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The first site and mobile resource with searchable data for domestic violence programs in US/Canada + resources for those experiencing domestic abuse.

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DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · Oct 6
💜 10M people search monthly for help with domestic abuse. This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, your gift to DomesticShelters.org helps survivors find answers, support & hope. Donate today 👉 zpr.io/cc3isEybiAjs

#DVAM
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🚨 DV Headlines, Week of Nov. 10:
• FL man jumps from moving car after hitting wife
• MD man freed for DV, assaults same woman again
• Phoenix woman killed by boyfriend with chainsaw
• Sextortion scheme blamed for man murdering wife

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#EndDV
Headlines for the Week of Nov. 10
A Maryland judge releases a man from jail after a domestic violence arrest, believing he wouldn't do it again. An hour later, he did it again.
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November 14, 2025 at 8:00 PM
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⚠️ Survivors seeking help are sometimes accused of being the abuser due to manipulation, misogyny, or system misunderstandings of self-defense. Support trauma-informed advocacy and access resources — find help now. 💜

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#DVJustice
How Survivors Get Falsely Accused of Domestic Violence
Understand why survivors are falsely accused of domestic violence, the impact on legal outcomes, and what reforms are needed for justice.
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November 14, 2025 at 5:05 PM
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🔍 The number of domestic violence organizations in New Brunswick offering emergency services isn't specified. Readers should consult local resource listings for details 💜

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#NBDVHelp
New Brunswick Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics
Find help and statistics for New Brunswick`s 20 domestic violence programs located in 9 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.
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November 14, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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🚨 Abusers use intimidation to control and terrorize survivors, making escape and safety feel impossible. Emotional violence breeds lasting fear. Survivors should contact trusted supports or hotlines for help now. 💜

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#NoFear
How Abusers Use Intimidation as a Form of Psychological Abuse
Intimidation by an intimate partner can be a sign of domestic violence. Learn how psychological intimidation is related to power, control and emotional violence.
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November 13, 2025 at 10:01 PM
domesticshelters.bsky.social
🚀 When someone decides not to stay where they are, they take the first step toward somewhere new. Take that step today—act now and move forward. 💜

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#StartNow
November 13, 2025 at 5:07 PM
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⚠️ Gaslighting distorts reality, minimizes feelings and erodes confidence. Manipulation shows as denial, diversion or feigned concern; refusal to change signals abuse. They should document incidents and seek support. 💜

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#StopGas
Quiz: Are You Missing the Signs of Gaslighting?
Uncover the hidden signs of gaslighting with our quiz and learn how to protect yourself from this subtle form of abuse and understand how it affects relationships.
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November 13, 2025 at 1:30 PM
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⚖️ The U.S. justice system can fail survivors; false accusations can become another form of abuse. Advocates call for accountability and stronger protections — learn more and act. 💜

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#EndDARVO
How Survivors Get Falsely Accused of Domestic Violence
Understand why survivors are falsely accused of domestic violence, the impact on legal outcomes, and what reforms are needed for justice.
zpr.io
November 13, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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🔍 New Brunswick domestic violence facts and figures expose systemic gaps and a growing need for survivor services. Advocates call for the public to share findings and press for improved supports 💜

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#EndDVNB
New Brunswick Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics
Find help and statistics for New Brunswick`s 20 domestic violence programs located in 9 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.
zpr.io
November 12, 2025 at 10:02 PM
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⚠️ Survivors should know intimidation is deliberate abuse: fear, threats and pressure to control, often without violence. Feeling tense or 'walking on eggshells' can signal it. Prioritize safety, document patterns and reach out 💜

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#EndAbuse
How Abusers Use Intimidation as a Form of Psychological Abuse
Intimidation by an intimate partner can be a sign of domestic violence. Learn how psychological intimidation is related to power, control and emotional violence.
zpr.io
November 12, 2025 at 5:03 PM
domesticshelters.bsky.social
💔 When you think of abuse, you might picture hitting or yelling—but what about cheating?

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#NoBlame
Is Cheating Abuse? The Role of Infidelity and Accusations in Domestic Abuse
is cheating abuse? Learn how abusers use infidelity and accusations to dominate, harm and manipulate their partners.
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November 12, 2025 at 1:31 PM
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🌱 This guide helps people who left abusive relationships reclaim life with practical exercises, reassurance, and strategies—leaving is the start of healing. Encourages readers to take the next step toward safety and growth. 💜

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#Reclaim
November 12, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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🔍 People are challenged to spot how subtle psychological abuse shows up; recognizing it protects boundaries. They are encouraged to share stories and learn more. 💜

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#SeeTruth
Quiz: Are You Missing the Signs of Gaslighting?
Uncover the hidden signs of gaslighting with our quiz and learn how to protect yourself from this subtle form of abuse and understand how it affects relationships.
zpr.io
November 11, 2025 at 10:02 PM
domesticshelters.bsky.social
🚨 Survivors of domestic violence are often misidentified as abusers through DARVO, false "mutual abuse" or parental-alienation claims and systemic bias; justice systems must reform to protect survivors. Act now 💜

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#Believe
How Survivors Get Falsely Accused of Domestic Violence
Understand why survivors are falsely accused of domestic violence, the impact on legal outcomes, and what reforms are needed for justice.
zpr.io
November 11, 2025 at 5:04 PM
domesticshelters.bsky.social
💜 People in New Brunswick needing local domestic violence support can find programs and help; find out more and reach out for confidential assistance today.📞

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#SafeNB
New Brunswick Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics
Find help and statistics for New Brunswick`s 20 domestic violence programs located in 9 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.
zpr.io
November 11, 2025 at 1:30 PM
domesticshelters.bsky.social
⚠️ Survivors may not recognize intimidation as abuse, but threats and fear are emotional and psychological tools abusers use to control partners and trap them in a cycle of violence. Survivors should seek support. 💜

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#EndAbuse
How Abusers Use Intimidation as a Form of Psychological Abuse
Intimidation by an intimate partner can be a sign of domestic violence. Learn how psychological intimidation is related to power, control and emotional violence.
zpr.io
November 11, 2025 at 1:30 AM
domesticshelters.bsky.social
🔍 Unfaithfulness or false cheating accusations often function as control tactics in abusive relationships, not just suspicion. Those affected should seek support and safety resources. 💜

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#NoBlame
Is Cheating Abuse? The Role of Infidelity and Accusations in Domestic Abuse
is cheating abuse? Learn how abusers use infidelity and accusations to dominate, harm and manipulate their partners.
zpr.io
November 10, 2025 at 10:02 PM
domesticshelters.bsky.social
🚨 Abusive partners who interfere with medical care, hiding birth control, blocking appointments, or tampering with equipment endanger survivors' health and autonomy. Survivors should document incidents and seek confidential support 💜

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#MedAbuse
November 10, 2025 at 5:08 PM
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🚨 Goldstein & York expose how biased family court practices—alienation theory, economic inequality, gender myths—escalate deadly risk for survivors and children. The webinar calls for urgent reform to save lives. 💜

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#CourtRisk
How Family Court Practices Increase Domestic Violence Homicides
This DomesticShelters.org webinar led by Barry Goldstein and Veronica York of Goldstein & York DV Experts, exposes the dangerous ways family court practices contribute to domestic violence homicides....
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November 9, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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🎧 The PAVE podcast spotlights global experts on preventing family violence; this episode on the Safe Child Act features Barry Goldstein, expert advisor at DomesticShelters.org. Listeners can tune in — listen now 💜

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#SafeKids
Domestic Violence Podcasts
Check out these domestic violence podcasts that cover a wide range of topics
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November 9, 2025 at 5:01 PM
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🚨 Cheating and false accusations can be tactics abusers use to control and destabilize survivors; when infidelity is weaponized it's abuse, not blame. Survivors deserve support — others should offer help and resources. 💜

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#NoBlame
Is Cheating Abuse? The Role of Infidelity and Accusations in Domestic Abuse
is cheating abuse? Learn how abusers use infidelity and accusations to dominate, harm and manipulate their partners.
zpr.io
November 9, 2025 at 1:30 PM
domesticshelters.bsky.social
🚨 DV Headlines, Week of Nov. 3:
• Toronto launches helpline for men seeking to stop abuse
• Dallas police chief reports 500+ DV arrests in Oct
• Florida sheriff’s deputy attacks pregnant wife
• 21-year-old Atlanta woman killed, boyfriend suspected

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#EndDV
Domestic Violence Headlines for the Week of Nov. 3
A Florida Sheriff’s Office deputy, Randall Saintlus, caused his pregnant wife to "fall" down their stairs after he attacked her at their home on Tuesday and more audacious news regarding violence against...
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November 7, 2025 at 8:00 PM
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⚠️ Sumarie Engelbrecht says people minimize abuse to reduce guilt, from fear it will worsen, or via generational trauma that desensitizes them. She urges those affected to seek support and resources. 💜

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#NoShame
“It’s Really Not That Bad”—Why Some Survivors Minimize Abuse
When survivors minimize domestic violence, it can be out of fear, guilt or as a self-protection measure.
zpr.io
November 7, 2025 at 5:03 PM
domesticshelters.bsky.social
💜 The number of domestic violence organizations in Montana offering emergency services isn't provided here; readers should consult local directories or contact the state coalition for current info. 🔎

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#MTDVHelp
Montana Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics
Find help and statistics for Montana`s 35 domestic violence programs located in 23 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.
zpr.io
November 7, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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💜 If someone notices a partner becoming controlling—monitoring, isolating, gaslighting, threats or micromanaging—they should prioritize safety and seek support. Reach out to trusted friends or professionals. 📞

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#TakeBack
Ask Amanda: Is Controlling Behavior a Type of Abuse?
Controlling behavior by a romantic partner can be a red flag for abuse.
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November 6, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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🔥 They survived because the fire inside them burned brighter than the fire around them. Let this fuel their next step — share to inspire. 💜

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#SoulFire
November 6, 2025 at 5:04 PM