Beanz
@daonlybeanz.bsky.social
Chaotic neutral and fed up with taking the blame for crap that I was born into 🖕🏻
You know why people get irate when they don’t understand? It’s usually because the information is being given in a condescending tone. Maybe ask yourself before replying to someone “are they GENUINELY asking, or are they just being a dick”
Tune in next Monday on “HOW TO COMMUNICATE”
Tune in next Monday on “HOW TO COMMUNICATE”
May 12, 2025 at 2:53 PM
You know why people get irate when they don’t understand? It’s usually because the information is being given in a condescending tone. Maybe ask yourself before replying to someone “are they GENUINELY asking, or are they just being a dick”
Tune in next Monday on “HOW TO COMMUNICATE”
Tune in next Monday on “HOW TO COMMUNICATE”
Might as well just keep to myself because I clearly don’t understand anything and am nothing but an idiot. Thank you internet stranger 🖕🏻
May 12, 2025 at 2:46 PM
Might as well just keep to myself because I clearly don’t understand anything and am nothing but an idiot. Thank you internet stranger 🖕🏻
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With PTSD, the most idiotic things ( left on “read” for example) could be a trigger for a person. If someone openly mentions that what you are doing is a trigger, please stop doing it. We are saying that because we know our dark side, and have to bring ourselves out of it, you don’t have to.
May 8, 2025 at 10:58 AM
With PTSD, the most idiotic things ( left on “read” for example) could be a trigger for a person. If someone openly mentions that what you are doing is a trigger, please stop doing it. We are saying that because we know our dark side, and have to bring ourselves out of it, you don’t have to.
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Some needs this hammered home. SIGH
May 6, 2025 at 7:21 AM
Some needs this hammered home. SIGH
Everyone needs to wake up and realizes that the problem isn’t even “us vs them” it’s the consistent thinking that you (in the general sense) know your opposition… no you don’t. You know “me” (your own ego) and you are projecting your opinions onto your opposition… chew, swallow, digest.
May 4, 2025 at 6:52 AM
Everyone needs to wake up and realizes that the problem isn’t even “us vs them” it’s the consistent thinking that you (in the general sense) know your opposition… no you don’t. You know “me” (your own ego) and you are projecting your opinions onto your opposition… chew, swallow, digest.
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I was today years old when I learned there’s an actual name for the intense fear of bees…
Melissophobia or Apiphobia
Melissophobia or Apiphobia
April 29, 2025 at 2:36 PM
I was today years old when I learned there’s an actual name for the intense fear of bees…
Melissophobia or Apiphobia
Melissophobia or Apiphobia
One thing that I wish people could have explained better was the “triggers don’t go away, they become easier to handle” part of healing.
It is a struggle when you’re trying to finish the job and the state of “home” is going into worse shape and deeper into the triggering actions than the OG trauma
It is a struggle when you’re trying to finish the job and the state of “home” is going into worse shape and deeper into the triggering actions than the OG trauma
April 26, 2025 at 1:16 PM
One thing that I wish people could have explained better was the “triggers don’t go away, they become easier to handle” part of healing.
It is a struggle when you’re trying to finish the job and the state of “home” is going into worse shape and deeper into the triggering actions than the OG trauma
It is a struggle when you’re trying to finish the job and the state of “home” is going into worse shape and deeper into the triggering actions than the OG trauma
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"Why are spiders so smart?"
"They can find everything on the web."
"They can find everything on the web."
April 21, 2025 at 11:01 PM
"Why are spiders so smart?"
"They can find everything on the web."
"They can find everything on the web."
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“We are, each of us, largely responsible for what gets put into our brains, for what, as adults, we wind up caring for and knowing about. No longer at the mercy of the reptile brain, we can change ourselves.”
- Carl Sagan, Cosmos
- Carl Sagan, Cosmos
April 22, 2025 at 1:16 PM
“We are, each of us, largely responsible for what gets put into our brains, for what, as adults, we wind up caring for and knowing about. No longer at the mercy of the reptile brain, we can change ourselves.”
- Carl Sagan, Cosmos
- Carl Sagan, Cosmos
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Just been re-watching mythbusters (it’s a comfort show for me) and the Newtons Cradle experiment with the wrecking balls, there was a flaw in the design of the experiment set up.
The wrecking balls were being held by a singular point, in a newtons cradle… the swinging balls are held by two points.
The wrecking balls were being held by a singular point, in a newtons cradle… the swinging balls are held by two points.
April 18, 2025 at 2:44 PM
Just been re-watching mythbusters (it’s a comfort show for me) and the Newtons Cradle experiment with the wrecking balls, there was a flaw in the design of the experiment set up.
The wrecking balls were being held by a singular point, in a newtons cradle… the swinging balls are held by two points.
The wrecking balls were being held by a singular point, in a newtons cradle… the swinging balls are held by two points.
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I see it. I have lived it. 83 years ago, the U.S. government turned upon a group of its own citizens and residents and sent them to internment camps without due process. I was there among them. American fascism is back. It is here. It is now.
April 15, 2025 at 8:30 PM
I see it. I have lived it. 83 years ago, the U.S. government turned upon a group of its own citizens and residents and sent them to internment camps without due process. I was there among them. American fascism is back. It is here. It is now.
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You are not helpless. You've been conditioned to believe you are helpless in response to triggers-- but that programming was laid down by bullies & abusers, possibly including people who said they "love" you, who don't really know you or want to see you succeed.
April 15, 2025 at 10:10 PM
You are not helpless. You've been conditioned to believe you are helpless in response to triggers-- but that programming was laid down by bullies & abusers, possibly including people who said they "love" you, who don't really know you or want to see you succeed.
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