"providers will game the system" my sibling in divinity, providers already game the system, what do you mean

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I'm not even sure what the consequences of this are, but they certainly aren't anything good, given how that men are generally more violent than women. Why exactly do women make violent men so violently angry? I think that's where the mother comes in, and her role in the perpetuation of patriarchy.

Under the logic of patriarchy, men *cannot be* sexually assaulted by a woman. It's not that women wouldn't or shouldn't, but *can't*. So what even counts? How do you clarify that? You don't even truly understand the survey question, it's not like a woman ever stuck anything up your as.

-- what happened. They do not have the language. They *do not have the words* to *articulate to themselves* their victim status.

And to be honest with all of you, I think men and boys experience sexual violence at the hands of women more often than is statistically provable.

God, I don't even know how to articulate it. It's certainly distinct from being forcibly penetrated, but it doesn't feel any cleaner, but none of that is the point.

The point is, when men experience sexual violence at the hands of women, they don't have any capacity, literally, to understand --

What's the harm? He probably wanted it anyway, you know how men are. The victim of the assault in both scenarios experiences similar levels of trauma (tho there is something to be said for the enhanced vulnerability of being penetrated instead of forced to penetrate, but that's another conversation)

-- walks away? Frankly, in our perception of men as a society, it's seen as less damaging to them as it is to women when it happens in the reverse. Because sex is something women are to be literally subjected to and resist, and sex is something men are supposed to pursue relentlessly, well.

-- feminine trait, because being desired is perceived to be the lower position in the desire-subject/object relationship.

Women aren't supposed to want sex at all, while men are supposed to want sex all the time.

So what happens when, say, a woman does get a very drunk man hard, fucks him, and --

-- language afforded to both of these classes.

What this implies is that women are divorced from their ability to articulate their own feelings of desire *for men* as much as men are unable to articulate the idea of being desirable at all.

This is obviously disastrous. Desirability is a --

The fundamental difference between male and female socialization (which yes, is a thing) is the language you are granted to *articulate* these emotions.

The emotion of desire is only allowed to be experienced one way. Men get subject to object, whereas women get object to subject, this is the --

Fear, love, anger, joy, desire are universal experiences by simple virtue of being emotion. These can eventually be crushed out of you, of course, but the presence of the emotion is antecedent to the punishment meant to drive out that emotion, ergo, it is experienced.

If someone tells you they have access to a big boom, they're a federal agent

Yeah, shit sucks, but! Things are changing, and fast. My conservative leaning shop is proving pretty easy to unionize, like. Material conditions always come around

Women are, of course, in danger by interacting with these deranged individuals, and men are much less so. Men need to be the first ones to reach out to them, show them a better way, and then direct them towards feminist thinkers once they're willing to listen to them

This is a lie. But remember, these boys are being driven insane. They'll take anything, and to be frank, saying the things happening to them are actually their fault and they are unworthy of empathy unless they somehow, out of the ether, grow one is self-defeating.

So, you've got children locked inside the home with an abusive father, and then an influencer dickhead comes along and capitalizes on their pain, saying it's for their own good. If they become the man of the past, violent and oppressive, you'll get the reward of a past, a woman to ease the pain.