(cause the alt text is not super visible for videos: it reads "the holiest day of the transexual calendar" by nora hikari, then recites the mourner's kaddish, absent a minyan but hoping that perhaps other trans jews will feel a bit more connect if they also lack a minyan)

a prayer in two parts:

kinda wishing i had a queer minyan, to say the mourners kaddish together for those who have no one else to say it for them. hoping maybe there's other trans jews stuck in weird places for tdor, and we can say the kaddish alone but together and be a not-quite-real-minyan-but-close-enough.

this is what I wrote last year, which still resonates with me: metamagical.dev/tdor-2024/,

bsky.app/profile/did:...

adding this to all prod codebases:
```rust
trait ResultExt {
type T;
/// if `self` is not [`Result::Ok`], find out
fn fuck_around(self) -> T;
}
impl ResultExt for Result {
type T = T;
#[inline(always)]
fn fuck_around(self) -> T { self.unwrap() }
}
```

🎵what's new pussycat🎵

ah rip the curse of heels

those boots are killer tho

hoping this works as well as last time

vulkan by ikea

hotels designed like this make me feel deeply, profoundly lonely

which is... not optimal right now :-/

with any luck, this will be my last medically necessitated visit

most cursed terminology for inches

ok but are u familiar with 10ths and thousandths?

(edited because i am not awake yet)

i discovered a while ago, despite hating most red wines, that i really like port, and have been using that for shabbat purposes when I can drink. 10/10 would recommend. vibe goes nicely with havdalah spices too.