much oil went to the ground and more headaches all around.
Nothing ever easy.
August 19, 2025 at 5:46 PM
Went to a site visit for work today. It’s a longstanding client and mostly checking the box to do a permit renewal.
Found a spill to the ground. Unclear how much oil went to the ground and more headaches all around.
Nothing ever easy.
Found a spill to the ground. Unclear how much oil went to the ground and more headaches all around.
Nothing ever easy.
Today’s daily tarot card - two of swords.
Seems fitting and I am struggling with motherhood & career this week. Also staying present in relationship challenge vs retreating to unhealthy patterns.
Sorry for potato quality pic.
Seems fitting and I am struggling with motherhood & career this week. Also staying present in relationship challenge vs retreating to unhealthy patterns.
Sorry for potato quality pic.
August 19, 2025 at 10:12 AM
Today’s daily tarot card - two of swords.
Seems fitting and I am struggling with motherhood & career this week. Also staying present in relationship challenge vs retreating to unhealthy patterns.
Sorry for potato quality pic.
Seems fitting and I am struggling with motherhood & career this week. Also staying present in relationship challenge vs retreating to unhealthy patterns.
Sorry for potato quality pic.
Muggy, buggy 3 mile walk tonight. Loving this “welcoming” sign I passed.
Only one neighbor chat stop. Son’s classmate was hiding in a tree.
Only one neighbor chat stop. Son’s classmate was hiding in a tree.
August 15, 2025 at 12:31 AM
Muggy, buggy 3 mile walk tonight. Loving this “welcoming” sign I passed.
Only one neighbor chat stop. Son’s classmate was hiding in a tree.
Only one neighbor chat stop. Son’s classmate was hiding in a tree.
Todays daily tarot draw - six of wands
Success and progress.
Today doesn’t feel like much of a success. Moved some things forwards this morning, but work is rapidly picking up steam and it’s the end of summer chaos with no childcare. These few weeks always fill me with anxiety and stress.
Success and progress.
Today doesn’t feel like much of a success. Moved some things forwards this morning, but work is rapidly picking up steam and it’s the end of summer chaos with no childcare. These few weeks always fill me with anxiety and stress.
August 14, 2025 at 11:31 AM
Todays daily tarot draw - six of wands
Success and progress.
Today doesn’t feel like much of a success. Moved some things forwards this morning, but work is rapidly picking up steam and it’s the end of summer chaos with no childcare. These few weeks always fill me with anxiety and stress.
Success and progress.
Today doesn’t feel like much of a success. Moved some things forwards this morning, but work is rapidly picking up steam and it’s the end of summer chaos with no childcare. These few weeks always fill me with anxiety and stress.
For work i have accounts on a number of different state & federal websites for reporting data for clients.
Michigan, MiEnviro? - you are my nemisis.
Typing this while sitting in my 15 minute timeout because my password manager never seems to work for this one website.
Michigan, MiEnviro? - you are my nemisis.
Typing this while sitting in my 15 minute timeout because my password manager never seems to work for this one website.
August 13, 2025 at 7:38 PM
For work i have accounts on a number of different state & federal websites for reporting data for clients.
Michigan, MiEnviro? - you are my nemisis.
Typing this while sitting in my 15 minute timeout because my password manager never seems to work for this one website.
Michigan, MiEnviro? - you are my nemisis.
Typing this while sitting in my 15 minute timeout because my password manager never seems to work for this one website.
Nice parent - took kids to get ice cream (well sorbet).
Mean parent - made them walk to go get it.
There are perks to living in a dense suburbia, and walkability is one of them.
Mean parent - made them walk to go get it.
There are perks to living in a dense suburbia, and walkability is one of them.
August 12, 2025 at 9:31 PM
Nice parent - took kids to get ice cream (well sorbet).
Mean parent - made them walk to go get it.
There are perks to living in a dense suburbia, and walkability is one of them.
Mean parent - made them walk to go get it.
There are perks to living in a dense suburbia, and walkability is one of them.
I made a terrible error today.
I tried to do protein coffee with the powdered stuff I’ve had on a shelf for ages and it’s… awful. Awful awful awful.
I tried to do protein coffee with the powdered stuff I’ve had on a shelf for ages and it’s… awful. Awful awful awful.
August 12, 2025 at 6:06 PM
I made a terrible error today.
I tried to do protein coffee with the powdered stuff I’ve had on a shelf for ages and it’s… awful. Awful awful awful.
I tried to do protein coffee with the powdered stuff I’ve had on a shelf for ages and it’s… awful. Awful awful awful.
Heavy, complicated talks continue between Sir & I, meta & Sir. I’ve reached to her, but she’s still driving home and set no expectation of response.
Sir and I walked 5 miles this morning. As we were coming up with the plan he called me out for shrinking away.
Sir and I walked 5 miles this morning. As we were coming up with the plan he called me out for shrinking away.
August 10, 2025 at 10:37 PM
Heavy, complicated talks continue between Sir & I, meta & Sir. I’ve reached to her, but she’s still driving home and set no expectation of response.
Sir and I walked 5 miles this morning. As we were coming up with the plan he called me out for shrinking away.
Sir and I walked 5 miles this morning. As we were coming up with the plan he called me out for shrinking away.
Me trying to work through my life challenges.
August 10, 2025 at 11:26 AM
Me trying to work through my life challenges.
I am afraid I will get Inundated with bots for this, but working on using the platform blah blah blah.
Proud to say I’m down 5% of my body weight since early July. Taking things careful and imperfect to avoid burnout, even if it is less intense, speedy results. Calorie counting & walking mostly.
Proud to say I’m down 5% of my body weight since early July. Taking things careful and imperfect to avoid burnout, even if it is less intense, speedy results. Calorie counting & walking mostly.
August 10, 2025 at 11:25 AM
I am afraid I will get Inundated with bots for this, but working on using the platform blah blah blah.
Proud to say I’m down 5% of my body weight since early July. Taking things careful and imperfect to avoid burnout, even if it is less intense, speedy results. Calorie counting & walking mostly.
Proud to say I’m down 5% of my body weight since early July. Taking things careful and imperfect to avoid burnout, even if it is less intense, speedy results. Calorie counting & walking mostly.
Heavy heavy conversations with Sir last night. Sticking them below in a thread because polyamory and power exchange are not everyone’s cup of tea. This is a space where I am anonymously being all of me.
August 9, 2025 at 4:40 PM
Heavy heavy conversations with Sir last night. Sticking them below in a thread because polyamory and power exchange are not everyone’s cup of tea. This is a space where I am anonymously being all of me.
Home from funeral. Two big things playing in my head.
1) it’s been 10+ years since I decided not to practice Catholicism, but the years of school and CCD and youth group and masses… it’s hard to stay quiet and not mechanically follow along with mass.
1) it’s been 10+ years since I decided not to practice Catholicism, but the years of school and CCD and youth group and masses… it’s hard to stay quiet and not mechanically follow along with mass.
August 8, 2025 at 5:02 PM
Home from funeral. Two big things playing in my head.
1) it’s been 10+ years since I decided not to practice Catholicism, but the years of school and CCD and youth group and masses… it’s hard to stay quiet and not mechanically follow along with mass.
1) it’s been 10+ years since I decided not to practice Catholicism, but the years of school and CCD and youth group and masses… it’s hard to stay quiet and not mechanically follow along with mass.
Todays daily tarot draw - six of swords.
Transitions.
Finally breaking out of wands streak. I know all the cards are neutral, but the art on this particular version has a sadness to me.
Today is a funeral. Husband is taking kids to see his parents in MA. Sir comes over for a bit tonight.
Transitions.
Finally breaking out of wands streak. I know all the cards are neutral, but the art on this particular version has a sadness to me.
Today is a funeral. Husband is taking kids to see his parents in MA. Sir comes over for a bit tonight.
August 8, 2025 at 11:03 AM
Todays daily tarot draw - six of swords.
Transitions.
Finally breaking out of wands streak. I know all the cards are neutral, but the art on this particular version has a sadness to me.
Today is a funeral. Husband is taking kids to see his parents in MA. Sir comes over for a bit tonight.
Transitions.
Finally breaking out of wands streak. I know all the cards are neutral, but the art on this particular version has a sadness to me.
Today is a funeral. Husband is taking kids to see his parents in MA. Sir comes over for a bit tonight.
Todays daily tarot draw - four of wands.
Was up until the wee hours writing, woke up and hard conversations with Sir almost immediately. In this moment things do not feel harmonious or stable.
Nothing is antagonistic. It’s acknowledgment of slipping and losing our ways.
Was up until the wee hours writing, woke up and hard conversations with Sir almost immediately. In this moment things do not feel harmonious or stable.
Nothing is antagonistic. It’s acknowledgment of slipping and losing our ways.
August 7, 2025 at 12:34 PM
Todays daily tarot draw - four of wands.
Was up until the wee hours writing, woke up and hard conversations with Sir almost immediately. In this moment things do not feel harmonious or stable.
Nothing is antagonistic. It’s acknowledgment of slipping and losing our ways.
Was up until the wee hours writing, woke up and hard conversations with Sir almost immediately. In this moment things do not feel harmonious or stable.
Nothing is antagonistic. It’s acknowledgment of slipping and losing our ways.
Today’s daily tarot card - Page of Wands.
Learning, growth, new opportunities.
Still feeling in a heavy spot. Today includes some errands because water got in the basement. I don’t want to learn more about that the hard way.
Learning, growth, new opportunities.
Still feeling in a heavy spot. Today includes some errands because water got in the basement. I don’t want to learn more about that the hard way.
August 6, 2025 at 10:55 AM
Today’s daily tarot card - Page of Wands.
Learning, growth, new opportunities.
Still feeling in a heavy spot. Today includes some errands because water got in the basement. I don’t want to learn more about that the hard way.
Learning, growth, new opportunities.
Still feeling in a heavy spot. Today includes some errands because water got in the basement. I don’t want to learn more about that the hard way.
Todays (delayed) daily tarot draw - strength
After a bunch of heavy processing around the polyamory stuff last night and this morning, it feels fitting.
I think what was supposed to be fun sexytimes with Sir Friday is going to be hard talks, but I feel mostly ok with that in this moment.
After a bunch of heavy processing around the polyamory stuff last night and this morning, it feels fitting.
I think what was supposed to be fun sexytimes with Sir Friday is going to be hard talks, but I feel mostly ok with that in this moment.
August 5, 2025 at 2:48 PM
Todays (delayed) daily tarot draw - strength
After a bunch of heavy processing around the polyamory stuff last night and this morning, it feels fitting.
I think what was supposed to be fun sexytimes with Sir Friday is going to be hard talks, but I feel mostly ok with that in this moment.
After a bunch of heavy processing around the polyamory stuff last night and this morning, it feels fitting.
I think what was supposed to be fun sexytimes with Sir Friday is going to be hard talks, but I feel mostly ok with that in this moment.
Todays daily tarot draw - nine of Wands.
Challenges and obstacles are at the forefront of my mind after a rough hypothetical Sir asked about Saturday and a disclosure last night that violated my understanding of things.
Polyamory is hard sometimes.
Challenges and obstacles are at the forefront of my mind after a rough hypothetical Sir asked about Saturday and a disclosure last night that violated my understanding of things.
Polyamory is hard sometimes.
August 4, 2025 at 10:26 AM
Todays daily tarot draw - nine of Wands.
Challenges and obstacles are at the forefront of my mind after a rough hypothetical Sir asked about Saturday and a disclosure last night that violated my understanding of things.
Polyamory is hard sometimes.
Challenges and obstacles are at the forefront of my mind after a rough hypothetical Sir asked about Saturday and a disclosure last night that violated my understanding of things.
Polyamory is hard sometimes.