exactly this

yy - that there are correct things to do, and if you do the correct things, no harm may come to you. magical thinking

tbh more people should feel free to not speculate about things they have no experience of

kind of hopeless, and pointless. whatever is the absolute best, no one is getting it. i mean i understand, i get it, and nonetheless it’s just shit

there is just so much, and it’s always. at the end of visiting her today i noticed her glasses were broken, one lens fully gone and when i asked about it they said they just broke, who knows. and it’s nobody’s fault and they are caring for many high needs people (including her) but it just felt

as always all my compassion with you because i am on a similar road, but even *i* don’t know how exactly it is for you & i would never presume to tell you anything

whatever you’re doing, it’s the best you can do and it’s what possible

i hope no one is saying this to u directly -people say it in general around me sometimes, not knowing my situation & that is bad enough

tbh it’s like hearing someone talk about what they’d do in a hostage situation, u don’t know til you’re in it &ushouldn’t feel obliged to give suggestions til then

Make the Goddamn meal and put it in your Free Fridge. Write the $100 check to the food bank. Ask your local school what they need for the kids and then go about trying to get that stuff.... Do these things regularly and you are making meaningful contributions to your communities.

i tell you to tell myself, i may need this moment later

‘the incomprehensible holy’ yes this is exactly it

i have been listening to it all day

she is a genius, an artiste, i love her