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The first site and mobile resource with searchable data for domestic violence programs in US/Canada + resources for those experiencing domestic abuse.

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DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · Oct 6
💜 10M people search monthly for help with domestic abuse. This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, your gift to DomesticShelters.org helps survivors find answers, support & hope. Donate today 👉 zpr.io/cc3isEybiAjs

#DVAM
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🚨 Survivors of domestic violence are often misidentified as abusers through DARVO, false "mutual abuse" or parental-alienation claims and systemic bias; justice systems must reform to protect survivors. Act now 💜

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#Believe
How Survivors Get Falsely Accused of Domestic Violence
Understand why survivors are falsely accused of domestic violence, the impact on legal outcomes, and what reforms are needed for justice.
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November 11, 2025 at 5:04 PM
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💜 People in New Brunswick needing local domestic violence support can find programs and help; find out more and reach out for confidential assistance today.📞

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#SafeNB
New Brunswick Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics
Find help and statistics for New Brunswick`s 20 domestic violence programs located in 9 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.
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November 11, 2025 at 1:30 PM
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⚠️ Survivors may not recognize intimidation as abuse, but threats and fear are emotional and psychological tools abusers use to control partners and trap them in a cycle of violence. Survivors should seek support. 💜

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#EndAbuse
How Abusers Use Intimidation as a Form of Psychological Abuse
Intimidation by an intimate partner can be a sign of domestic violence. Learn how psychological intimidation is related to power, control and emotional violence.
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November 11, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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🔍 Unfaithfulness or false cheating accusations often function as control tactics in abusive relationships, not just suspicion. Those affected should seek support and safety resources. 💜

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#NoBlame
Is Cheating Abuse? The Role of Infidelity and Accusations in Domestic Abuse
is cheating abuse? Learn how abusers use infidelity and accusations to dominate, harm and manipulate their partners.
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November 10, 2025 at 10:02 PM
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🚨 Abusive partners who interfere with medical care, hiding birth control, blocking appointments, or tampering with equipment endanger survivors' health and autonomy. Survivors should document incidents and seek confidential support 💜

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#MedAbuse
November 10, 2025 at 5:08 PM
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🚨 Goldstein & York expose how biased family court practices—alienation theory, economic inequality, gender myths—escalate deadly risk for survivors and children. The webinar calls for urgent reform to save lives. 💜

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#CourtRisk
How Family Court Practices Increase Domestic Violence Homicides
This DomesticShelters.org webinar led by Barry Goldstein and Veronica York of Goldstein & York DV Experts, exposes the dangerous ways family court practices contribute to domestic violence homicides....
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November 9, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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🎧 The PAVE podcast spotlights global experts on preventing family violence; this episode on the Safe Child Act features Barry Goldstein, expert advisor at DomesticShelters.org. Listeners can tune in — listen now 💜

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#SafeKids
Domestic Violence Podcasts
Check out these domestic violence podcasts that cover a wide range of topics
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November 9, 2025 at 5:01 PM
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🚨 Cheating and false accusations can be tactics abusers use to control and destabilize survivors; when infidelity is weaponized it's abuse, not blame. Survivors deserve support — others should offer help and resources. 💜

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#NoBlame
Is Cheating Abuse? The Role of Infidelity and Accusations in Domestic Abuse
is cheating abuse? Learn how abusers use infidelity and accusations to dominate, harm and manipulate their partners.
zpr.io
November 9, 2025 at 1:30 PM
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🚨 DV Headlines, Week of Nov. 3:
• Toronto launches helpline for men seeking to stop abuse
• Dallas police chief reports 500+ DV arrests in Oct
• Florida sheriff’s deputy attacks pregnant wife
• 21-year-old Atlanta woman killed, boyfriend suspected

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#EndDV
Domestic Violence Headlines for the Week of Nov. 3
A Florida Sheriff’s Office deputy, Randall Saintlus, caused his pregnant wife to "fall" down their stairs after he attacked her at their home on Tuesday and more audacious news regarding violence against...
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November 7, 2025 at 8:00 PM
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⚠️ Sumarie Engelbrecht says people minimize abuse to reduce guilt, from fear it will worsen, or via generational trauma that desensitizes them. She urges those affected to seek support and resources. 💜

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#NoShame
“It’s Really Not That Bad”—Why Some Survivors Minimize Abuse
When survivors minimize domestic violence, it can be out of fear, guilt or as a self-protection measure.
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November 7, 2025 at 5:03 PM
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💜 The number of domestic violence organizations in Montana offering emergency services isn't provided here; readers should consult local directories or contact the state coalition for current info. 🔎

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#MTDVHelp
Montana Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics
Find help and statistics for Montana`s 35 domestic violence programs located in 23 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.
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November 7, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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💜 If someone notices a partner becoming controlling—monitoring, isolating, gaslighting, threats or micromanaging—they should prioritize safety and seek support. Reach out to trusted friends or professionals. 📞

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#TakeBack
Ask Amanda: Is Controlling Behavior a Type of Abuse?
Controlling behavior by a romantic partner can be a red flag for abuse.
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November 6, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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🔥 They survived because the fire inside them burned brighter than the fire around them. Let this fuel their next step — share to inspire. 💜

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#SoulFire
November 6, 2025 at 5:04 PM
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⚖️ Advocates say presumption of innocence matters, but civil courts often force survivors of domestic abuse to prove claims with testimony and depositions. Community must push for fairer civil standards. 💜

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#ProveIt
Prove It: Victims are Saddled With the Burden of Proof
A survivor of domestic violence is often tasked with proving the crime in a court of law.
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November 6, 2025 at 1:30 PM
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⚠️ Survivors may find short-term relief by minimizing domestic violence, but it harms long-term healing. Communities must support survivors — reach out, believe them, and take action. 💜

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#SeeTruth
“It’s Really Not That Bad”—Why Some Survivors Minimize Abuse
When survivors minimize domestic violence, it can be out of fear, guilt or as a self-protection measure.
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November 6, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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📊 Overview of Montana domestic violence facts and figures highlights rising rates and gaps in services; communities and policymakers must respond. Learn more and support local survivors. 💜

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#EndDVMT
Montana Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics
Find help and statistics for Montana`s 35 domestic violence programs located in 23 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.
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November 5, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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⚠️ She liked his take-charge vibe, but controlling money, clothes, friends and future plans now feels suffocating. Control can be abuse even without threats. She can set boundaries and reach out for trusted support. 💜

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#RedFlags
Ask Amanda: Is Controlling Behavior a Type of Abuse?
Controlling behavior by a romantic partner can be a red flag for abuse.
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November 5, 2025 at 5:03 PM
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A protection order doesn’t always cause abuse to escalate. Often, violence was already increasing—or the abuser lashed out because the survivor took back control.

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#SafeNow
Will I Be More or Less Safe if I File for A Restraining Order?
Why protection orders are important even if there are some flaws in enforcing them.
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November 5, 2025 at 1:30 PM
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🕊️ The memoir maps the cycle of domestic violence—honeymoons, betrayals, shattered dreams and enduring trauma—showing how love and harm intertwine. Read to learn, empathize, and act. 💜

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#EndCycle
November 5, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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🕊️ A domestic violence survivor reveals how the criminal justice system demands victims relive trauma to prove harm, shifting the burden onto the harmed. The story urges reform — share and demand change. 💜

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#ProveIt
Prove It: Victims are Saddled With the Burden of Proof
A survivor of domestic violence is often tasked with proving the crime in a court of law.
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November 4, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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🌱 Survivors often minimize abuse out of fear, guilt or hope, which can ease short-term pain but delay healing. Recognizing minimization—through journaling, therapy and supportive relationships—empowers recovery. Take the next step 💜

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#NotAlone
“It’s Really Not That Bad”—Why Some Survivors Minimize Abuse
When survivors minimize domestic violence, it can be out of fear, guilt or as a self-protection measure.
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November 4, 2025 at 5:04 PM
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🚨 People in Montana seeking support for domestic violence can find local programs and resources. Confidential, local assistance is available 💜 Learn more and get help today.

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#EndDVMT
Montana Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics
Find help and statistics for Montana`s 35 domestic violence programs located in 23 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.
zpr.io
November 4, 2025 at 1:30 PM
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🔎 Abuse isn't always violent; coercive control shows in isolation, monitoring, and constant belittling. Friends and family can spot patterns and offer support. Learn more and reach out for help. 💜

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#Coercion
Ask Amanda: Is Controlling Behavior a Type of Abuse?
Controlling behavior by a romantic partner can be a red flag for abuse.
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November 4, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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🛡️ Domestic violence survivors worry filing a protection order will make abuse worse; advocates can assess danger and build safety plans. Encourage contacting local domestic violence hotlines for confidential, tailored support. 💜

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#EndAbuse
Will I Be More or Less Safe if I File for A Restraining Order?
Why protection orders are important even if there are some flaws in enforcing them.
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November 3, 2025 at 10:02 PM
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🔔 When people insisted an abusive partner had "changed," survivors were gaslit into staying. They deserve belief, safety and support. Encourage them to reach out to trusted contacts or local services for help. 💜

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#NotAlone
November 3, 2025 at 5:03 PM