The world is full of individuals, who live within and may or may not harness systems of subjugation. So, we have to do our best to find the outline of that system while understanding that the people within it are too complex for us to avoid getting hurt. I know it’s scary but, respectfully, grow up.

in a similar vein, the discourse around Chinese takeout in the UK and Ireland is just a bunch of really obtuse people refusing to accept that everyone is eating variations of semi-soggy deep fried meat drenched in sauce

i also unknowingly received the Fabio cover from ThriftBooks for about two bucks, which brings me a lot of joy. i don’t even find him attractive, these covers are just fun to have lol