Tref
@dtref.bsky.social
London-based, does stuff in finance, AFOL, jack russell owner, BSL learner, handweaver, bipolarist, Blu-ray & vinyl fanatic. Personal views.
Ready to date handsome guys who have low standards 😘
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Ready to date handsome guys who have low standards 😘
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Tired of hearing how UK gov will be pandering to Trump in order to avoid further trade problems. However, having heard he's getting met at the airport by Yvette Cooper, maybe that's punishment enough
September 16, 2025 at 6:24 PM
Tired of hearing how UK gov will be pandering to Trump in order to avoid further trade problems. However, having heard he's getting met at the airport by Yvette Cooper, maybe that's punishment enough
No, Trump. You are completely allowed to sell US cars in the EU, but no one wants them. They're too big, too polluting and cost too much in fuel. Fix that, and they'll get bought.
March 13, 2025 at 6:23 PM
No, Trump. You are completely allowed to sell US cars in the EU, but no one wants them. They're too big, too polluting and cost too much in fuel. Fix that, and they'll get bought.
On 22 January, GB News presenter Josh Howie repeated a homophobic slur linking the LGBTQ+ community to paedophilia. This is offensive, wrong and unlawful. Join me and @GoodLawProject to file a complaint to Ofcom :point_down: action.goodlawproject.org/ofcom-stop-g...
Ofcom, stop GB News broadcasting hate
*CW: Homophobia, hate speech GB News is no stranger to spouting hatred and toxic lies. They take pride in it, and pretend the rules don’t matter. But they do. And they must be enforced. On 22 January,...
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February 7, 2025 at 11:05 AM
On 22 January, GB News presenter Josh Howie repeated a homophobic slur linking the LGBTQ+ community to paedophilia. This is offensive, wrong and unlawful. Join me and @GoodLawProject to file a complaint to Ofcom :point_down: action.goodlawproject.org/ofcom-stop-g...
The state of the world is so distressing that friends and beloved companions are such an important part of our wellbeing. Lucas is such a good boy cos he doesn't like water so baths are a chore for him, but he accepts them and is very well behaved. This is after his first in 5 months due to his...
February 2, 2025 at 11:57 AM
The state of the world is so distressing that friends and beloved companions are such an important part of our wellbeing. Lucas is such a good boy cos he doesn't like water so baths are a chore for him, but he accepts them and is very well behaved. This is after his first in 5 months due to his...
So excited for this to arrive. I first met Anna when I worked at Battersea Arts Centre and she is a wonderful person. And then she published her first book and it was one of the best I've ever read; I don't think a book had ever moved me to tears before. Everyone I've recommended or gifted it to...
February 1, 2025 at 3:06 PM
So excited for this to arrive. I first met Anna when I worked at Battersea Arts Centre and she is a wonderful person. And then she published her first book and it was one of the best I've ever read; I don't think a book had ever moved me to tears before. Everyone I've recommended or gifted it to...
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Please Allies, rethink "support trans rights" as your default position.
In the US, UK and elsewhere, trans *rights* are in the dumpster and no amount of Posting is going to fix it.
Support trans *survival* because a lot of us aren't going to make it without significant, maybe risky, material help.
In the US, UK and elsewhere, trans *rights* are in the dumpster and no amount of Posting is going to fix it.
Support trans *survival* because a lot of us aren't going to make it without significant, maybe risky, material help.
January 20, 2025 at 11:31 PM
Please Allies, rethink "support trans rights" as your default position.
In the US, UK and elsewhere, trans *rights* are in the dumpster and no amount of Posting is going to fix it.
Support trans *survival* because a lot of us aren't going to make it without significant, maybe risky, material help.
In the US, UK and elsewhere, trans *rights* are in the dumpster and no amount of Posting is going to fix it.
Support trans *survival* because a lot of us aren't going to make it without significant, maybe risky, material help.
I don't care how much Melania cosplays as the Babadook, she's not my gay icon
January 20, 2025 at 10:36 PM
I don't care how much Melania cosplays as the Babadook, she's not my gay icon
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CNN saying it may have been more of a heat of the moment Sieg Heil than an actual Sieg Heil
January 20, 2025 at 10:26 PM
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Even Nigel Fuckrage hasn't quite descended to Nazi salute level, but give it another 24 hours...
January 20, 2025 at 10:16 PM
Even Nigel Fuckrage hasn't quite descended to Nazi salute level, but give it another 24 hours...
Noel Coward Theatre, Londaaaaan
January 20, 2025 at 9:50 PM
Noel Coward Theatre, Londaaaaan
Tonight I am celebrating Blue Monday with a trip to the theatre with my mate Rich, where we shall be enjoying Steve Coogan in Armando Iannucci and Steve Foley's Dr Strangelove
January 20, 2025 at 5:23 PM
Tonight I am celebrating Blue Monday with a trip to the theatre with my mate Rich, where we shall be enjoying Steve Coogan in Armando Iannucci and Steve Foley's Dr Strangelove
When even the dog on your lap has decided to turn away...
January 19, 2025 at 2:07 PM
When even the dog on your lap has decided to turn away...
Tom is one of the most wonderful people on the planet.
January 18, 2025 at 5:29 PM
Tom is one of the most wonderful people on the planet.
At my friend Tom's 45th birthday party at the pub and drinking my first full-fat coke in years. Whew! Soooooo sweet. Mental note never to do this again.
January 18, 2025 at 1:48 PM
At my friend Tom's 45th birthday party at the pub and drinking my first full-fat coke in years. Whew! Soooooo sweet. Mental note never to do this again.
It's 3° out but this mum has her younger child (7ish?) in shorts. Maybe he's adopted from Newcastle?
January 18, 2025 at 12:46 PM
It's 3° out but this mum has her younger child (7ish?) in shorts. Maybe he's adopted from Newcastle?
Mr Lynch. One of the few individuals for whom the word iconic is accurately attributable
January 16, 2025 at 6:56 PM
Mr Lynch. One of the few individuals for whom the word iconic is accurately attributable
Dear wonderful David Lynch. You were a legend and changed my life, opening my mind to so much more.
I'll never forget the end of Episode 14, and sitting in darkness and silence trying to take it all in, as a teenager, always watching Twin Peaks on my own after everyone else had gone to bed. RIP ❤️❤️
I'll never forget the end of Episode 14, and sitting in darkness and silence trying to take it all in, as a teenager, always watching Twin Peaks on my own after everyone else had gone to bed. RIP ❤️❤️
January 16, 2025 at 6:53 PM
Dear wonderful David Lynch. You were a legend and changed my life, opening my mind to so much more.
I'll never forget the end of Episode 14, and sitting in darkness and silence trying to take it all in, as a teenager, always watching Twin Peaks on my own after everyone else had gone to bed. RIP ❤️❤️
I'll never forget the end of Episode 14, and sitting in darkness and silence trying to take it all in, as a teenager, always watching Twin Peaks on my own after everyone else had gone to bed. RIP ❤️❤️
What a day to rip the front of my jeans at work whilst wearing light coloured underwear
January 16, 2025 at 3:09 PM
What a day to rip the front of my jeans at work whilst wearing light coloured underwear
If you're struggling with transport today, storms, general malaise, whatever, here is a picture of a dog supremely contented with his lot because he has a bed and a fleecy blanket. I am now going to spend some time being like Lucas and appreciating the comfort of this moment.
December 6, 2024 at 12:12 PM
If you're struggling with transport today, storms, general malaise, whatever, here is a picture of a dog supremely contented with his lot because he has a bed and a fleecy blanket. I am now going to spend some time being like Lucas and appreciating the comfort of this moment.
Always have some appropriate Christmas decorations for your tree...
December 2, 2024 at 6:08 PM
Always have some appropriate Christmas decorations for your tree...
Time to get the Christmas tree up, but I think I have just enough energy to hang a bauble on a twig.
And someone else needs to fetch the bauble.
And the twig.
And someone else needs to fetch the bauble.
And the twig.
December 1, 2024 at 11:21 AM
Time to get the Christmas tree up, but I think I have just enough energy to hang a bauble on a twig.
And someone else needs to fetch the bauble.
And the twig.
And someone else needs to fetch the bauble.
And the twig.
I'm on leave this week and just realised I have not left the house since getting home last Thurs eve from work.
That's a holiday; complete segregation from any form of interaction with strangers.
That's a holiday; complete segregation from any form of interaction with strangers.
November 29, 2024 at 7:50 PM
I'm on leave this week and just realised I have not left the house since getting home last Thurs eve from work.
That's a holiday; complete segregation from any form of interaction with strangers.
That's a holiday; complete segregation from any form of interaction with strangers.
On Channel 4 now: Inside Harrods at Christmas, where women can be assaulted by an evil little elf
November 29, 2024 at 7:33 PM
On Channel 4 now: Inside Harrods at Christmas, where women can be assaulted by an evil little elf
Man on telly explaining why we should shop at the artisanal local stalls for our unnecessary and overpriced Christmas gift tat.
Piss off and take your man-bun with you.
Piss off and take your man-bun with you.
November 29, 2024 at 6:37 PM
Man on telly explaining why we should shop at the artisanal local stalls for our unnecessary and overpriced Christmas gift tat.
Piss off and take your man-bun with you.
Piss off and take your man-bun with you.
Massive props to France for rebuilding Notre Dame so fantastically in just 5 years, with contributions from across the country. If that had been Westminster Abbey, the UK would still be considering which architect to appoint and might have recently finished a tent over the wreckage.
November 29, 2024 at 6:21 PM
Massive props to France for rebuilding Notre Dame so fantastically in just 5 years, with contributions from across the country. If that had been Westminster Abbey, the UK would still be considering which architect to appoint and might have recently finished a tent over the wreckage.