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DID system that sometimes writes. ‘The revelation’, our poetry books, and Tildy’s Little Book are on Amazon! Read ‘Are my thoughts my own?’ and T’s book for free on our website! 42.
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We’re making a Starter Pack of people with Dissociative Identity Disorder, let us know if you’d like to be added!
We went to see Robbie Williams last week and have written about all the chaotic emotions that brought up… turns out nostalgia can lead to grief and pain and a load of other stuff we had to process 😂😭 it’s here if anyone would like a read. www.didwewrite.co.uk/post/reconci...
Reconciling the past and the present: nostalgia, grief, and Robbie Williams.
This is a long one… We knew we had a lot to say here, and we have tried to cut it down, but, we don’t want to much more. This post explores a little of our journey with music, and how a concert meant ...
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June 22, 2025 at 10:19 AM
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My #dissociated friends in the UK. Please consider getting involved with this research at @mrccbu.bsky.social !!

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May 28, 2025 at 8:13 AM
Sorry we haven’t been on much, still finding all social media hard… Hope everyone here is ok ❤️

We managed to write a blog post about some of the things we’ve been doing this year, it’s here if anyone fancies a read.

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Learning to Enjoy Life Again?
We’ve been out of the habit of writing for a while, and it’s been hard to get started again. But, life is much easier than it has been for several years. We’ve been in therapy with CTAD for a year and...
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May 15, 2025 at 10:24 AM
We’re at the Twenty One Pilots gig. Just wanted to report that there’s been successful Mexican waves and it’s hilarious how enthusiastically the entire arena claps when one is completed 🤣

Less than ideal seating bc we bought a cheapest seat after splurging on Robbie tickets for next month!
May 11, 2025 at 7:40 PM
Was doing some gardening and found a cocoon! Gonna make it a little home and see who appears 🥹
April 29, 2025 at 11:38 AM
Just had second therapy of the day lol. Therapist this morning asked if we’d like to split the session up and see him again after we’d hopefully heard from the agents. Was a good call cause we had nothing to say this morning and lots of enthusiasm this afternoon! 🥹 SO HAPPY. 🤞🤞🤞🥹🥹🥹
April 24, 2025 at 3:35 PM
River house accepted our offer 🥹😭🥹😭🥹 in very shock.
April 24, 2025 at 12:56 PM
Slept from 10-5 for the first time in years. Felt awful for it and now we think we’ve got a bug 😭 explains the long sleep. Viewing a couple of houses tomorrow and have the final ND writers thing on Sunday so hoping it’s not too bad 😭 at least it will pass the time but meh lol.
April 18, 2025 at 3:53 PM
Being very mental about river house. Our offer is the lowest of 3, but we can go higher than those, & there are a bunch more viewings tomo/Sun. Spoke to the agents again & they said can call on Monday to find out what the situation is. Trying to prepare for bad news, but there’s a sliver of hope.
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April 17, 2025 at 11:34 AM
We’ve withdrawn the offer we made a week ago and made an offer for the house with the river at the bottom of the garden!!!! 😬😬😬😬 Yesterday was tough as we had to choose between three houses all with different things we like! Argh! We hope we are successful, bc river! Kingfishers! Ducks! 🥹🤞
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April 14, 2025 at 8:52 AM
We’ve been ikea n the range just for inspo. Seen this wallpaper n honestly a bit angry the head n Ben wouldn’t let us buy a roll today 🤣 telling u all so we don’t forget when we doing decorating 🤣 - littles 🧚‍♀️🐝🌟🍭+
April 12, 2025 at 12:42 PM
River house maybe can get decent broadband, so is back on the table. Oh the conflict 😂😭
April 11, 2025 at 12:31 PM
The mobile vet was not the good news we were hoping for. It didn’t take long for Jason to work out who she was. She triggered us telling us he’s overweight and he should lose 2-3kg. The only long term solution she offered for his pain is injections that cost £85 per month. Less than ideal.
April 11, 2025 at 7:43 AM
Spend much of the night pondering the river house and asked Ben this morning to find the reason why it’s a definite no. And it doesn’t have good internet. Which is a definite no. So sad. Viewing some other no houses and the house we’ve made an offer on again today. Tired.
April 11, 2025 at 7:41 AM
A house has come up that has a river at the bottom of the garden 😮 it’s actually a really good size, has most of what we want, is affordable, but too far out of town really 😭 and we’d be worried about flooding. But that would be very cool.
April 10, 2025 at 12:13 PM
A vet’s coming to see Jase soon. We’ve been going to the same vets forever but Jason gets so stressed we investigated mobile vets. Figured scans won’t tell us anything we don’t know (we know he’s got arthritis and old injuries in both shoulders) so hopefully she’ll examine him & prescribe pain meds🤞
April 10, 2025 at 12:08 PM
Jason refused his morning walk this morning and is saying it really is past his afternoon walk time and is a bit mad with his mum(s) for lying in bed when it’s past walk time and he has important sniffing to do. But it’s so hard to get up 😭 managed a short nap and just been lying for 45 mins.
April 9, 2025 at 1:47 PM
Horrible night’s sleep. It’s been extra bad for a couple of weeks since the house business kicked off but last night there was so much worrying about everything, we were up for about 3.5 hours in the night & cried a lot. It’s just such a big decision when we could live in this house for 40 years.
April 9, 2025 at 7:18 AM
Visited the geese today. Was nice to see Geoff and her friends! No big house news but we organised another viewing for the weekend. Not sure which we like more - house 1 is nicer but house 2 has things we’d really like that 1 doesn’t. (Two loos 🤣, south facing, bigger garden, adjoining & dry garage)
April 8, 2025 at 6:06 PM
We’re delighted to announce that our friends, Dissociative Wisdom, will be blogging from our website. They are a DID system who needed a safe space to share their experiences anonymously due to their history of RAMCOA. Here’s their first post 🥹 www.didwewrite.co.uk/post/dissoci...
Dissociative Wisdom - An introduction
A discovery and healing journey from the depth of a manufactured systemTW: RAMCOA, ritual abuse, mind control, organised abuse, programming, OEA, organised extreme abuse, trafficking, sexual abuseFirs...
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April 8, 2025 at 3:26 PM
Finished a jigsaw. Made an offer on a house. WE’RE FINE 😂😬 It’s fine. Just think about the jigsaw. That’s all. Just finished a jigsaw. Nothing major.
April 7, 2025 at 3:27 PM
Leffe now do a 0% and it’s really nice (there are several small people disagreeing inside lol). Hope everyone is having a nice afternoon in the sun. We loved yesterday’s house we viewed but have another definitely maybe to view next Friday. It’s gonna be a long and mental week 🤣
April 6, 2025 at 2:35 PM
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No toxic positivity. It's ok to have a temper tantrum when expectations & dreams are imploding. Have the pity party, but set a timer. Grieve old perceptions of the world, process the death of dreams, frameworks & paradigms.
April 6, 2025 at 12:47 PM
Didn’t know these flowers are leaves, we see it now! 💚🌷
April 5, 2025 at 9:52 AM
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85,000 signatures for our ban driven grouse shooting petition – thank you 🙏

Only 15K more to go to trigger a Parliamentary debate. Please keep signing and sharing govpetition.uk/p/700036 ✍️
April 5, 2025 at 8:55 AM