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Deftnerd
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Love my kids, travel, tech, justice, kindness, and empathy. Neurodiverse (ADHD, ASD). DeftNerd.com for contact info. Located in Ithaca, NY
Or go malicious compliance! Get a backpack and cut off the straps and replace them with some paracord. 😂
February 28, 2025 at 3:28 PM
You could use this as an opportunity for a fun weekend art project with her. Get some cool fabric and make one, and get some awesome patches and buttons and pins and stuff. Maybe even sew on some pockets to make it more of a backpack with a drawstring top.
February 28, 2025 at 3:27 PM
They forgot one of my favorites... 45 minutes (10 hour version available too!) of Nick Offerman just staring at you while drinking whiskey.
Nick Offerman's 'Yule Log'
YouTube video by Lagavulin: My Tales of Whisky
www.youtube.com
December 3, 2024 at 3:29 AM
Even a regular podcast update makes me feel "Uggh, I don't have time for this but I have to listen because I never miss an episode"... when they drop an unrelated episode it feels even more stressful because the people I silently pledged to pay attention to are now saying to pay attention to others.
December 3, 2024 at 2:13 AM
I always struggled with a good gender neutral group pronoun. I alternate between "y'all" (I am originally from Texas) and "comrades". I do like using "comrade" as a catch-all pronoun when I'm unsure of or worry that I've forgotten someones personal preference.
December 2, 2024 at 2:25 PM
Agnes Obel is amazing!
December 2, 2024 at 1:45 PM
Considering Mark Zuckerberg just dined at Mar-A-Lago and metaphorically "kissed the ring" of Trump, I don't have much expectation that FB will turn into a sane platform anytime soon.
December 1, 2024 at 8:31 AM
Found one at bsky.app/profile/kink... (found via an automated directory at blue.mackuba.eu/labellers/)
The labels aren't exhaustive at the moment, but it's not a bad start!
blue.mackuba.eu
November 30, 2024 at 6:30 AM
One of the best things I bought in the last few years was a set of wireless temperature sensors I keep in my fridge and freezer, with a temperature display magnetically stuck to the front of the fridge. It's astonishing how many people don't adjust their fridge temp right! (35f fridge, 0f freezer)
November 30, 2024 at 12:37 AM
Dude, someone on your staff has mad LEGO skills. Very cool 🙂
November 30, 2024 at 12:20 AM
It is gross... but it's because "ladyboy" is strongly associated with trans Filipinos who are sex workers... once again, some people keep conflating trans folk's mere existence as being something inherently sexual.
November 26, 2024 at 6:19 PM
Good to see you here... way too many Russian bots and sympathizers over on Twitter.
November 25, 2024 at 4:21 AM
📌
November 24, 2024 at 3:36 AM