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Dave LR
@davelr.bsky.social
Kinda nerdy. Kinda tired.
Very gay. Very thirsty.
31 and injured. Self-proclaimed blob.
I know a few straight guys who drive me up the wall with stuff like this because: (1) they know I have the hots for them, and (2) they revel in the attention I give them.

Sometimes I do wish they swung that way, but the allure of chasing the unattainable is more intoxicating.

I need help LOL!
Quotes (texts) from my straight coworkers who became my friends:

#1 “You’re lucky I don’t swing that way or I’d be having you call me daddy” …

#2 “If I was into men … you’d be all mine”
December 1, 2025 at 12:58 AM
Reason number 1,492,403 why I’m a sad, depressed, potato.

Seeing all the big, muscly guys around here does help with me spiralling further, so there’s that 😬😬😬
Saving for a house deposit as a single person is sooooo damn hard 😫
November 25, 2025 at 12:31 AM
One thing I realised after watching Frankenstein in the theatre is that I really am a monster/eldritch fucker.

I don’t really know what that says about me 🥹🥹🥹
a woman in a purple hat and scarf is looking at a man in a white suit .
ALT: a woman in a purple hat and scarf is looking at a man in a white suit .
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October 29, 2025 at 11:28 AM
Queer BlueSky: how old were you when you came out and how old are you now?

Came out when I was 21, and I’m almost 32 now. Still has its challenges, but I think I’m in a much happier place now than I was back then.
Queer BlueSky: how old were you when you came out and how old are you now?

Came out as Bi when i was 21, came out as Gay at age 39, and I’m now 43.
Queer BlueSky: how old were you when you came out and how old are you now?

I started the process when I was 30, and I’m 43 now.
October 29, 2025 at 8:17 AM
I mean, let’s be real. I’ll always compliment muscly guys on how big they are, as often as they need to be told. I’m all for healthy, positive feedback.

Big > compliment > dopamine > gym > bigger… and repeat the cycle ad infinitum.

I’m also small enough for size differences to be more apparent.
If you don't tell a muscle boy how big his muscles look every couple of hours they will cry (and then go back to the gym to get bigger hoping you'll notice next time).
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October 29, 2025 at 8:15 AM
I know it’s a little self-serving to think myself as a green flag, but after a guy I was scheduling a date with said that my vulnerability was a red flag, I’m not so sure anymore.

Pissed him off trying to counter-point and it all fell apart, so the date never happened. Small blessings, I think.
October 26, 2025 at 2:23 AM
I feel personally attacked but also, where is the lie? 😂😂😂 I’m living the amorphous blob life out here
October 26, 2025 at 2:18 AM
Make them chonky again!
holding a chonky boy
October 25, 2025 at 2:04 AM
Very much so, very much so.
manifesting this every day
August 25, 2025 at 6:36 AM
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stepped on stage. beyond proud. beyond tired. love you all xxx
June 28, 2025 at 4:36 PM
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May 30, 2025 at 11:35 PM
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May 23, 2025 at 11:34 PM
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May 17, 2025 at 12:08 AM
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May 10, 2025 at 12:47 AM
I would watch Eurovision, but so long as they still allow a certain country to perform while engaged in genocide, I’ll sit it out. They already got booed hard last year and it was glorious. Love the camp energy, though!
May 7, 2025 at 3:48 PM
Elections are happening too! Go vote! 🗳️🗳️🗳️
May 3, 2025 at 1:48 AM
Something something something phone listening to me talking about how I got dumped something something… and then proceeds to show me this. Not really into harnesses, but the body it’s on? Will be on my knees begging
April 27, 2025 at 2:18 AM
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April 25, 2025 at 11:52 PM
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*thousands of people.

nicola coughlan did a wonderful thing launching the fundraiser - and around 8000 people (and counting) put their money where their love for the trans community is.
April 20, 2025 at 8:08 AM
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April 19, 2025 at 12:40 AM
Me whenever I meet with friends whom I haven’t seen in a long time. Some piping hot tea and I love it
they’re having some tea
April 13, 2025 at 1:50 AM
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April 11, 2025 at 11:02 PM
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April 4, 2025 at 11:35 PM
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March 29, 2025 at 12:44 AM
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March 22, 2025 at 12:45 AM