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Marcello
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Writer. Former chef and restaurateur. Devoted to my wife, kids, and chicken cutlets. Usually in that order.

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Marcello @defeo.io · May 14
@bsky.app friends,
I've spent a long time trying to figure out my place in the world. I think my empathy, words, and truth can be reminders that you are not alone. My voice is all I have, and I want to put it to use at defeo.io

If you would be willing to subscribe, I'd be incredibly appreciative.
The Last Meritocracy | Marcello De Feo | Substack
Grew up in kitchens, raised in old-school newsrooms, and humbled by dev teams. I write about the lives I’ve lived and the ones I’m still figuring out. Click to read The Last Meritocracy, by Marcello D...
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Lost in spacetime
A crisis of consciousness and identity
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November 16, 2025 at 2:31 AM
If we're being honest
If we're being honest
When the definition of self has nothing to do with who you are, it's a problem.
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September 18, 2025 at 5:12 AM
I can see the Ducks signing Carter Hart. If they're shitty enough to hire Joel Quenneville, they won't have any issues adding Hart either.
September 16, 2025 at 4:32 PM
Did we forgot?
We promised we never would. I think we did.
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September 12, 2025 at 12:47 AM
Pimping myself out:

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Honest essays on anxiety, neurodivergence, and the everyday mess of being human — written to make sure you never feel alone.
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September 9, 2025 at 3:42 PM
Campfire weather is right around the corner. So, this Triple Chocolate S'mores ice cream was a natural next choice to make for @dadyolks.food.

Also, my son requested it, and there's no way I was going to say no to him.
September 6, 2025 at 3:23 AM
Fig and Mascarpone Gelato freshly churned and headed into the freezer.

I know two things:
1. This is delicious
2. I am going to gain 100 pounds making all this food for @dadyolks.food
September 4, 2025 at 3:15 AM
Whining about a first-world problem
Time to get out the world's tiniest violin
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September 2, 2025 at 7:13 PM
The Great Imposter
Sometimes fact trumps syndrome
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August 30, 2025 at 1:07 AM
My first ever project guitar: a J. Mascis Jazzmaster from Sweetwater. Shielded it, swapping in Tone Shaper electronics, added a Fender saddle bridge and Classic Player Tailpiece, and putting on a Decoboom pick guard. Really excited to finish this up and post pics of the final product.
August 8, 2025 at 3:56 AM
Failing with fire: A reflection on burnout, growth, and slowing down
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Failing with fire
A reflection on burnout, growth, and slowing down
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August 6, 2025 at 3:23 AM
Not the most exciting picture, but part of my plan with @dadyolks.food is to come up with ways to save cash & minimize waste.

I bought 4 $5 Costco rotisserie chickens, broke them down, and turned them entrees, soups, and snacks.

Was it haute cuisine? No, just easy recipes with virtually no waste.
August 5, 2025 at 1:27 AM
Pickling is such an easy and great way to add flavor and a new dimension to food. Excited to publish some pickling recipes on @dadyolks.food soon!
August 3, 2025 at 5:21 PM
Here are some par cooked fries I prepped today. I'm going to start simple with my first recipe for @dadyolks.food and go with the world's most universally loved food: French Fries.

(Sorry pizza.)
August 2, 2025 at 12:11 AM
On the provenance of self
Physics holds us together, language defines our reality
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July 25, 2025 at 7:28 PM
This is one of the earliest pieces I began writing but I kept pushing it aside. I don't mind showing my vulnerability, but casting a dark shadow on myself is scary.

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I'm sorry for what I said, or did, or thought
Ignorance is a starting place for growth
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July 18, 2025 at 8:11 PM
Do what you love.
An unanswered call
To love what you do, you must do what you love.
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July 3, 2025 at 7:33 PM
The Flyers didn't botch anything here. The Islanders are in a much better spot after an insanely good draft and that makes them a more appealing option. Making a blind decision, anyone would do the same.
Top KHL free agent Maxim Shabanov is heading to the New York Islanders! 🔵🟠
July 3, 2025 at 1:02 AM
The ants
A formic-able opponent can get under your skin.
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June 26, 2025 at 8:55 PM